Dua to get out of situation? *Ramadan*?
".....And whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty)." Quran 65:2 " And He provides for him from (sources) he never could imagine. And if any one puts his TRUST in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For Allah will surely accomplish his purpose: verily, for all things has Allah appointed a due proportion." Quran 65:3 "......and whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make his matter easy for him." Quran 65:4 You have to believe in your heart that God is able to do all things and He never breaks his promise. If you can do that nothing will happen to you- GUARANTEED. ►You can get out of any difficulty by (1) believing in God, (2) by fearing Him alone and not fearing men, (See verse 5:44 & 9:13) and (3)by relying/putting your trust in him It's an easy thing to do for some people but difficult for others. You need high iman for that. Believing in God is not that simple. Reciting shahadah and claiming "i am a muslim" is not belief in my opinion. It means more than that. Believing in God means believing in His power, His mercy and most importantly His words. ___________________________________ → "And (mention) the man of the fish, when he went off in anger and thought that We would not decree (anything) upon him. And he called out within the darkness, “There is no deity except You; exalted are You. Indeed, I have been of the wrongdoers.” So We responded to him and saved him from the distress. And thus do We save the believers" 21: 87-88 → "If Allah visits you with affliction, none can remove it except He; and if He touches you with good, indeed, He has power over all things." 6:17 →"Say: ‘Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us. He is our Maula (Lord, Helper and Protector).’ And in Allah let the believers put their trust.’’ 9:51 →"If Allah helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allah (Alone) let believers put their trust." 3:160 → "And your Lord said: "Invoke Me, [i.e. believe in My Oneness, (and ask Me for anything) I will respond to your (invocation)." 40:60 → "Therefore remember Me and I will remember you, and be grateful to Me and never be ungrateful to Me.’’ 2:152
Im in a messy situation, how to get out?
Before you read this and comment note that I know what I did was wrong, and Im only looking for advice and not a lecture. I'm going to be honest sense this anonymous, so Im 16, and in january of 2015, I met 3 guys on tinder. On tinder you need to be 18 or older, so I went and lied about my age to pathetically find a boyfriend or just have male attention in my life. Not very smart of me. I dated and had sex with a bunch of older guys when I was 15 so this wasnt anything new to me.. I met these 3 guys, one relationship is purely sexual and fwb like hes 19, which is fine with me, we see each other once every week, or 2 weeks. The 2nd is kinda in the dating stage, we do have sex as well and see each other more often, and text more often hes 20, the 3rd relationship is that were just friends right now and have only made out and seen each other rarely hes 22. And Ive lied a lot to all these guys, about my age, about where I live, where I work, where I go to school, my family, for 4 months, and its becoming stressful and hard to keep up with them. Ive been reflecting on my behavior lately and realized I want to just cut these people out of my life for good so I can move on and be a better person. The things is, I dont know how because I want closure and I cant just ignore them completely without any reasons theyll just keep texting me. How do I cut them out of my life without it being too sad? I want this to end in a good way?
What is the correct way to get out of the situation?
"Teri kismat da likhya tere to koi kho nai sakda. Je uus di meher hove te tenu o v mil jae jo tera ho nai sakda"As written in Guru Granth Sahib "What's in your destiny no body can take it away from you, but what is not written is also got by Guru's grace"It is an eternal dilemma. Karma vs Destiny. What do you chose? How do you decide?These are not easy questions. With almost everyone, both the things have happened. We’ve got lucky without working hard. We’ve earned accolades by working hard when the odds were against us.Dhritrashtra expressed this helplessness when he was feeling torned amidst the onset of Mahabharata. He asked the same question to Maharishi Ved Vyasa. Why to act when the result is always fixed?Ved Vyasa said, “ The path of Karma is always open”One thing which needs to be clear here is that nobody understands the exact relationship between the karma we do and the result we get.A lot of the result depends upon the intentions we have, our past karma, our destiny and how detached we are to the result of our actions. So thinking that working towards a goal will actually give us the desired result isn’t completely true. But, we can surely put in out hard work and best intentions which will be repaid later.So, the best way to resolve this situation is not to have any expectation or any attachment with the result. Do your work like there is no tomorrow with the best of intentions. Accept graciously what life has to offer and show gratitude for what you’ve received.
How can I get out from my situation?
Too many variables. Sometimes by just putting one foot in front of the other. Necessity is the mother of invention.
How do I get out from a very difficult situation?
How to find a way out of a difficult situation:Analyze the situation by breaking it apart. Ask yourself what makes this situation difficult?Then brain storm every possible solution and write the potential solutions down. Write down every single possible solution that comes to mind. Ask your trusted friends for ideas too.Then write down the costs and benefits to each solution. Choose the solution that has the most benefits and the fewest costs.Here's a simplified example: say that your problem is that your parents don't like your new boyfriend/girlfriend and they want you to stop seeing him/her.So, what makes this difficult? Obviously it's that you want to continue your new relationship, and your parents disapprove. Your parents will feel disrespected if you continue the relationship.What are the options?Break up with your new bf/gf.Don't break up.Approach your parents and ask why they dislike your bf/gf and try to allay their concerns.What are the benefits of each option? What are the costs?Benefits: parents stop being mad. Cost: losing the relationship with bf/gf.Benefits: keep the relationship with bf/gf, costs: suffer with angry parents and tumultuous interactions, which could result in getting kicked out of the house or rejected by your parents.Benefits: you will find out why parents don't like bf/gf, you will possibly keep the relationship by allaying their fears, but also gain trust and deeper understanding of your parents' concerns. Costs: you might discover that your parents concerns are valid, which might cause the relationship to end, resulting in heartbreak and hurt feelings with bf/gf.Obviously, option 3 has the most potential benefits as well as some potential costs… but it's likely better than the other two options, so choose option 3.
How do I get out of an awkward carpool situation?
A co-worker of mine emailed me and said she had a favor to ask, she wanted to know if she could catch a ride with me to work, being no stranger to car problems myself and knowing that she lived close to me, I said yes of course. That was 6 weeks ago and I still do not have a definitive answer on when her vehicle is going to be fixed or not. There are small annoyances that have crept up as well like when I pull up it takes her a handful of extra minutes to actually make it into the car. There is a large gap in our ages - I am 37 with my oldest son headed to college and she is 21 and fragile and childlike so I don't feel like I can be direct with her. *sigh* How do I get myself out of this situation without being a jerk about it? Thanks
What is the best way to get out of a bad timeshare situation?
Unfortunately, renting it, donating it, and the like, does not get you out of your ownership. Your name is still on the deed, and therefore you are ultimately responsible for the maintenance fees, special assessments, etc. The best way to get out of a timeshare is to get out of the contract. As others have said, there are a lot of companies who are happy to take advantage of a situation like this, and they are a complete scam. You do have to be careful, however it is easy to avoid these scams if you stick to your guns and remember some simple tactics. No matter the industry, never give anyone financial information over the phone - never give your credit card number out to anyone. That is the biggest red flag, and by withholding that information, you’ll find they’ll lose interested and try to move onto the next. If you are someone who has parents that are older looking to get out of their timeshare, please pass this information along to them. I can’t tell you how many senior clients we get who have previously been scammed out of money and just want help.Resale is typically a scam - I hate to break this to you, but timeshares aren’t worth anything once you’ve purchased them from the resort (think about your car - as soon as you drive it off the lot, it depreciates in value. Timeshares are no different. You can buy timeshare for $1 on the resale market). If you want to get out, look to consulting firms who will go over your contract with you and explain your options. Information is always your friend, and knowledge is power!