Wtf is her problem!?
okay so my friend and i are always fighting over the stupidest thing b/c she always picks fights. and this one is because her parents wont drive us anywhere. and its true! i mean her parents are soo lazy and she says my parents never dirve us places. lyer! i mean my dad works really early and my moms schedule alaways changes and we only have 1 car. and her parents have like 3 cars and her mom does nothing all day but clean, watch tv, and complain about her back 2 get out of things and her dad doesn't work until like 9pm! wtf!!!!!!! and then she is like my parents are always driving, andd mine are the ones taht are actually driving! and she is sooo spoiled and ahas the most annoying little brother! and she thinks she is sooo awsome and thinks that her family is ooo rich b/c she is spoiled and im like FYI! ur parents bought a ranch and put an addition on it, ur not rich ur just a normal bratt!!!!!!!! wtf is her problem! and she also has a boy friend who is such an *** and no1 likes him
What does it mean when a girl talks to you about her problems and leans on you for support? I have a crush on one of my close friends who is a girl (I'm a guy). Am I friendzoned or could she actually want to see where things go with me?
First, I feel you. I’ve been here. I’ve been the shoulder, the advice-giver, the confidant, to someone who I wanted romance from but was getting mixed signals, instead.In my unrequited-romantic past, every time I’ve over-explained someone’s actions I am not looking at the clear honest truth that is in my gut. My friends do the same thing.The “talking her through some of her insecurities and issues.” Ugh…my stomach turned over at this sentence. Like really did a tornado-twist that made me almost not reply.There’s this great episode of Friends where Phoebe is dating a therapist, played by Fisher Stevens. She ‘loves him’ because he’s so insightful, and she introduces him to all of the gang. He dissects all of their ‘insecurities and issues’ and so well that they all immediately hate him. Even though he’s right. When she tells him later that her friends don’t like him, he explains why, and hits it right on the nose. She then hates him, too.No one wants you to talk about their insecurities and issues unless you’re their shrink, and even then some people will fire the shrink so they don’t have to look.We learn what we have to fix about ourselves on our own…the hard way. That’s the cut and dry truth.It’s so not hot for a potential lover to do that. So that makes me think you’re not a potential lover. However…You might be right - and I mean this - that you might be in the friend-zone because you are so far away. Maybe.Only one way to find out.My best suggestion is this: Be less available. Don’t talk about her other relationships, with men or women, and yes both are equally real, no matter what she says.Leave her issues for her future therapist if she pays for one.Be a guy she’d want in her life romantically. Be charming. Be complimentary. Shut down the drama. Shut down the gossip. Be a little elusive. Wait and see what she does because she will show you how she feels. Stop listening to words and start listening to actions.Step back so she can see you. Really see you.As who you are, not how you can fix her.Start to use my belief in what you have to offer, until you believe it yourself.I believe you can be loved, and love, for real.I believe you can have a woman — or a girl — who doesn’t want to kiss anyone but you.But you have to believe that first, and act like you believe it, until you do.Borrow my belief, and treat yourself like you’re the king of your world and worth everything your heart desires. Even this girl.xx,Faleena HopkinsAuthor Faleena Hopkins
My cat sits up on her hind legs alot, is this a problem?
You may want to gently touch her front paws to see if there is any sensitivity. Also take her to another vet to get a unbiased opinion. There could have been a flaw int the original procedure that left your kitty tender. Perhaps a portion of the nail left??? Anyway, go with your gut, if you feel that something is not right, get it resolved. We choose them, and it's our responsibility to take the best care of them we can. Good luck to you and your kitty. :)
Why is it a problem for a woman to understand her man has no time for her, although it is justified?
It would all depend on frequently this occurs; is it a one time thing or is it all the time? If he doesn't have time for her, then she does not feel like she is a priority. If you really enjoy being with someone, it not only doesn't feel like and effort, but a joy to make time to spend time with them. Either she really isn't that important to him or too much of her world revolves around him and she needs to find other interests or if not, another boyfriend. Why is it different if she herself is too busy...it isn't. If you are really busy with something and your signifigant other is not, it is hard for the one that is busy to understand why the one that is not is being so demanding when it should be clear that they are overwhelmed. For the person that is not busy, with their life going at a much slower pace and maybe not as many other interests to occupy their time, the person that is busy not spending time with them seems like a big deal to them. The solution to any relationship is communication and balance. Busy person should try to make time and not busy person needs to find more interests to occupy their time.