What can I do if my boyfriend said his friends are more important than me?
You have probably made the massive mistake of making him choose between you yourself and his friends. Did you? If you did, this says so much more about you than your boyfriend. Are you controlling, demanding, needy? You can find a balance between spending time with your boyfriend and spending time with others, including friends. Do you not have friends you can spend time with while your boyfriend is with his friends? I don't know the answers to those questions. I do know this though: If you give someone an ultimatum, more often than not, this will backfire. Try to strike a balance with your boyfriend. If you can't, end your relationship immediately. You can then seek someone who is similar to you in terms of relationship needs. Someone who maybe doesn't have many close friends and who would be more available to you. It's about relating to each other at the end of the day. I hope you two reach a workable compromise, I really do. Good luck and take care.
Boyfriend more important than best friend?
Ok here is the story i have a best friend, we have been friends for 4 years now or something. She just got a new boyfriend they been together only 3 weeks and she's already acting like she can't live without him. Like on msn she won't even reply to me because she'll be too busy talking to him and it's really annoying. If she writes back to me she only writes "yh" "kk" or no or something like that, she replies really short the only time she really says more is when she talks about her boyfriend. That's really bothering me. At the moment she went over to her country for a while, kind of an emergency and she even told me she misses her boyfriend more than me. She told me she would never let a guy come in between us and that she would never put a guy in front of me ... and look whats happening now after just 3 weeks. Now that shes away she hardly writes back to me on msn or bebo because she keeps taking to him on skype and bebo. It's really annoying. I don't know if it's normal or not but I think it's over the top. They are together only 3 weeks and they're telling each other they are madly in love and they can't live without each other, there never gonna let each other go and all that .. blah blah blah .. u know the type of thing I'm on about right? Can anyone give me advice on this?
What should I do if my boyfriend’s friends are more important than me? I talked it through with him many times, but it doesn’t change anything.
That’s fine, you know where you are as far as a priority. That means you’ll never be able to Yoko Ono him and break up their friendship. And perhaps he worked hard to accrue these friends who have probably been by his side through thick and thin.But that doesn’t mean you cannot have a successful relationship with him. His friends come first. I know women dislike not being a priority, but think about it- if you became a mother to his kid, you wouldn’t be his priority either, the kid would. So I say you get used to taking the back seat to his friends or future children. As long as he is faithful, there shouldn’t be any problem.
Should a boyfriend be more important to me than my other friends?
You shouldn’t need to make a choice, but yes - your boyfriend should be more important too you. He should love you enough to not make you choose. On the other hand - you shouldn’t ditch him for your friends, he will most likely be your husband on day, father to your children and a part of your family.Friends come and go, some stay true your entire life and some don’t. But your family will always be there and you can always trust them on anything. Family is the most important - and your boyfriend is family ( if you really love him and want to stay with him for the rest of your life).TL;DR : Yes he is more important , he is your love and future husband and so on. Friends are, well - friends.Edit; I belive this has alot too do with where you live in the world and your age. In my life i have friends i would call brothers, but they all know that my girlfriend and the one and only girl i love in this life, comes first - as it should ( My family will always come first!). They would never make me choose and my girlfriend would never make me choose. Your partner will become family and will be there everyday of your life and alot more than friends. Friends is nice to have - but when you move alot around or stuff happens in life, some will disappeare, and some will you usually only talk to a couple times a week. That is life.
Should a boyfriend be more important than a best friend?
My best friend and I used to be with eachother 24/7. We are very close and can talk about anything. I have known her for about 5 years and she's been my best friend for about two years. reccently though, she's fallen in love with her best guy friend. He knows that she is in love with him, but he is in love with somebody else, therefore he's not interested in her that way. I use the term "boyfriend" for just something to label him as, because thats what she wants him to be.Anyway, she hangs out with alott now, and they've been doing that for about three months. Sometimes she even ditches me for him. I really feel like this guy is more important to her than me....This guy she started being friends with like three months ago, rather than her best friend of two years. I've even talked to her about it, and she hasnt denied that she thinks he's more important. We were talking about how a boyfriend compares to a best friend, and she told me that she thinks a boyfriend should be closer to you than anyone else, and SHOULD be more important than a best friend. (Side note, she's never been in a real relationship. And also keep in mind that we are sophmores in high school, when relationships arent very serious yet.) Then, the thing that makes it worse is how her "boyfriend" hurts her alottt, like pretending to be mad at her and talking to her about who he's in love with. She says that he's gotten better though, and she thinks she made herself immune to it now. but she really does prioratize him over me...and in my opinion, thats not right. but I want to know what other people think. so, should a boyfriend be more important than a best friend? and what should i do get her to see my side? (if you agree with me)
Is your significant other more important than your best friend?
Spouses and Friends are equally important. you have to spend time together but you also have to have space. make time for both of them, have good communication, and be honest. so not hide how you are feeling from each of them. I spend 95% of my time with my fiance, so when my friend comes to town or calls, she gets 100% of my time. If I am talking to him on the phone and she call, I tell him I will have to call him back.
My best friend thinks she is more important than me?
Cut her off. She is not a friend. Especially your best? She's your worst enemy, acting like that. We accept the love that we think we deserve. Do you think you deserve to be put down? You're just there to be her punching bag because she is insecure and clearly going through a lot. But no one is more important than anyone. You're not ugly, I'm sure you're a beautiful person on the inside and out. She just wants to control your emotions and watch you feel like crap so she can feel like she has you wrapped around her finger and everything. That's being a bully. So I recommend standing up for yourself. Then leave her alone to her misery.
My boyfriend told me his friends are more important to him than i am?
so the other night me and my boyfriend got in a stupid fight and it led to him saying My friends are my important than you? it hurt me so bad. i want to be like his friend and girl and he doesnt like that. he said he has friends and then a girl.I just feel like **** because we have a good connection and get along and we are having sex but hed rather choose to hangout with his friends and he cant just make plans with me first:( what do i tell him or how am i supposed to react to this?
Which is more important to you: your best friends, or your significant other?
Oh Common!. Is that even a question? Of course our Best Friends. That’s why they are the best! Here I will show you some comics that explains why . In order also to shorten this answer, seeing this pictures answer your doubts :)Check out more comics about the Friends and Bestfriends Difference
Why are my sister’s friends and boyfriend more important than me?
I'll only speak from experience, I hope it may offer some insight.I admired my brother for being handsome, athletic and charming. I wanted to spend every day I could playing or talking with him. He made friends that would invite him places and had much more in common with him than I did and it felt like he became more distant.I asked my mum why that was and she said something that made a lot of sense.I'm his brother, I've had years of his company and share something so special only siblings can understand.Nobody will ever know you longer or better.He'd never care for his friends or ever love a girlfriend over family.She's making new friends and you ought to appreciate her happiness!She knows you love her and assumes you'd never question that regardless of whatever fight you get into or how much time you spend away.If you'd like to know how she feels and she's as important to you as I think she is…Just ask her!