How can you tell if an outgoing girl is actually interested or if she's just being friendly/polite?
Try asking her to do do stuffs with you like studying together, eating snacks, coffee or watching movies. If she likes you, she'll go with you. If she can't go with you she'll tell you her free time to do it with you. If he turns you down, he doesn't like you. Don't be upset if she doesn't like you, at least you won't be wasting your time and effort anymore to a girl not interested with you. Girls like boys who know what they want. Girls doesn't like making them guess.
How many GIRLS actually would be interested in SEEing IT?
So i am a guy, and sunday my gf's best friends were over so i walked into the room with my boxers on and i did not have in erection, its just my boxers had a bit of a bulge. So my gf's friends were just giggleing, i left after that. Later that night my gf came to me and said they were discussing about my penis. ( my girlfriend has seen my penis be4). I am a 9 3/4". So my gf said if i could show them it this saturday. She said not many girls are lucky enough to c that size of a penis. So i want ur opinions girls, would u really be interested to c my penis knowing it 9 3/4" long ???? Girls only, and no rude answers!!!
Is she actually interested or am I wasting my time?
You are looking at your situation way to logically. This is very common for a male. We may fall in love as some would say but no one can define love because its different for everyone. if you are falling for this girl emotionally then please do so. you need to find someone that fights for your heart as much as you fight for theirs. This will be hard to understand at first. This understanding will come with time. If she falls for you look after her and have a balanced relationship. Between bettering yourself for your life and in your relationship. Also focus on what key things she loves and has an interest in. I'm sure she has a favorite drink or even preference of music. Aid her wants as she should be doing the same for you. live for each other and share your lives. Don't be consumed by the relationship. Become best friends and build a emotional foundation. You will have to know what she actually means when she says okay and I'm alright. Understand her personality and tone of voice when she tells you NO! I could sit here and give you countless tips but most of us still have to learn the hard way. If you would like to read more comment below! Thanks for the read! Cheers.
Is she actually interested or am I wasting my time?
You are looking at your situation way to logically. This is very common for a male. We may fall in love as some would say but no one can define love because its different for everyone. if you are falling for this girl emotionally then please do so. you need to find someone that fights for your heart as much as you fight for theirs. This will be hard to understand at first. This understanding will come with time. If she falls for you look after her and have a balanced relationship. Between bettering yourself for your life and in your relationship. Also focus on what key things she loves and has an interest in. I'm sure she has a favorite drink or even preference of music. Aid her wants as she should be doing the same for you. live for each other and share your lives. Don't be consumed by the relationship. Become best friends and build a emotional foundation. You will have to know what she actually means when she says okay and I'm alright. Understand her personality and tone of voice when she tells you NO! I could sit here and give you countless tips but most of us still have to learn the hard way. If you would like to read more comment below! Thanks for the read! Cheers.
Is she interested or nah ?
It sounds like there is a good possibility that she is interested. Try, during a conversation, touching her arm or shoulder lightly, just for a second or two, in a natural way, as you are making a point. When a girl likes a boy, her insides will get all fluttery if you touch her. If she likes you, when you touch her you will probably see her try to hide a smile and maybe even blush, and she will keep her arm/shoulder/whatever you touched available. If she doesn't like you, then she will get uncomfortable and shift her arm/shoulder/whatever you touched away so you can't reach it as well, and she will probably hurriedly end the conversation. When getting her number, try and see if she will agree to work together with you on homework for the class (or if you're not allowed to work together on homework, ask if you can study together). Say something like "Hey, I've been kinda having trouble with the homework, have you been having trouble too?" If she says yes, tell her "Hmmm, maybe we could work together on it to help each other. Would you want to do that?" Then you have an open avenue to get her number to call her and set up a time outside of school that you can work together. If she says no, she hasn't been having trouble, then tell her "Oh, well I am having a little bit of trouble. Hey since you are so good at it, could you help me sometime with my homework?" Then again, you have an open avenue to get her number to set up a time for meeting. If she isn't interested in you, she will make up some sort of excuse as to why she doesn't want to/can't meet with you outside of school. As far as Instagram, just tell her in person "Hey I was on Instagram the other day and I saw your name on there!" and if she wants you to add her, she will say something like "Oh cool, you have an Instagram too? You should add me as a friend!"
