I think something serious is going to happen to me PLEASE HELP (deep web) (4chan) (the cops)!!!?
Im only 16. I was on vacation for a week. I was staying at this small 3 story hotel. I was on the second floor. While I was on the resort I watched a video called "If google was a guy pt 3" and they were joking about the deep web. So after doing some research on it and I finally decided to go on there, I didn't see anything illegal on there, but that sparked my interest into something else called "4chan.org" because I heard people talking about it on there. So I go on 4chan and (im embarrassed to type this) I accidentally saw a partially nude underage girl on there. (no "private parts" shown) So after that I went on here to see if what I saw was legal and people were saying it was, and they were saying that there's a type of anime type that has underage girls, so I did some research on that. yes I unfortunately saw some REALLY bad stuff. They also told me that there were real nudist photos of children and yes i unfortunately saw that too but it wasn't sexually explicit like the anime I saw. So the day that I leave, I was helping pack the car to go home and in a room that was RIGHT BELOW THE ROOM I WAS STAYING IN, I saw a guy that was dressed in a suit and tie with a POLICE BADGE and he was asking about some kind of phone number on a walkie talkie. (I did see the explicit anime on my phone) So I drove back home and here I am. I DON"T KNOW WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN IM NOT A PEDO PLEASE HELP! I didn't want to see any of these pictures I know I shouldn't have researched any further
Is there something wrong with a 17 year old to want a serious marriage like relationship?
It's perfectly fine.But think about it, are you ready for this type of relationship? Are you really willing to merge your life with that of another human?Long lasting relationships as in marriage are based not only on love and affection. They require hard work. You have to put in continuous effort to keep your companionship rejuvenated and beautiful thus making it worth it.You may say yes. But from what I know, at 17 mind wanders. It's full of curiosity and energy. It wants to explore.At 17, it loves nothing more than freedom. It doesn't want to care or be liable for anyone or anything.You are young. Focus on learning, anything and everything. You'll love it.Gather stories. Enough stories to tell them to your partner, after you would have discovered enough nooks of the life and the world too. If you feel the need then I would say give it a go. See how it turns out to be.You may fall in love. You may make promises. Your lover may make promises.Promises break. Hearts break.Learn your way to make it back.You may still love him/her.But learn how to run free. You will have a wider perspective regarding love. If anything, it doesn't mean possession.It's all a matter of priorities anyway.Good luck :)
Are you afraid to go to the doctor if you think something is seriously wrong?
Yes, but I’ve learned that it’s always better to find out early, when something is wrong. Almost everything is easier and cheaper to fix if you don’t leave it too late.In fact, even my medical aid agrees, that’s why they are happy to pay for yearly mammograms and pap-smears. That is why it’s so important to have good medical aid, if you are in a country without decent free medical.I wish my parents hadn’t cancelled their medical aid when they retired. I wish I could go back in time and stop them from doing that. The government hospitals in South Africa leave a lot to be desired. If they hadn’t cancelled it, I’m sure they would have sought treatment earlier, and both would have had better outcomes.Maybe if Mom had medical aid, she would have let me take her to the doctor a few years ago, when she first noticed her symptoms, she would still be here with me, instead of in a cemetery in Springs.If you think something is wrong, don’t delay, find out what it is, so that you can treat it early.
Something is Wrong Down There!!! Serious swelling. Hurry!!?
The tissue in that area is very sensitive and many things can cause aggrivation. He may have had some residue of strong soap or anything else that could do it. More likely one of his nails could have caused a small cut which upon being rubbed could become very swollen. I have had some pretty bad swelling in the area that sounds pretty much exactly like what you were describing. Give it a day and I would expect that it will be gone. If not, then I would suggest getting it looked at.
Swollen lymph nodes... cancer? OR mayeb something serious.?
I understand it May not be cancer... And Stereotyping a 14 year old doesnt help out all... BUt I do KNOW signs of cancer... I have seen the school nurse she told me to go to the doctor... Nothing really serious has happened but the pain is unbearable... Sometimes (like right now) it forms in my breast cage... Like the under the neck but above my chest...My parents think I can brush it off... BUt I am not to sure anymore... I have that kind of parent- daughter relationship in which they are never home... P.S. Barbies scare me... I didnt even know what a barbie was until I met my stepsisters... which was when I was 11... So- If your not going to give me some helpful advice please go away with yourself and find something better to do than critisize me.
Why I start crying every time I need to talk about serious things?
Strange thing is happening to me for the past 5 years, and I am fed up of it now, but don't know what to do. Every time I have to talk about something serious that is difficult for me to talk about - tears start rolling out of my eyes. I am an intelligent and reasonable person, but I cannot stop this. Every time I feel this is happening - I keep telling to myself: what are you crying about? there is nothing to cry about, nobody died or going to, you just need to pull yourself together and solve this problem or discuss it with this person like adults do! And with my brain i don't understand why I am crying, but I cannot stop it. So sometimes I prefer not to discuss serious issues with people to avoid it, but this is justa denial... I am 30 y.o. and thinking maybe it's some kind of middle-age crisis? but then it's started too early, and needs to be dealt with somehow! If you have any idea why this is happening - your help would be much appreciated!
Is there something wrong with being 16 and pregnant? I have a baby with a very bad fever.
Getting pregnant at 16 increases the chances of your baby having certain genetic defects, of developing pregnancy-related complications, and of having an extra hard time during labour.But from what you write, your baby has already *been* born, so none of that matters any longer. Don’t worry about your age, just call a doctor and do it NOW. Babies can have a really high fever without anything serious going on, but it might also be very serious, and nobody on the internet can tell you what the problem is. Call A Doctor. Now.