Relationship Issues...Married & Lusting after co-worker?
2 issues at hand really. One is my current relationship. I am married going on now 6 years and we have 1 child. For the last 2-3 years things have not been great with our relationship to the point most days we just tolerate each other. Most days its fighting, arguing and as much as I try and to things right I don't feel much love from her. Our sex life is non-existent since our daughter was born. I think about divorce but being from a divorced family I know me and my siblings never had the best of childhoods in part due to that. I don't want the same for my daughter so I've been playing the "stick it out" game. The other new issue is my desire to want to be with a girl I work with who is much younger then me (12 years). She is engaged and talks to me daily about her what seems are similar issues. She has a child with her fiance too. Our body language and other non-verbal say we both think the same thing but neither make the move to advance it due to our relationships. What do I do?
Married but falling for a co-worker?
Hi I am a married man for 6-7 years with one child. I "like" my wife and love our son. I spent some time together with a girl from my office who is of my age but unmarried yet. She is so beautiful and her eyes are so clear and sexy. I felt like a 20 year old after spending an evening with her... I don;t know whether she likes me or not... but I am unable to get her out of my mind. I always wanted to have a beautiful wife to whom i would be attracted every day. My wife looks okay.. perhaps better than me... . But i feel some hollowness... Am i falling in love with my co-worker? I know that it may not be right... but it feels so damn good even thinking about holding her close to me... I am dreaming too much... and unable to concentrate on anything else.... how should I convince this girl to have some good time without breaking my marriage? why she should agree with me in first place?
Is 32 years is considered too old for getting married in India?
Yes, many people feel that 32 as an age for boys is very old to get married in India. Age is not just a ‘number’ when it comes to the Arrange Marriage Scenario in Urban India for we boys.As of June, 2018 while writing this answer I am an Indian potential groom who’s 32 years of age. Let me list 3 instances regarding my age for marrying:-Case-1:I’ve had a strong crush, probably now to the level of love for a Female Colleague in my office who is 26 years of age. She once told me that the age difference between her and me is way too huge. This was the reason she initially bro-zoned me and used to call me Bhaiya but thankfully now she doesn’t do so since I’ve confessed to her that had she been uncommitted, I would have proposed to her for marriage.Case-2:One of my ex-colleagues had asked her younger cousin sister to meet me for a marital based prospective dating but that girl had refused. She’s 26 years of age who was about to complete her MBA but she too felt that I am too old for marital dating with her. Mind it, her sister had framed this opinion only by seeing my picture that my colleague showed to her on her smartphone.Case-3:My Father told me that once a Paternal Grandfather (Dada ji) of a girl from Punjab had gone through my profile. His grand daughter was 27 years of age yet this Dada ji felt that I was too old being 32 for their family’s daughter. Well, there were plenty of other reasons for him to reject my profile as told by my Father.PS: Hence, you can see that a mere 5 to 6 years age difference is making things tough for me in my matrimony quest for a bride. Girls in their late 20s or rather their parents/family elders are finding a 32 year old Single Indian Boy like me as too old!Peace :)
Do I HAVE To Tell My Son He's Adopted?
3 year ago, after my wife passed away. I decided to adopt a child, we always planned on having kids but, fate clearly had other plans. I now have my beautiful 2 year old son, Ernie. However, I'm uneasy about telling him he is adopted. I'm worried he will want to seek out his biological family and, that would deeply hurt my feelings. I don't want him to see me as his adoptive father but, his father. I'm content with telling him that my late wife was his mother and that she died in childbirth. Even though she was cremated, I was thinking I could buy a burial plot and place a gravestone with her name on it, with dates coinciding her death with his birth. I know it comes across as selfish but, I can't lose anyone else. Am I obligated to tell him that he is adopted? As far as I'm concerned, I'm his family.... his only family. He comes from my home, not some woman who abandoned him at hospital. When I look at him, I see my little boy and, I'm worried that if I tell him he is adopted he will no longer see me as his daddy but, some stranger who took him in. One of my best friends growing up was adopted and his parent's told him at age 5 that he was adopted, he resented them for the rest of their lives because, they weren't his "real" family. I don't want my son to become like my old friend. My parents and friends tell me I never have to tell him, since I'm his dad and that I know best but, it's bugging me. Do I absolutely HAVE to tell him?
What happens to most kids with a learning disability?
Is there more help today than 30 years ago? Do they have trouble holding down jobs? Are colleges more LD friendly today than 30 years ago? Do they ever catch up to grade level?
Are men really attracted to their wives after marriage?
It's strange this question popped up.Just YESTERDAY I was in the computer accessory store with my wife (together 13+ years now) just browsing. She walked off on her own looking for something. I was just loitering around when I saw this really nice looking girl rifling through some items. I was checking her out big time but I was mindful that I had no idea where exactly my wife was - didn't want to get caught, if you must know.So I looked down one aisle, no wife.I looked down another aisle, still no wife.Took a quick peek at the girl again, lovely; panicked, I looked down a third aisle. Still no wife.Then the girl turned around and said to me, "Baby, should I get this?"Yeah, that girl I was scoping out like a hornball teenager was my wife. I left the shop scratching my head. Couldn't make heads or tails of what just happened.I chalk one up for my mind going soft.