How do you deal with people who say wrong things/ bad things about you to others behind your back?
Well, that is a question not many people will respond to the same.You can be the bigger person and ignore it. Take it with a pinch of salt. After all, who are they to judge? Is their opinion of you even true? Does their opinion of you matter? …. the answer should be “let them talk about me… who cares, whilst they talk about me, someone else gets a break".Or….Confront them. Don't get upset about it. Remember the above. Do they have facts? Does their opinion even matter? It shouldn't. They have no right to belittle or judge you or bad mouth you, and if they do, well, it says more about them than it does about you. Some people do it to get a reaction, don't rise to it. Whilst they're stabbing you in the back to person A, they are probably stabbing person A in the back to person B and so on.These sorts of people are, usually, the ones with more flaws than anyone else. They try to drag people down to feel bad about themselves because it's a reflection of them on the inside and they don't want to be alone in it. Be the better person.
If someone says you are "coy" is that a bad thing?
Coy usually isn't a bad thing. It's not used to mean "tease" very often. If you're trying to start a relationship, keep in mind that he could get in a lot of trouble. He's in a position of power over you. By flirting, you could be putting him in a bad spot. If you want to persue a relationship and have found a way that won't make him lose his job (such as your company's fraternization policy), keep in mind that the age difference is massive. By handing him your "homework," you just reminded him that you're 22 years younger than him, just a kid who still does homework. For another view on "coy," see Andrew Marvel's "To His Coy Mistress." It's gorgeously worded, but the gist of it is that she's being a tease and he doesn't want to wait for it.
Is it good to tell someone what people have been saying behind their back?
I did that once. I knew a good looking guy who would flirt with my friends. As attractive as he was, apparently that was overshadowed by his arrogant form of speech. So while the girls thought he was really "cute", they would make fun of him and his advances instead without his knowing.One day, simply because I wanted this guy to have a "win", not be made fun of, and get the date instead, I had lunch with him. I told him as respectfully as I could that, "These girls I see you flirting with like you, but are mocking your attitude." I don't recall exactly if I elaborated but that was the gist of it. With a half smile and straight face he said, "Oh, OK". The next day, his roommate (a guy) is standing next to me at the elevator turns to me before getting on the elevator and says, "You're a dick. Why would you tell ______ that? That is really messed up".And "ding", the elevator closed, he goes up. That stuck with me all these years because I genuinely wanted to help a guy out and he got insulted instead. So I don't do that anymore.And yes, he continued to make an ass out of himself for the rest of the trip with the same results.
What does it mean when someone says your a poor thing?
Its just an expression of sympathy - usually when the person is sick or upset. Say your friend is crying because their dog died, you'd give them a hug and say " Oh you poor thing". Or if they had a bad cold, you could say , "Oh you poor thing, I'll get you a hot lemon drink".
Is it a bad thing to say sorry a lot?
Just asking out of curiosity. Personally, I know that I say sorry a lot but I'd like to know if it's bad to say a lot or if it's possible to say too much.
When someone says that something is wack does that meann its good or bad?
Both. But it's usually used to indicate something is bad. EXAMPLE: Good: "Whoa, man that's wack!" Bad: "That sh*t is wack!" "Wack" (or "whack") comes from the word WACKY/WHACKY which means "odd, irrational; crazy; silly." "Tight" means it's good.