My mom thinks there is something wrong with me...?
Okay, so I have a problem, I think? My mom hates who I am now. She says i'm anti-sociable and she hates who I've become. She thinks it's because of my piercings, my clothes, and what music I listen too ( A day to remember, Asking Alexandria, NeverShoutNever etc...). She has threatened me by saying she would send me to my dad (He's a strict christian.), who will change my so called "attitude" if I don't stop whatever is pissing her off. I don't know why I don't like being around other people! I just feel that it's best if i'm alone... But apparently, there's something wrong with being that way... I don't know what to do. I don't want to change who I am, I just need a solution for her to accept me. If anyone can, please reply to this. Also. I'm 15. I do believe in a "Higher Source of Power", just not the christian "God" ( I think it's a joke, honestly) so I don't want a religious answer. Thanks.
Okay my mom thinks somethings wrong with me?
My mom thinks their is something wrong with the way i act and think but i find it normal for most people around my age. (12-18) Anyways these are the things she has pointed out that she thinks is "abnormal" for people my age. 1) I don't like being with family 2) I get angry over small things such as, wanting to smash somebodies head against the wall for walking in front of the t.v 3) Not wanting to go back to school (i'm homeschooled) 4) Getting rid of all my friends and only talking to my cousin 5) Self harm, not so much cutting myself more like scratching my legs (not like when you have an itch) and slapping my face 5) Taking too long showers, just like standing under cold water and not doing anything or making any noise 6) Crying when under pressure 7) Saying i hate my dad (i think that's normal because he left us to live in a big house with his girlfriend) 8) Telling people to burn in a fire and die in a hole Okay some of them are a little abnormal but the majority of them are normal right? I just need another person's opinion on this
I think there's something wrong with my mom...?
I know we should love and cherish our moms, but you wouldn't if you had my mom for a mother. First of all, she's a hypocrite. "Oh, we're going to Walmart tomorrow and buy you a Wii!" Nope. "Oh... I woke up late." When you can her playing on the iPhone at at least 9 in the morning. Second, she is a biga*s snitch. When I accidently leave some spoon in the sink, she starts yelling, and when my dad comes home, she starts sighing, and my dad asks her whats wrong, and she completely morphs the story into something worse. And if those don't provoke my dad, she adds another problem that has to do with me, and it usually ends up with yelling and consequences. Third, I think she's bipolar. I mean, one minute, she's perfectly fine, talking about how good life is, then, (this is just one example of the many) when I'm watching TV, she starts yelling while she's cooking, and I have to do something. Then she goes on about how useless I am, I don't really think I'm useless. I rake the yard without anyone knowing, I do my laundry, I get A's in school, I'm a good kid (not to sound cocky). Then, I'm standing around adjusting the dog's stuff, and she comes out of nowhere and smacks me in the head. (THIS IS TRUE.) "GO GET YOUR DINNER DO I HAVE TO CARRY IT HERE TO YOU YOU USELESS B*TCH!!!" Okay, she didn't curse, but she said everything else. Oh, and did I mention she has anger spasms? I mean, there's like, not much, if any, stress she can have. Theres like, at least 100 more I can name but you get the idea. Please tell me how to deal with this. I have to deal with her for 6 more years. I can't take that.
What is something that your mom was wrong about?
she argues badly with me about my father.my mother and father are same i can’t live ignoring anyone.so i hate this act.
My mom thinks there's something wrong with me?
I'm a 17 year old girl, and I am very disorganized and forgetful. I don't mean to be, I try to be clean but I am just a naturally messy person and have been this way since I was a kid. I often leave things lying around the house, and my mom is a neat freak and always says that there's something wrong with me because i'm forgetful. She also thinks i'm weird because i'm more introverted than her and only have a few friends, so on the weekends I rarely go out, and i'm not exactly popular so it's not like I could if I wanted to. She always says things like 'i'm starting to wonder if there is something wrong with you' if i'm too messy. I have internalized this a lot, and I always feel anxious and think that people think i'm weird because she always calls me weird. Does it sound like there is something wrong with me? I am a very creative person and I write a lot, i'm always imagining things to write or create, so i'm often not paying attention to the little things like cleanliness and am absent minded.
Is there something wrong with me? Cuz thats what my mom thinks.?
Your mom is trying to comfort you, but she's doing it badly. When she compares what you are going through to what she went through, what she's trying to say is: "I know exactly how you feel, I went through the same and worse, and don't believe those things those people say because you are beautiful, and you will survive this, just like I survived it." Unfortunately, you are getting the message from it that she's trying to trivialize what you went through. But I don't think she MEANS to do that, it's just that sometimes people don't know what the right thing to say is, so they end up saying something unhelpful. I think she's also trying to make these things seem trivial in the sense that eventually, when you are older, they will seem trivial to you. But right now they're horrible, and I'm really sorry you are going through them. The only thing I can suggest is that you watch the "It Gets Better" videos on YouTube. You're so much better than this and you will get through it.
Why does my mom always talk to me like if I did something wrong when I don't do anything bad?
That's because you are your mom's own child, she always has that possessive nature. In fact she is more intimate to you in her heart to the extent of blaming you and take your intimacy to her for granted as you are her own blood. It's like - “I can do anything with my child, who else is there to ask me anything”. She knows that you haven't anything bad. She is taking your intimacy for granted. But you can ask this question straight to her once a while.
Is there something wrong with me if I understand why my mom hits me?
Hits you. Like in the face? When I was a kid the plAce I got hit by my grandma. Was my bottom side. She never got me cause she was mad. Or for something someone did. If your getting hit on. N ur startin to understand it. You must be hit alot. Cause your getting used to it. N that isn't good. Your goin grow up to believe it's ok to hit others. N need to someone else n ur family or a friend mom/dad bout what's goin on. Try not to go to anybody at school. They will call CPS/dss. N there a good chance they will remove you from your home n family. N y'all never see them again. Make sure the person you talk to knows that too. Maybe they can talk to ur mom. U can stay with them. Til she can get some help
My mom always says there's something wrong with my hair but there isnt!!?
Sadly, many parents are also subject to cultural fashion trends and beauty standards. My heart is sore when I witness people patrolling each other's looks to make sure that it "lines up" with cultural standards, as if looks were something important, of social value, capable of somehow changing the world... I think many people spend more time, energy, and resources worrying about how they look, than they do about important issues like world hunger, homelessness, poverty, and classism. IF hair is greasy or not, the body is doing what its chemicals, hormones, genetic makeup etc is telling it to do. I'm sorry your mother, along with billions of other people, have not yet overcome such shallow fixations. My sincerest thoughts are with you. -Gabriel PS my hair is naturally greasier than some people's hair, and naturally less greasy than other people's hair. I find that it is less greasy if I use less conditioner, or none at all. And the only reason I worry about level of greasyness, is that it irritates my scalp at times and is in that way inconvenient to me.
There is something wrong with my mom mentally...why is she like this?
Move in with your dad, grandparents, or any other close relative who is willing to support you for now. and also, who is willing to treat you with respect and some dignity.