What age is the right age to have your First child?
My friend and I've been wondering this as well .. we were just sharing our thoughts on what age we think it would be best to have a child. Both of us, surprisingly, agreed at 24 (or 25). But anyhow, i wouldn't know. It's one of those things that are different for everyone i guess (depending on the situation you're in). My mom had me when she was 22 - she was still studying (after getting married) and didn't expect to have me yet.. but she finished her education (while having me) so everything turned out well. One of the advantages of having a young mom is that she was 40 when i was 18 (more or less) so we could totally share our thoughts and feelings.. etc. She wasn't too old and i wasn't too young. She was more like a very good friend rather than a mom! After I was born, my mom kept giving excuses - she said she wanted to be very stable at her job (and many other reasons) and THEN have another child. After 35 she decided that she'd finally have another child, but she couldnt. So when she COULD have another child, she didn't want to. And when she WANTED to have another child, she couldnt. (i turned out as her only child). She says this was her biggest regret since she wanted more kids.
When is the right age to have kids?
Beyond completion of higher education, there is no “right” mental age to have children, because everyone underestimates the whole experience and comes unprepared. You learn as you go.The assumption of parent-to-be during the first pregnancy is that life will carry on as usual and that they will only have to make a little extra room for the child.The reality is the complete opposite: the child’s needs comes first, and you can only extra room for the rest at odd hours.Considering the above, I would recommend to let yourself get pregnant after completing education. Emphasis on the “let” yourself get pregnant because it is much more a passive process than an active one. You cannot so easily “schedule” a pregnancy.
What do you think the right age is to start having children?
Anytime after-A-You’ve got a stable Job and Home Life, are earning enough to not only feed your, but the mother of your child and support your child.B-Are married so you don’t need to worry about the bad thoughts of your community.C-Anytime AFTER you’ve completed your graduation/Post-Graduation if that’s what you’re going for, in fact, after you’ve completed your education. You need to make TIME for your child, and the mother, which you can’t have if you’re studying and working at the same time.So, taking into account you pass out of High School at 17/18 and Get Graduated by 20/21 and a Post Graduation, if you go for that, at 22/23 and a further 2 years of your job and some more years simply getting to know what adult life is like, I should say about 27 is a good age for Children. That way you are stable, have enough experience about life, are responsible enough to take care of yourself and anyone else and most of all, actually get along with your partner.Most Children end up having a bad life in the future especially because their parents constantly argue, and fight, when they’re young. Try not to find someone that you know you’ll get along with for the rest of your life to start a family with.If you meet all the requirements, congratulations, you’re ready to have a child. If not…. well it’s up to you.
What is the ideal age to start having children?
Prior to age thirty is the medical answer.If you are a woman, your prime fertile years are ages 18–24. At age 30, your risk of birth defects, particularly trisomy 21, goes up significantly. At age 35, you are an “elderly primigravida” and there are even more serious risks. If you have your first child after age 30, your breast cancer risk increases. So for the health of yourself and your offspring, prior to age 30 is optimal. I myself planned exactly and had my first exactly one month prior to age 30. I like to beat the odds.If you are a man, there are fewer consequences to delaying paternity. However, older men have higher risks of fathering children who have certain medical problems and certainly is likely to be “part” of the reason for the growing prevalence of autism. So older fathers also bear risks for their offspring, though there is no risk to themselves. Advanced paternal age: How old is too old?The bottom line: I recommend both parents ought to be younger than 30 at first childbirth. If this is not possible, the younger the better.JOBS? Anyone who values their “career” over the health of their family is a fool. And there is never a “perfect” or an “easy” or a “good” time to have children. It is always far, far more challenging than you ever imagined.However, please be married prior to having children. Two parent families confer significant educational, financial, and social benefits to our future generation.I just think about science and proof. It might not be always popular at the moment.
What is the right age to get married?
