Good looking guy cant get girls?
Okay, i' m an 18 year old male in high school and i know i' m a good looking guy because girls always tell me i am. the problem is i don' t get girls at all. I feel like i' m pretty funny and i can talk to girls okay. I just don't have the confidence to make any moves. For example at parties girls will always give me a gazing stare pretty much saying, " please talk to me" but i freeze up and never do it. Or when i do end up talking to a girl and we're flirting, I don't know how to make a move so they get annoyed and end up leaving. I also have pretty high standards so maybe I go for too much. So anyway I need help or answers to this problem. Either i' m cursed, have no game, have no confidence, or i' m over thinking this too much. Cheers!
Im a good looking guy but I have NO confidence?
You obviously have some confidence since you can say that you are a good looking guy. You could be suffering from social anxiety disorder. Here are some links for more info. http://www.socialanxiety.factsforhealth.... http://www.socialphobia.org/ http://www.socialfear.com/ http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/mental-health-social-anxiety-disorder
How do you know if your good looking or not???(boy)?
First off, old ladies and your parents do not count. Second, the girls you see staring at you in public places could just be in your mind. Or they could be staring at you wondering why the f**k you're staring at them. Or they could be staring at you for some other reason (i.e funny looking, icing on your face, forgot to put some pants on, coincidence, etc.) When a girl says, "you don't look too bad yourself" she is generally being nice and doesn't want to lie to you by saying you are also hot. I'll bet if you ask that same girl to rank your looks 1 to 10 then she will A) Rank you as a 7 to be nice or B) Start going on about your personality. Trust me, I've gotten that line before. As far as looks go. I like the look of myself from straight on..but I hate my profile. It just looks a little bit dismorphic. I think that I look like a fish or a monkey, but a lot of people tell me otherwise. There really is no way to tell if you are attractive to girls. But if they are hitting on you, or you've gotten a girl to like you/go out with you, then you'll be just fine. Plus, its best not to know what you're bringing to the table, no one likes a cocky guy. Now, some advice. The answerer somewhere above me that said girls only really care about personality anyway is feeding you a load of bull crap. Everyone knows that every person is shallow to a certain degree. No girl, or guy, is going to like someone that is butt ugly just if they have an excellent personality. Girls like a guy that is good looking to some degree(for showing off to friends and stuff) and have a good personality. If you're worried about how you look, just start going to the gym and building muscle. Girls tend to start looking less to the face and more to the overall body. As for the poster below me or so. Please refer to my first point...Grandmothers do not count. If you were a pile of crap your grandma/mother would still think you are amazing because you share samilar genomic code. You sir, a little to cocky (The poster below me).
Why do women ignore good looking guys?
Because women believe that, first, we're already taken; second, we're just fooling around; third, we're just good looks and nothing else; and fourth, we attract and turn the heads of girls and guys alike. LOL!
How come most good looking guys have no girlfriends?
SOME good looking guys don't attract women because looks don't really attract women per se. You need the personality. I know some very fit guys who lose out to guys with beer bellies for example. Its who you are, not what you look like that usually counts with women. Some men always think this adage is a load of bull, but there are so many examples to prove this otherwise:For example: Why do women literally feint over rock stars? If I took Justin Bieber off the stage and put him behind some local bar with a more serious demeanour and nobody knew him, there would be no mad rush for him. In fact I know my player buddies would obliterate him in getting women in that context. But…he is famous and social status attracts more than looks with men.Why do many men who become rich, leave their wife for the proverbial hot young cutie? Because they can. Because many women are attracted to power, and again status. So that SAME guy, who couldn't get that hottie, comes into power, and boom, options open up. Evolution baby.
Do women avoid good looking guys thinking they would not be interested?
sometimes