Is There Anyone Who Can Give You Peace Of Mind

Its a balanced personality package based on right thinking having the glimpse and color of the following:1. Peace of mind is comparatively far easy for those who believe in God and life hereafter, and their actions are controlled and guided to please God, and making life hereafter. Living with this mindset all the setbacks of life, sufferings, miseries, even successes they believe are from the God Almighty. If any untoward thing happen they believe it is from the Almighty. More over they have a firm belief in Shelly’s saying, “If winter has come the spring is not far behind ”2. Additionally they believe in respecting law of the land. They avoid crimes, usurping the rights of others, and remain loyal to the organizations where they work. They believe in building their own capacity instead of relying on others or using unfair means.3. They have objectivity in life. They set goals, do step by step planning to achieve those. They know what to do and what is to be get done by others to realize the goals.4. They just believe in effort and live in the mindset of learning from the mistakes. Hence never give up as they are hopeful of bright future.5. Last but not least; helping the weak and downtrodden give them lot of inner peace and happiness. They have firm belief what they earn have the share of those who are incapacitated for one or the other reason.

No THING can bring you lasting peace of mind. Only a certain perspective.Well, abstractions aside, let me put it simply: when you seek happiness and freedom with absolute honesty and a strong drive, you'll eventually enter a process of broadening of your worldview. It usually happens quite negatively, with failures, ideas being contradicted by reality and the latent impossibility of having any control over events and people. This events have a treasure in the end if you accept them, and the treasure is progrssive freedom from your own mind. I mean, mind goes about its business as usual, but you don't believe it so much. Stopping the mind cannot be done, at least not for a useful period and without extrenuous effort, but your perspective shifts a bit everytime something you hold on to dissolves. And it will because, in the ultimate sense, they are not real. But this peace you seek is ridiculously close to every experience. So close you cannot believe it. If you experience it for a split second, you'll innevitably gonna start laughing, so ludicrous. It is something simple, but not easy. You'll have to be open enough to see through your own mental BS and willing to go through mental places you've been avoiding. This takes a strong drive to find lasting happiness, absolute honesty with yourself, willingness to look at negative feelings such as anxiety, fear, shame, and willingness to face painful memories and so on. If you want to attain peace, you cannot hide from the trash. I mean, you don't have to go digging for it, just willing to accept their manifestation.

I have seen many people who want to ensure the great peace of mind but they are unsuccessful in doing so. Because they believe that peace of mind can only be assure if you have everything fine and well under control and living away from rough hustle and unpleasant sound of the city.but it is just opposite to that,  peace of mind is a art that you can ensure by yourselves not by creating such conditions before you, but making your mind suitable for the condition.STEP TO ATTAIN THIS PRACTISE:-1. First always see your environment and analyse that what can you do to make it better and write down on your page and practise it daily and perform what you can do to make it better. result will be before you.2. always keep in mind that problem always outburst the emotions thus always silently question to your self ''can I accept this?'' and let your conscience answer this, 90% reply will be yes, but it may happen that your conscience may answer 'no', then say to yourselves "can I accept this unacceptibility" this time it is sure that reply will be yes and this will be more pleasing than direct reply of YES. I learnt this technique from the book of Tejgyan Foundation "secret of happiness", really it was tremendous book.3. always try to have an bond of love with every problem.EXAMPLE - My friend was suffering from a unknown head pressure right above the ear of both side, he had problem in studying and used to cry when he had problem of memorising the things,  he faced this problem for last 10 months but once he gave out a new thinking to this head pressure by calling it as "pressure dada". he could only has some relief he he exercise thus he used to tell me "pressure dada has taught me importance of excercise which i really didn't do" and then he had no problem in learning and side by side he has much comfort now by practising physical excercise daily and yoga. now he usually say to me ''missing pressure dada! how naughty he was."and we laugh together.thus i observed that the best solution to ensure peace of mind is compromising with situation and then finding solution and slowly all the problem will be stunned by your accepting power and then biggest of the biggest problem will be a matter of joke for you. Only outbursting put you in miserable thus before outbursting say to your self "PICTURE ABHI BAHUT BAKI HAI MERE DOST,  THIS IS MY LIFE AND I WILL LIVE!!!!!!!" and enjoy the peace of mind.

People don’t want peace of mind. People don’t want actual bliss.The only reason 99.99% people exist is to have partners in order to mate. Not everybody is gifted with intelligence/ physical strength/ beauty/ character. So, in order to find a mate they need to prove their superiority or else nobody would ever choose them. They want acknowledgement, superiority, and they want to show the inferiority of others. And this provides them happiness (albeit momentary).This flaw in the human nature is the only reason money has any value whatsoever.Consider it like this: How can a person who is not physically strong prove himself to be powerful? How can a person with ugly face and personality get a partner?“Money has ability to transform things which are absolutely false to become truth beyond doubt.”Nobody addresses a man as ugly/stupid/ characterless/ moron, if he is super rich.A man who has a lean figure with no physical strength/beauty/intellect whatsoever can only claim superiority over a man with all strength/beauty/ intellect only when the money comes into picture. It doesn’t matter how the money was earned. If you steal, cheat, commit fraud, you will become rich and you will still have a great reputation in the society.

Can I give you a piece of my mind.Hmm let me see.First I am educated so apparently I have a mind so maybe I can spare some of it.But lets dive a little further in.Even though I am educated, I decided to be a luthier (I build mostly guitars). Now I must have lost a good part of my mind if I decided to take on such a risky venture. This means that I have less of a mind then originally thought. So by extension, I may still be able to give you a piece of my mind but it will be a smaller piece of my mind.But it does not stop there. I am also a single full time father to two beautiful girls.Now parenting even as a team will drive people out of their mind and at times cause people to lose their mind. Doing this job solo only compounds those issues.So now we look at the general overall picture. I am educated and decided to pursue a career in arts, I must have lost my mind. Any of my mind that I was lucky enough to spare was consumed and or lost in the process of raising children. Being as I have not finished raising my children I am sure that before long I could be operating at a deficit.So as much as I would like to give you a piece of my mind, I do not think I have any that I can spare.