I think there is no such “good age” or “bad age”!Please keep the below points in your mind, while taking decision for marriageFor men:Whenever you think you can take a stand for your wife in front of your parents.Whenever you think she can go to the market to purchase vegetables alone.Whenever you think you can give up some bad habits for someone's love.Whenever you think you can feed her daily even without the support of your family.Whenever you think you are tired up from these flirts, girlfriends, lusts and all other distractions.Whenever you think now you will not hesitate to buy the sanitary pad for her from your nearby shop.For women:Whenever you think now you have forgotten your ex. (applicable for both)Whenever you think you are ready to take some responsibilities.Whenever you think now you don't have to be dependent on anyone.Whenever you think cooking for the family is more important than watching serials on TV.Whenever you think Instagram stories are not more important than making delicious food for the family.Whenever you think now you can manage the office, home and family.Whenever you start knowing how to avoid flirty boss.Whenever you are okay to accept an individual in your private space.I am writing this answer after 10 months of our marriage, So don't take me wrong. Well If whether you are a boy or a girl and if you are not fulfilling all of the above points. Still, that is ok but please be ready to adapt and learn these qualities.Image source: My phone.Till the date of my marriage, I thought its too early I can’t manage life, wife, office, and home altogether.But seriously you have to, believe me, I don’t know how time is passing. It seems we got married just yesterday. Everything is fine and well managed, by the way, we had an arranged marriage.One last advice:A girl can be your worst nightmare or best friend that all depends on you, how you deal and treat her.In case you are reading my answer first time. My name is Anil Narwal.If you want to read one more interesting answer: Anil Narwal's answer to What are some great examples of coincidence?
The right age to have a baby?
I don't think there's any right or wrong age. I think certain factors have to be considered before having a baby though. The mother should be in good overall physical health and have a good weight for their body frame. Parents should have a stable source of income/job stability, and finally should be mentally prepared. My husband and I are 27 and 28 and I can't imagine myself starting a family in my teens or early twenties...but that was just us being unprepared. My mother was 16 and my dad was 20 when they had my older brother, and it couldn't have been a more stable environment. They were ready...some people aren't. Also, I'm not saying that someone who becomes pregnant unexpectedly with no planning shouldn't have a baby and can't handle it, but the factors I've mentioned certainly do help.
What is the best age for a man to start having children?
My father in law was the youngest of 8 children. His father was older when he came around and in his 40-50s when my father in law was a teen. He was too old and tired to play catch, or football. Children require energy, and LOTS of it.His own father was diagnosed with a brain tumor at 39, and passed away from it in his late 40s. Thankfully, his father chose to have children at 20-22. Because of this, my husband did not want to be an older dad. He wanted to be active and involved in raising our kids. He was 23 when we married, and 24 when our first daughter was born, with our youngest being born when he was 31.Before our first child was born, we both had completed post secondary education. I was working an excellent job, he was working part time job (intended to be a stay at home dad while the kids were young) and we owned a house and vehicle.He has been able to be very actively involved with our children. He takes them swimming, skating, rides bikes, tucks them into bed at night, etc. Being on the younger side of parenting has been fantastic. We were able to take time away from our careers early on, and now in our 30s are able to focus more on our careers and move into more predominant roles.While many of our peers our own age are just starting to have families, we are enjoying ours, travelling and making the most out of our life.I personally would say the ideal age for males to have children would be between 25-35, however -- individual circumstances definitely come into play. There is never a perfect time, but looking back you will (most likely) not regret it.
What is the right age to get pregnant? I'd like this question to be answered by people who know wht they're
well im 23 and i am on baby number 2 i was 20 when i fell pregnant with the first one and 21 when i had him and i felt i was totally ready i have always been very maternal but each individual is different if you feel you want a baby at 30-32 then so be it everybody has there own preferences and its not too old at all ! and think how many you would like! hope i helped and dont let people make you change the way you want to live your life by there opinions xx