What is the most normal thing about you?
i don't regret !Let me tell you a storyI was a bright student (as far as my family and friend knows) but i never prepared for an competitive exam. I became an engineer without preparing for JEE but i was clear about my life goal and that is to start a venture of my own.So,I decided to go for an MBA program.MBA >> IIMIIMS focus on diversity,stealler academics,and most importantly VARC scores.everything was against me !Still as an optimist!i start preparing for it , did all the hardwork.CAT exam ,SNAP,CMAT etcInterviews nd allfinally I got selected in Delhi University (DBE)Also in DU department of economics , SIIB punelater i got calls from IIM-BG, IIM-Sambhalpur, IIM-sirmaur (all 3g IIMS)MY DAY WAS MADE WHEN I GOT “IIM-KASHIPUR” CALL .As i want to opt operations and no other 2g IIM Offer better opportunity in this domain other than Kashipur.i joined on 25th Julyits really beautiful, take a look from my lensYou can see Nainital covered by clouds in the last pic.Regret - I left IIM on aug 7.i have no Regret,as i joined because i thought my parents would be happy seeing that, but they want me to stay with them and take our family business further.I made a quick decision to quit as i realisedthat in all past 5 year of hustle, i forget about my parents. They worked their entire life to live their retirement dreams and the selfish me was about to ruin it for 6–8 more years.As Khalil Gabriel said (extract)-if parents are bow and children are Arrow,the more the bow bends and stretch, the farther the arrow fliesi fly not because i am the Special one , just because they streched for meQuiting what they made and doing your known was not logical for them and later the same for me.About my dreams!No regret because as an i optimist i always believe what is their for me i will have it , no matter what how hard & smart i have to work, i will stay focused ! becauseThanks for reading :)
Does anyone have a 'normal' life?
Define normal? Exactly. You can't. And if you could, your definition of normal would be different to someone else's. That's why many medics say that you should find out what's normal for you (obviously within reason...)
Is there such thing as normal?
Why would you ever want to be normal? If any of my friends were "normal" i would not hang out with them. Being so called "weird" or unique is what makes someone their own interesting person. If they werent like that i would say they were lame as hell. You have to be odd, have your own sense of humor, funny personality, and wacky views on life. Cause if you dont, then you mine as well stop looking for friends. Lets not be normal.
Is it normal if I forget bad things that happened to me or that anyone said or did to me?
No! It's not normal. It's just abnormal. In the world where people sit with their past of all the bad things happened to them, you just move forward not thinking about it. You can call it normal, but I say it's not because nobody possesses this great quality which makes you different from rest of the world. While others are thinking about the bad things someone has done to them, you go past that level and love them forgetting the things that they've done.
I love everyone, is that normal?
Yeah... I also love everyone.I can't hate anyone. Get angry for sometime can even swear at that moment but that doesn't mean I hate em.May Allah bless you. Thank you for your answer before sorry but my question got deleted otherwise your answer would ave been picked best.
What is the most normal thing that someone would find it funniest?
This is a very normal thing. But, some of my friends found this activity very irritating and disgusting. And I love their reactions.In our normal daily routine, most of us has habit to remove pieces of DRIED NASAL MUCUS(SNOT) that stuck at opening of our nostrils. This is more fun when snot is partially wet and after pulling it out we keep on rubbing it at our palms till it is dry. This is more fun when you saw someone doing this in public place. :)
I don't feel I can share my inner world with anyone. Is this a normal thing? Do most people go through life like this? Is it healthy to be so alone in your head? Should I work on getting used to it or figure out how to change?
Hmm, good question.As a psych nurse it was my JOB to ask people what was on their minds, and to observe how much they interacted with others.To answer your questions:In itself, there's nothing normal or not about keeping things to yourself.No, MOST people do share at least a little of their inner life. The amount ranges widely.Is it healthy? Not really. When problems are bothering you, and you only have your own feedback to rely on for interpretation of how big a problem is, whether it's easily solved or not. Your own mind can be a very bad neighborhood to hang around in, especially late at night with insomnia, when lasting, serious problems occur.Sometimes you are NOT your own best friend.Should you change or stay the same? In psych,you're not considered to have a problem unless your difference is causing you distress.You probably have a good idea why you don't share things: some common reasons are distrust of others, squeamishness about others knowing too much about you, fear people think you're "odd" in some way. Others: you have had trauma, and you don't want to open up to others--this often shatters trust permanently.Most of us probably feel there is Too Much Information (TMI) out there about people you don't want to know. The internet has made it possible for anyone to be a celebrity. The latter is reason enough to limit information shared.Your life will be greatly diminished if you never get the chance to share your thoughts with others, and get feedback from them. Do you have any close friends or family? Do they share information about themselves? It will be hard to have a close relationship with another person if you cannot open up.Even people who love and respect each other, some quarrels arise and people will regret being open about some idea or matter. If the relationship is healthy, they can talk the issue through, apologize, and recognize they don't want to hurt/be hurt by each other. No one's perfect. There's that chance for hurt.If you do believe your thoughts are very unusual or unacceptable, you might want to talk to a therapist, a psychologist, APRN nurse or social worker. They are required to maintain confidentiality.The benefits of a mutually caring relationship far outweigh the hurts.The decision is YOURS.Take the risk--it's worth it.