No straight man is interested in being "just friends" with a woman. This is a fact. Agree?
No it's not a fact and no I'm not wrong. I have lots of friends who are guys, and they are straight. I like having male friends. Yes there can sometimes be an element of attraction in a friendship with the opposite sex, but that doesn't mean anyone wants to take it any further than a teeny-tiny spark. I do know some guys who are like you - who don't want to be 'just friends' with a woman, and I think they are missing out on a lot. They go through their whole lives only ever being close to women who they are dating. There's a whole world of women out there who you can get to know on different levels - and I would say the friendship level is a very rewarding one. So there.
My friend with benefits is giving me mixed signals, is he interested in more?
We got together at a party, & had a couple of weeks of being friends with benefits. We never actually talked about being FWB, I just assumed we were. He started increasingly acting more romantic..(eg: taking me out to dinner, & hugging me as goodbyes. Things I wasn't expecting at all) I would understand if it was because he wanted to see me more often. But then, he cut off the FWB thing. We still talk, but I rarely get to come over to his place anymore. He still doesn't have a GF, so I don't know why he doesn't want to be FWB anymore. My friends say that it sounds like he wants to be more than just FWB, but doesn't know how to approach me about it, or he's too shy to. Now, it's been a couple of weeks, and I am really confused as to what he wants. If he wanted more from me, I would totally give it a shot, because I had a crush on him a few years ago. Are there signs or clues on what he wants? I'm too shy to ask him about it. (I know, crazy for a FWB to be shy, but I am.)
Why does it seem like women are more interested in you when you re already seeing another person and less so when you re single?
About a year ago I was seeing a girl, nothing serious just a couple dates. Came into work with a hickey from said girl once. A couple girls from work who I was friends with now were more flirtatious with me than before. Eventually the hickey girl and I stopped seeing each other. I then started dating a friend from work who became very flirtatious with me for a couple months. The entire time I was dating this coworker I kept getting hit on by other coworkers but obviously I never went on dates with any of them while seeing my coworker friend. Now the coworker girl and I broke up a few month s back. It might just be all my head but it definitely seems like I m getting less attention now from other girls at work than before, I can t even get a text back right now lol. This is just a recent example but when I look back it always seems like I peep more interest from women when I m already dating or seeing somone and less so when I m single. Do you belive that saying that people just want what they cant have to be true because I feel like this is the case or is it just something else in your opinion?
IF HE'S NOT INTERESTED IN ME, WHY DOES HE CALL OUT OF NOWHERE? ?
ME AND THIS GUY WHERE GOOD FRIENDS AT A POINT IN TIME. BUT THEN FEELINGS GOT INVOLVED AND HE DISTANCED HIMSELF. HE WAS CALLING AND SPENDING TIME ALMOST DAILY. BUT OUT OF NO WHERE HE STOPPED ANSWER THE PHONE. SO I ASKED HIM WHY AND HE SAID HE WAS BUSY. AND WORDS WHERE EXCHANGED. BUT HE STILL CALLS ME OUT OF THE BLUE WHY?.