I stood up to an unfair teacher. Now my parents think I did the wrong thing. What should I do?
I would have to see the teacher, and actually have been at the situation to see what was going on in order to tell you what you did was right or wrong.I don't agree with what other people have said here....at all.The proper thing to do, when a teacher says something like "you are going to fail." To the "less talented" students. Is to respectfully challenge the teacher in the moment. With a simple "No. Miss. They won't fail."But it doesn't appear your teacher is doing anything unfair other than simply being mean. I hate to tell you this as a man in his late 20's, but people are REALLY mean in the world outside of school. And, if you say the wrong thing to the wrong person, sometimes you get fired for it. Even if the person is being unfair.This does not mean that what the teacher is doing is commendable, or even right, but do not fool yourself into thinking that somehow things will be fair out in the "real world." They will be just as harsh, and even more cruel. If you let one silly, measly, sorry, pathetic teacher get you angry, you are going to be REALLY angry when you see what it's like outside. It's nowhere near as easy as it is in school. Not one bit.Take school as a character building experience. It isn't going to matter once you leave anyway. Learn to ignore silly people like this teacher while you are young, and you will grow strong.
Was I wrong for not giving my mom $60?
"I been working even when I do not feel well. Head hurting, back and feet. Nearly collapsed twice because of not eating and then going to work because I'm not used to it." Well, think about this: when your mother was pregnant with you, she probably got headaches too. She got really bad backaches, and swollen, painful feet. She may have fainted and collapsed many times. She probably felt nauseous and was not able to eat. She may not have been able to sleep properly. And I am just naming a few of the problems mothers go through during pregnancy. And guess what? Instead of aborting you because the pregnancy was causing her so much trouble, she kept you. Then you were born, and it was extremely painful for her. It is the most painful experience known to humans. Then, after you were born, she had to put up with a crying baby and sleepless nights (and days). Then she had to put up with a messy toddler. And she still kept you and raised you. And think about how much money all of that cost her. Think about all the things she bought for you. Think about how your parents had to work so you would have a place to live in, clothes to wear, and food to eat. Think about the money your parents are still spending on you. Now that you are older, you've forgotten all of the things your mother did for you. You say rude, hurtful things to her. You can't even give her $60. Well, I'll tell you what - even if you gave her $1,000,000, you couldn't possibly pay her back for everything she did for you. I can see why she's upset at you. I would be very, very, disappointed in you if you were my child. You are an ungrateful little brat. "Plus, a lot of times, she gets mad at me and tells me that after I turn 18 that she's not going to do anything for me and that I have to leave..." I can see why she would say this. You most definitely should NOT have told her that she shouldn't have had you if she didn't want to responsibility. So yes. I think it was wrong of you not to give her $60. It is your mother you are talking about. Even if you don't like her or you think she's being unfair, you should still have given her the money. You are being more than just petty. You can save your money if you want, it's actually a good idea, but you should still keep aside enough money (not from your savings) that you can give to your mother if she wants it.
So is my girlfriend being selfish and unfair or am i wrong? ?
So my girlfriend and I live together, and she thinks I should pay half of everything around the house which includes rent, phones, electricity, cable, and groceries. That would be cool, but she makes 19 dollars the hour and I only make 10 and she works full time and has a good job, I only work part time. If I pay half I pretty much am left with nothing. I find it unfair because I work my *** off and just to give all my money away like that. So shouldn't she pay more because she earns more? For the last year our arrangement was that I pay for bills and she pays for the rent. I had to pay bills and buy groceries but sometimes she would. Well suddently she thinks I'm just taking advantage because she is paying for more than I do, but like I said, she earns more than I do. She can afford it, I can't. She's just being money hungry in my opinion because she knows I can't pay half of rent and bills too. I can, but like I said then I'm just left with no money after. So what should I do? Thanks
Is it wrong or unfair for you to love someone else and for them to love you, while you are still in a relationship?
It is never wrong to feel something. A feeling is something that will continue to happen in spite of your utmost wishes.However (and this is simply my opinion), it is wrong to act on those feelings whilst in a committed relationship with somebody else.You have unofficially sworn an oath alongside your significant other to maintain a monogamous relationship, and breaking that oath to be with another lover is utterly disrespectful and wrong.There are exceptions, of course:•If you’re in a polyamorous relationship•If your significant other has given it the green light•If you're willing to end the existing relationship before engaging the new lover in physical intercourseI’m sure there are other examples of situations where it would not be inherently wrong. However, if you simply plan on physically (or emotionally; it is wrong to engage in a non-sexual intimate relationship if you are already involved as well) cheating on your significant other, it would be best for you to simply end the existing relationship.Remember, your significant other is also a human being, with their own set of emotions and feelings, and it's not fair to them to go behind their back to engage with another when they believe that you are devoted to them.
If someone does something unfair to me should I take revenge or let Karma do it on my behalf? Is Karma real?
yes karma is very realistic.you really need not to take revenge of what people had done with you .According to shrimad Bhagwat Geeta , The one who hurt someone and does unfair with others will soon ready to pay in many unfortunate ways.According to Garud puraan only human lives karma is counted. so beware of doing wrong because krma will get hold of those that hurt you and if you are lucky, god will let you watch.
Why am I always treated unfairly?
So, I try my best to be a good and fair person. I love everyone usually and want the best for everyone but to me somehow I'm always the mistreated one. I'm never right, I'm always wrong but always taken advantage of. For example... My brother asked me to borrow 50 dollars nearly a month ago. I keep asking for it back and when I do he goes into how he had to do this or that and doesn't have it. So yesterday I told him I understand but I have things going on to and asked him when he'd have it. He got really upset threw twenty dollars at me and told me he'll never ask me for anything. He then told me he us not giving me the other twenty which turned things into and argument that got completely out if hand. We both said and did horrible things. Now my mom sits there and makes me out to be the wrong one. Saying I over reacted and I shouldn't be arguing with a man and I should have asked him to tell me when I was getting the money back when I got it but never got on to him about how he acted. Or why he failed to give me the money in the first place and then I'm always the one left out in the cold alone no matter how nice I try to be to everyone. It's to the point where I hate people in general and I don't even care to speak to my mother. Cause I'm tired of being mistreated by everyone around me and then made out to be the one who was wrong like I'm not supposed to stick up for myself... I could really use some advice because I chat live like this anymore
Write about a time when you were punished unfairly for something you have not done?
When I was nine, the teacher accused me of putting wax on the floor of our classroom. There were these candies that had a syrup inside a wax tube. The girls used to drink the concoction and them rub the wax between their fingers until it was soft enough to fashion into false fingernails. There was wax on the floor near my desk, but I didn't do it. I felt abused! I felt betrayed by my friends, but I wasn't a snitch! The teacher hit me with a ruler. I put up my arm in defense and my elbow got struck! She must have hit a nerve because the elbow swelled like a balloon! My mother went to the school the next day. I was not privy to the conversation, but the teacher apologized. That was the "good ol' days," when corporal punishment was allowed in the schools. Thank God we don't allow it anymore.
How do you deal with unfair treatment from parents?
You need your parents to give you gratification. They may not be capable. You are a go getter and a harder worker, they know that about you and know your brother is not. They know you can help yourself. Think of it this way, they know you are the stronger one and its unfair but they know that you can hold your own just will not give you credit for it. In a way they are ruining your brother from growing while you have the opportunity. Get through your tough time, it will help you have the courage to stand up for yourself with your parents. STOP FEELING BAD. I know its hard. stand back from your family and understand that its different, and know that they can't help it. he is always going to be the "baby boy."