How can you tell if a stripper is actually interested in you and not your wallet?
For me personally, I couldn't tell if my gf (a dancer) was interested in me the first time I met her at the club. She seemed to flirt much more than the other dancers but also looked a little shy towards me. Anways the next time i saw her about a month or month and a half down the road she came right up to me when i entered the club and hung out with me pretty much the whole time we spent there. I eventually had her treat me to a dance in the vip room. During the first song she started letting me touch her which is usually a no no in this type of environment. During the second song she started getting really close to my face and rubbing her nose on mine. I definitely had a feeling that when she danced for me it was a lot more intimate than others that have. I knew she wanted me to kiss her so i just went for it and we didn't stop until the end of the third song. I told her that i thought she was beautiful and that i wanted to get to know her better. I gave her my number and asked her if she'd like to get some lunch/dinner sometime. She called me the next day and the rest is history. She is the sweetest girl i've ever dated and is clean as a whistle. Anyways I guess the only way to really tell is intuition or if she really is sending you strong signals. On the other hand i was very skeptical i was getting sucked in at first because of how much she was going the extra mile. Make a distinction and see if she is being genuine or just doing her job. I hope this helps you out and good luck. Not all dancers are bad women. Some are but it's usually pretty easy to weed them out. Good luck man I hope everything goes well.
Can't tell is she's shy or not really interested?
I think you have just answered your own question. She's SHY! Why would a girl have a photo of the two of you as her screen saver, spend time with you, agree to go on a date with you, flirt with you, Ect, if she DIDN'T like you...? I'll tell you something about women. They take a LOOOooooongg time to warm up! She probably wants to take things slow because she has a huge about of worries going on like....1. do really like him (as a woman i can tell you that sometimes 'admiration' can be misinterpreted as a crush) 2. Am I good enough for him. 3. How are my friends going to react to this 4. How are my parents going to react to this 5. What happens if we get serious 6. What happens if we have a fight 7. do I want to make myself vulnerable again 8. do i feel comfortable enough with my body to share it with him 9. is sex going to be painful/ awkward? 10. What if he gets to know the real me and he doesn't like it 11. what part of my life will i have to push aside to enter a new relationship... blah blah blah blah... GIRLS think these things before the first date!! They go on their feelings AND logic, and considerations of everything, and thats why it takes so long for them to warm up. but keep showing her you can be trusted and eventually things will be really hot between you two ;)
Is she playing me or is really interested in me? What do I do?
The answer depends on how you feel about her. There are only two possible modes when a girl interacts with a guy: 1) she can be his toy or 2) she can be his treasure. You've all seen a little boy play with a truck. He pushes it this way and that, then, when he gets tired of it, he throws it away and grabs another toy. It is very hard on girls when boys get tired of them and throw them away. It is very wrong for a man to toy with a woman, but a lot of women permit this, so boy s keep doing it.If you think there's a good chance she might be a life partner, you could do what I did after I'd talked with my wife for a couple of hours when we first met - I told her I was going to date her, details here:What My Wife Told Me Before We Were MarriedWhen I did that, the wheels turned behind her eyes for a few seconds, she gulped, and said, "Yes." As a woman, she was more interested in being wanted than in wanting.She acknowledged my claim on her, but she laid out a few terms and conditions which are described above, specifically that I acknowledge that she was a treasure and not a toy, using those exact words. We've been married since 1971. It worked because I wanted her strongly enough to meet her terms and conditions, she wanted to be wanted, and because she really did want to be a treasure for her husband.There's an old saying, "It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that ZING!" The zing is the man's desire for one specific woman. If it isn't there, there's no way to make it happen.You wouldn't want to do that unless you were very attracted to her, but if you are, it may be that she wants a man who wants her badly.Although I didn't know it, she worked very hard not to let herself love me until after we were married.Proverbs 4:23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.She knew that she would love me once we were married, but she carefully kept her heart until after I had committed myself to take care of her. That way, she could pull away without hurting herself if it turned out that she and I weren't suited for each other.