What does "I don't want you to think I'm playing you" mean?
There's this guy I like and he likes me too. We've been hanging out, but not dating. And he hangs out with other girls but he puts me as a top priority (in the girl, friends list). And when I found out he went to see a movie with this one girl I kind of got distant towards him. Then when he noticed that i was giving him the cold shoulder he said " I don't want you to think I'm playing you." And when he asked if I wanted to talk about it I told him "I don't want to talk about it here" (because it was a public place). And then He said "so you so want to talk about it." Then I said "I don't want to talk about it" and walked away. Then later on he brought it up again and I said "it's none of my business." Then he said "I'm making it your business." What does that playing comment and all of this mean!?!!! Thanks
"I don't want you to think I'm leading you on"?
it means what it says. Who ever this chick is doesn't want you to think that she's looking for a relationship with you or anything of the sort. She either just wants to have fun or has been saying things she doesn't really mean. Either way, she wants you to know that she's not trying to lead you on and make you think that she is into you.
Why do some people want you to think they're rich?
If you’re talking about lying with regard to their income or wealth, that's merely insecurity. They place more significance on money than they should which clouds their self worth. Unhealthy.If you're talking aspirational posturing, that's more of a form “signaling”, commonly referred to as “fake til you make it”. It's obvious purpose is to convey (silently) that you can be trusted. It has the exact opposite effect if taken to the extreme, or mis-applied.Signaling takes form and is applied in every niche within society and sometimes leads to misunderstanding between races, culture and classes. Nomenclature, sentence structure and communication form tell others within your specific field a lot about you. If someone I don't know reaches out to me about a trade, for instance, I can tell you (with 90% certainty) everything about his status/position within that sector in one or two sentences. How does he reach out, phone, email, text, ICE messenger, WhatsApp, LinkedIn message/invite or snail mail? How does he describe desired trade, refer to the commodity or explain his position? How does she abbreviate, or bloviate certain points? Plus several others are all “tells” and things you can only learn through doing.The exact same applies in social interaction. Old money looks, acts and dresses certain ways, or has certain idiosyncrasies. Tech money people have their own social norms. New money, drug money, married money, fake money….all have their “tells”. In high profile people, if there known status doesn't match their “tells”, people get uncomfortable.Trump, for instance, clearly has money (doesn't matter how much), but his appeal among people who recognize the tells of a centimillionaire or billionaire don't feel comfortable with him. It doesn't match so, he must be poor or a criminal or a money launderer or secret agent….whatever.
How can you stop thinking about someone that doesn’t want you?
I do not believe you are thinking of him… this would mean that you think everyday of someone that does not want to be with you. So everyday in your head you have this movie playing of someone that clearly does not want to be with you. So you have to fantasize everyday about a person that says to you:“I do not want to be with you.”Now that would be a bad dream wouldn’t it? So when you think of him, you are thinking about a person that likes to be with you.But that can’t be him. Because he is very clear that he does not want to be with you.And you have stated very clear that you understand this.If it is not him… then who are you thinking about?So you waste hours with a dream… that is not coming true. About a person that actually is not him. (but your version of him which is not him)Of course… your love is real… But he isn’t.And I think… you need this… because you are not ready to cry about losing him yet.By the way… I am becoming a counseler/ therapist.Does that mean I should not respond to you?And if you don’t mind…Well then… wouldn’t you rather meet me IRL?And if that is the case…Why wouldn’t you want to meet someone like me...
Why do girls think they are better than guys?
Ok, so let me get this straight. I've talked to a lot of girls and they all believe they are better then men. But girls like to complain a lot and typically say things like this: * I'm cold * I'm hungry * I'm tired * (and my favorite) I'm bored and then expect you, the guy, to make up for it. They get mad at you for wanting to have sex with them when they don't want to, and then say that you are being pushy about it; but when they want to have sex and you are not it the mood for it they also get mad at you. If a girl doesn't get aroused it's your fault, and there are always things that you could be doing for her to make things better/easier; but when you can't get an erection, it's your fault. Girls expect a guy to have a good job so they can pay for everything, and to be able to cook and clean so that they don't have to. Girls want you to hang out with them all the time, but they also want you to respect their space. Girls want you to let them hang out with their friends, but girls don't want you to hang out with your friends. Girls can force you to watch a three hour movie that THEY want to watch, that you will do without complaint or they will get mad at you; but they wont shut the hell up during even the shortest of shows that you want to watch, and will complain the whole time and then get mad at you. So... why is that?
Why do girls that like you ignore you and be mean to you and think that it will make you like them more?
Maybe she didn't want to seem obsessive or too aggressive, so she backed off a little. Maybe she thinks guys like the thrill of the chase, and if she played a little hard to get, you'd want her more. Maybe she was just not feeling that great that day. Maybe she needed some space.
What does "think less of me" mean in English ?
yeah thats right. He/She must have done something inethical and probably seem like a really mean person on the surface. But i guess he/she probably wants you to try and understand that it was due to unforeseen circumstances and he/she had his/her reasons. So dont judge him/her (look down on that someone) just by that act he/she committed.
Why someone who want you dead want you to know how they feel or think about you? Why they do not just ignore you and wait for you to die?
Someone who is maliciously saying that they want you dead doesn't mean that they want you to die. They mean that they want you to recognize that they are suffering.Saying that you want someone dead isn't a literal desire. It's a dramatic expression of pain and need.
Women, what do you mean when you say "I want you in the worst way"?
it means 'a lot'. that's all. and there's no such thing as "the best way" unless they're making a pun on the phrase "the worst way". i think you're letting your imagination run away with you... which is ok :)