I feel suspicious, jealous and insecure. Do I have the right to ask to see my SO's messages to a woman he's been messaging various times a day?
Your boyfriend has put you in a pretty uncomfortable situation.The problem is that there's a big difference between casual acquaintance from the conference who has become my new Facebook buddy, and some woman who has been in my life for six weeks and who I confide in about my relationship even though it makes my girlfriend feel uncomfortable.It's not about having the right to see his texts; what this situation boils down to is trust.You trusted that your relationship was between you and him, and he's decided to bring in a third person. By keeping his texts private and confiding in her about your relationship he's demoted you from SO/girlfriend and put this new person ahead of you.Instead of talking to you about your relationship, he's opening up to her. She's the person he is turning to for advice and support. When you try to reclaim your position as his girlfriend and ask him about the texts, he shuts you out. He's formed a new, exclusive club with conference woman, and you're not on the list.His priorities have changed.You now have an extra person in your relationship who has unlimited access to your boyfriend, and you have never even met her.Take some time to decide if this is what you want. If this can happen after a conference, he might not be as into your relationship as you are.
Are Scorpios suspicious of everyone?
The answer to ur question is: Most definitely, yes. At least, the majority of them are. Especially the older ones, it seems, as my dad was a Scorpio, and he would've said like the exact same thing ! Really! They are basically known as the detectives/spies of the Zodiac, and it really is one of their traits, and they just can't help thinking and acting like that! It is very normal for most of them, and they do not even know they are not suppose to act/think that way, as they are always suspicious, of almost everyone! They think that everyone has some secret ulterior motive that they are not saying! I can't help but laugh upon reading ur description/question cause I would think it was my dad..... w/o question! So, beside being possessive and jealous, they are also the most suspicious and accusing of all the Zodiac. There are also many loving things about them, as it is not all bad, just sounds that way right now. Also, not all Scorpios are that way, as they have different levels, being the scorpion or lizard, then slowly graduating and achieving the highest, which is the eagle. and, which, thats just ..............another story! Too long to explain! Good Luck! *hey, I just read Vivila...the wild card's answer to you, about her being a Libra w/her Venus in Scorpio, and I am one also w/those planetary positions, and I experience the same exact feelings and jealousness as she described at times, having a hard time sometimes w/it, so she is describing Scorpio traits perfectly, and having ur Venus in Scorpio means ur love life is more or less like a Scorpios descriptive ways and carries the traits of a Scorpio. (especially mistrusting others). Also, being too serious much of the time. Hope this all helps you know, you are right about ur bf's dad! He will do much more of that in the future, so get ready! and...just know, he can't help it! =)
How should I deal with jealousy and suspicion in a relationship?
It’d be great to know what in a relationship makes you feel jealous and how, but I’m going to assume you mean very general feelings that you believe are baseless (if there��s a real reason to feel jealous, that’s a different story). Obviously, trust is important in a relationship, but it can be really hard to trust your partner and ignore feelings of jealousy or doubt when they consistently pop up.The first step with most relationship problems should be to have an open, honest discussion with your partner. Tell them how you’ve been feeling and explain why. Maybe there are behaviors one of you can change, maybe they can provide reassurance, or maybe you’ll reveal underlying problems in your relationship.Moving forward from that, remaining calm and trying to understand your own feelings can be helpful. What is it about certain situations that it making you jealous? Do you feel ignored, lesser, left out? Try not to let the emotions of the moment cloud your judgement. Take deep breaths, pull back a bit from the situation, and think about how you feel and why.If none of that is helpful, it may be that whatever relationship you’re in isn’t right for you- or that you need more help in learning to move past jealousy, and should see a therapist or a relationship counselor.Good luck!
How can I control my jealousy on my husband?
I dont think there is anything wrong with being jealous, even being honest with your husband about it. Explain to him what your fears are, and tell him what you need, hopefully he will understand that to keep his marriage, he has to work a little at helping you feel secure. I am sure that with his reassurance and your love for him, you will understand that he does not have to stay with you, he wants to be with you, otherwise, why stay? What my husband and I try to do is even when we have a discussion, at the end of it, we tell each other how much we care about each other. And he is very reassuring explaining to me that he chose me to be his wife and he cares so much that he would not lose that for any woman. I hope this helps, if not I recommend you speak to a professional, before its too late.
Which sentence is correct, "you make me jealous" or "you make me feel jealous"?
The word ‘Jealous’ is an adjective. Being an adjective the first sentence better than the second one. The word ‘Jealous’ itself has the emotions like feeling etc. So there is no need to put an extra verb. But no one can say that the second sentence is wrong. The second sentence is also right but for good English language one should avoid using long sentence. If you are able to express whole sentence in a word or two it would be better. There are some meanings given below for the English word ‘Jealous’-Jaundiced,Cautious,Green-eyed,Suspicious,Envious,Unkind etc.
Are some monogamous people proud of being jealous?
I don't think they are proud of it, I think they are just stating it. I watched a documentary on hippies, that focused on a particular colony of them. Couples were frowned on, and people slept with multiple partners, but there was a lot of jealousy. Even though they were trying to live a ployamorous lifestyle, it didn't stop people from falling in love, and getting jealous. I think some people are just too jealous to have a polyamorous relationship. I do fully support polyamourous relationships, but I don't think everyone is capable of them.
How can i tell my Scorpio boyfriend to stop being jealous?
I love my boyfriend. The moment I saw him I wanted to be with him, but I wasn't sure someone like him (attractive smart, successful) would want ME. Yeah I was pretty insecure 3 years ago. But it turns out he liked me too, how we met? He saved my life, I was being harassed for awhile by a guy and that same guy attacked me until my now boyfriend intervened and set him straight. Since then my boyfriend and I have been together In the beginning he would I guess be jealous? He would often ask who these guys were talking to me, whether they'd be friends. He would never do this in a cold mean way but he would ask innocently, and sometimes he would ask if they were my boyfriend. Clearly not. Sometimes he will ask me who i am talking to, or if I go out and he asks how it went he will ask who I was with and if that person was a woman or a guy. I never thought much of it until he kept asking me this, its been 5 months now. I remember the first time I asked him if he knew any good movies over the phone, he rushed to conclusions and assumed I was asking him to give me a movie because he thought I was with another guy. He got upset and thought I was doing things behind his back. He cooled down, and he would always tell me to "behave" around guys, he doesn't trust men around me, his guard always is up for some reason, always casting guys he doesn't know with very dirty looks when we are out in public. We were on the bus once and he gave this guy who looked at me for a second a dirty look. Or I can feel his body tense up and he will get quiet and gleer when a large group of men are around. Anytime I mention doing something that doesn't regard him, he wonders who its with and what gender the person is. All the time, even if he jokes about it. Whenever I text someone, email something anything, he gets insecure and asks who the person is and when I tell him he just tells me to have fun or to becareful or behave myself. Last month for some reason he begged me not to leave him he admitted to me that he had very strong feelings for me and hopes I feel the same way, and prays that i won't go and do something to hurt him because if that happens including me leaving he will be devastated.