Do all guys pursue a girl they're interested in?
Not always. Especially if you're young. I've heard cases of guys and girls who liked each other when they were in high school but were both too shy say anything. Then years later, they reconnect and find out they each missed their chances. I've also heard guys say there are a number of girls they would have gone for if the girl had approached them first. My friend got her husband this way. He later admitted that he would have been interested in half the girls in his high school if they'd asked him first. Even so, he fell really hard for my friend just a week or two after she asked him out. He was already dreaming of marrying her by that point. So you never know what you might be missing out on if you don't take a chance. Just don't be obnoxious about it. If you make it clear you're interested and he says no, then you move on. Good luck.
Should I pursue a girl that rejected me?
Play it by ear. She could have been referring to someone else on her FB. Don't cripple yourself. Look for other available women who have something good to offer. Don't allow her rejection to shake you by severely altering your interactions with her. Give her a little space and other than that proceed as if nothing happened. Should new compelling data appear that provides you with a promising avenue, proceed. Or you could do it the b*tch way. You could totally discard your dignity by allowing this to fester into an obsession. You call, text, pester her on FB and in person eventually losing all of her respect and not getting the girl. Up to you.
How would a guy pursue a girl he's interested in?
The answer would be too long so I’ll just stick to the MAIN point.Always have two things in mind.• Don’t give her attention more than she deserves.• She might not feel the same way about you.If she does not, don’t pursue her anymore for the time being because that will only annoy her and make you lose your face even more. Maybe in the future she might change her mind.
I'm interested in pursuing a girl, but she's already taken. What can I do to distract her boyfriend so that I can be with her?
Although captain tactics above has conjured up some sweet "up votes" above, I would add the following logic (from someone who has been on both sides of this coin):1. Do you really know her well enough to go to all this trouble?If yes, why not focus on getting to really know her by building a relationship first? If they later break-up and/or you realize that she is really THAT GREAT, then you can have your shot. If they don't, then you have a great friend. We're talking about building a life here, think a bit longer term.If no, then get to know her better so you can ascertain whether she is "worth the wait".2. Do you know him at all? Is he a good guy? If yes, don't you think that good people should get to be happy?If no, then wait your turn by starting to get to know her and let him screw it up.3. How long have they been together? Does she love him? If so, you need to back-off, respect their relationship and go find some other women (plural).4. I doubt you really meant "distracting" him but if you did, it would be a rather juvenile approach.5. Dig deep. Do you reaaaally like her or do you maybe just like "the chase" of something that isn't "yours"?If Yes, head to the bars and find super hot chicks you have no chance with. If No, then work on getting to know her or easier yet, finding someone like her, who has the "things you like about her".6. Unlike someone else's quote above, not everything is "out there for the taking". Some of it needs to be left alone for the sake of living a life ending in a "net positive".
What's the Best Way to Pursue a Shy Girl?
Your right about pursuing to hard, I was very shy in High School. It was hard to figure out what the guys intentions were when they ask me out. I wasn't ready to go as far as most of the girls in school had already been. And I didn't want to be put into the position of having to say NO. So I tried to date out side of the High School I went to. I know it sounds crazy but I felt alittle safer with guys that I didn't have to see every day at school. Maybe that's something to consider with her, she may not feel comfortable dating someone she sees every day. She's probably afraid that if something doesn't work out you'll spread rumors about her and she'd be embarrassed by them. You need to win over her confidence first by being a good friend. After a few weeks when she feels more herself around you ask her out to dinner and a movie. She needs to know that your not going to push her into anything but she has to realize that on her on. You may have to have lunch a few times and make your first few outings short and sweet. Open the doors for her and pull out her chair for her when she go's to sit down. Small things like that will help to break the ice. GOOD LUCK.
Should I bother pursuing a girl if she's initially not interested?
YES AND NO.Franklin’s answer is great but let me add more based on my experience. I had been in 4 r/s in the past 8 years. One went to 2 years and the others were 1 year each or less. The r/s I have staid longer arethe ones that I wasn’t chasing her. However, one of my r/s where I chased this girl and she was okay to be with me, man, our r/s was really tough since I was the only one doing things all the time. It wouldn’tbother her if I was with her or not. I have seen that since the beginning but, I thought she would love me sometime soon and kept it like that for almost a year to finally break and get hurt. I’m telling you the truth, as a man I felt bad for crying in front of her (i was 22) but she didn’t even feel anything about it. So my conclusion here is kinda mixed because all girls are not like that. I have seen guy friends who have chased a woman to be in r/s but after that the girl were the one who was chasing back or they both loved each other. So there are girls that wouldn't show you their feeling at the beginning and you feel like you are chasing them. So you can’t conclude that you shouldn’t chase her anymore. But once you are in r/s , if you are still the ONLY chaser, man, thats the time to thinking about your r/s again.
Do you think I should pursue this girl?
>>> What do you guys make of this ? It's not complicated. She thinks of you as a friend (or potential friend, as you haven't known each other long) and isn't interested in a romantic relationship with you. She's not currently looking for a romantic relationship with anyone. >>> How do you think i should proceed from here ?1. Stop posting screenshots of her text messages on the internet. Really. Why does that not go without saying? Would you post an mp3 of a phone conversation? How would you feel if you were her?2. Avoid posting screenshots of your future text chats with anyone, unless a) It's cute/funny, e.g. hilarious autocorrect andb) You have their permission beforehandDon't assume that she's "playing hard to get" or that you can persuade her to change her mind about wanting a romantic relationship with you. She's not, and you can't.
Should I pursue a girl again after she lost interest although things were going great?
I suggest a different approach.You see, while you thought things were going great, maybe it was not so for her. Because it does not make sense to leave if things are going great.Now, if you are really interested in her, the only thing you may try is to use your communication skills to figure out what actually happened. Ask her. Talk with her.