Is it bad that I'm disgusted by sex?
Well im a girl. I have had sex before and experimented with other things but I 've never really felt pleasure from it. In fact I find it disgusting and I feel gross that I even tried doing some things. (Meaning Oral) I asked my sister but she likes it enough to not to understand. I always end up feeling dirty. Like I have to scrub away it all. And I feel repulsed when I think about it. If i could fully avoid being touched or touching i definetly would. I dont masturbate cause i find that gross to. Is this bad or normal? I don't really have any reason not to like it so I don't really understand what's wrong. I seriously avoid it at all cost, and I really don't let guys go near me, but evenue when I date and actually love the guy I still don't like it. Is there wrong with me?
Is it wrong to feel disgust for people who make sounds while chewing food?
I am MARRIED to a very noisy eater. He breathes audibly when he eats too. It seems like when he is eating he has an amplifier in his cheeks. He slurps his fingers instead of using a napkin. He takes incredibly large mouthfuls that take forever to chew, like minutes. Dinner at his families house with his siblings seem to show that they have a prerequisite of filling their mouths full of food before they speak. I learned early on to just look at my food and avoid looking around me. Seriously it's gross. My younger daughter says the kids are no different, we always have to stop and get her food on the way home because she can't avert her eyes from the horror and losses her appetite.When I was in elementary school I went to a progressive school…, probably what is now a semi private or a charter school. During breakfast and lunch times the duty teachers would slap us on the hands or back of the heads for the above mentioned offending table manners. My Mom would not tolerate those table manners either, she would make us aware of the offense immediately.My husbands family does not have the same hang ups. Over the years I have expressed my aversion to eating with him and he has adopted some of my manners so that we both have a pleasant meal. He Still takes incredibly large bites. A McDonald's hamburger to him is like a two bite brownie to me.Yes when my husband eats it's gross. When his family eats it's gross. But that is the worst thing that I can say about them.My husband and his family are the most decent, kind, generous, nonjudgemental, accepting, loving people I have ever met. They have an outstanding intelligence, an unmatched wit, and they always want to be good people. Most of the qualities that they posses outside meal times are positive.I don't think it's wrong, because it's fucking gross, I was beat to believe that and I'm glad I believe it. However I'm glad the perception I have about this didn't keep me from having a relationship with my husband. One of my all time favorite people.Good luck.
When I see a black person, I feel disgusted. I know this is bad, and it's wrong and I shouldn't feel this way. How do I change myself?
Personally, you are battling a war of “Indoctrinational Bullshit, (IB)” you have grown up with. I’m going to be totally honest, maybe brutally honest. This IB started with parents and grandparents. School, media, you freaking name it, it has been rammed down our throats that people of a different color, religion, sexual orientation are bad and the only good people are the white people. White is the symbol of good and purity.Yup, I said it. I’m white, yet I’m calling it out. It is pure bullshit. I’m going to give you and everyone a quick lesson. If you order the DNA test from Ancestry. You fill that little vial with your spit. That little bit of spit contains 280,000 years of your DNA history. 280,000 YEARS!!!!!In 280,000 years, the main skin color of all the HUMAN RACE, is BROWN (and variations of it.) You read that right. Blue eyes are a mutation. Original color is BROWN. Blue eyes come from ONE ANCESTOR. All blue eyed people are litereally related to one another, through that one ancestor. Blue eyes (and all light colors) have been around for only 16,000 years.What about skin color. Ah, here is where it get’s interesting. White skin has only been around (again mutation) for 8500 years. Oh, wow. If white skin has been around for 8500 years, then darker skin people have been around for 271,500 years. Now, who is the superior race again??? Is it the white skin??? The thing is, there is NO SUCH THING AS A SUPERIOR RACE!!! There is ONLY ONE RACE. HUMAN!!!! Everything else is culture. Every culture has their own differences, even religions. Does that make them better than someone else?? NO!!If you wonder how I know all this. I study. I’m a scholar. Also, you look at my picture, you will see a light skin, blue-eyed man. Except, I am only 3/4 white (English, Irish, Scottish and Welsh). The balance is Native American (Chickasaw, Choctaw and Cherokee.) I have 2% of trace bloods. Guess what? You all have the same bloods. We are all related. We are all 30–50th cousins to each other.Yes, questioning person, you are distantly related to the black people you are afraid of.
Is it wrong to find sex to be disgusting?
Well, I think you've pretty much revealled the reasons why sex repels you; - you hate the thought of someone seeing you naked because you have a bad body image. - you were molested when you were younger - it's unknown since you don't date. - you don't hate the concept of sex, you hate the idea of sex with you as a participant. I don't think "wrong" is the right word to use here. I think you have issues that you're not dealing with and should deal with. Once you deal with your past and get a better body image, you may change your mind about sex. Try it, you'll like it.
I kissed a guy and I feel disgusted after it. What should I do?
Here are a couple of suggestions for you:If you kiss a guy and feel disgusted after it, the next time you’re in the mood for kissing, try kissing a girl instead. If you enjoy doing that, then simply continue kissing girls. (Congratulations! You may be a lesbian. There’s nothing wrong with that).If you kissed a particular guy and feel disgusted by it, then the guy may have been a terrible kisser (too much tongue in your mouth, way too much saliva sharing, etc.). Try finding a more experienced kisser next time.And if you’ve kissed a guy who forgot to brush his teeth before making a move on you and he has dog breath, the next time you see this guy, bring a toothbrush and some mouthwash with you on your date and insist that he use it.If none of these suggestions seem right to you, then please consider giving us more information the next time you ask a question like this one.Thank you.
Why do I feel like disgusted after I masturbate?
Many girls and boys of your age do feel guilty after masturbation. There is a wrong impression about masturbation which induces guilt in you. Also at your age you think sex is something dirty and by starting masturbation you are taking steps in that direction. Remove all such thoughts from your mind. Do masturbation in limited way , as I think 15 is a right age for doing masturbation regularly.
Is it wrong that i feel bad for jeffrey dahmer?
I don't condon anything, infact im disgusted by what he did. But i feel like he's one of the only seriel killers that wasen't actully evil. because when you're evil you dont want to change. Jeffrey was a lonely child, who just wanted love? is it wrong for me to think if his parents got along never fought and if his mother wasent on so many medicines when he was younger, if he actully had friends and a loveing boyfriend, and if at the time, if it was ok to be gay, would he have grown different, i feel like he was different because he didnt like to torture his victims or animals. He just really wanted people to stay with him. Someone please, help if its wrong for me to wonder about this?
I always feel bad after masterbating?
The title pretty much says it . Everytime I masterbate as soon as I um, finish, I get a sense of guilt and disgust. I never even have time to enjoy it after because I feel so dirty and disgusted with myself . Is this normal? I did grow up in a Roman Catholic school, some say this is why. Why do I feel this way and how can I make it stop.