Why did God make some people ugly and some beautiful? Since good looking people are always at an advantage, isn’t this prejudiced?
CONFESSION: I won't say “beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder” because at some point in my life, I too judged people on the basis of their looks only to realize I was wrong.I will tell you about this incident which happened a week ago.I was sitting with one of my friends and watching the video of Ed Sheeran's Shape of You.There was a girl in this video, Jennie Pegouskie.While watching the video I said “ yaar Iska figure Bahut Sahi hai(she has an awesome figure”).My friend retorted apruptly, “dikhti Bhi achi hai dekh tu(look, she is also looking good)”.This happened today when I was sitting with another friend and she was telling me that she hasn't seen the video of Ed Sheeran's Shape of You.I played the video for her to which she said, “yaar gana mast hai but ye ladki Bahut Gandi dikhti hai( This song is really nice but the girl in it is not at all beautiful)”.I hope you got my message.I personally think that the scale of beauty and the definition of gorgeous is different in everyone's thesaurus.Some find fair complexioned people beautiful, some find the dark ones attractive.Some find chubby girls cute, some chase the skinny ones.It is a famous example, sometimes in a movie or TV series, when a person is kind hearted and helps everyone, we immediately find that person attractive no matter how he's looking.I find my old photos unattractive, sometimes I feel like deleting them and I question myself “how was I able to make this my Facebook profile photo few years back?”Answer this. I read it on a Facebook page.If you are asked to choose between your happiness and the happiness of every person you love from the bottom of your heart, for next hundred years, what would you choose?Think.Think.Think.Think.Think.Think.I don't see how they are different.It is the inner beauty that counts and I think God has made all of us beautiful.Regards,Twinkle Agarwal
I am pretty and I hate it. I want less attention and want to live the life I want. What do I do?
Beauty is like winning the lottery. Most people would consider either a great gift. I sometimes read about some poor guy who won millions and his life fell apart as he burned through it in few years. I always thought it odd that he didn’t figure it out while it was happening and give the remaining money away to try and stop the downfall. They always seem to lose everything, and only then blame the money. Well beauty, like money is easy to get rid of if you really think its causing you problems. With money you just give to charity. With beauty, I’ll give you four things you can do:Start enjoying more of your favorite rich/sweet foods. Gain a few pounds. Don’t tell me about health. Studies have shown that people can be a little overweight and be perfectly healthy. I’m not saying you suddenly be ugly. You’ll still get attention, but I would bet it will decrease.Stop showing off your figure. Raise the neckline and lower the hemline. Wear more conservative clothes. They don’t have fit perfectly; go for a loose fit.Save yourself some time and money, and stop wearing make up. Why do you wear it? Chapstick works great for chapped lips. The rest is just about looking good. So ditch it and put the money in your 401K. Loose the accessories while you’re at at. You don’t need necklaces, earrings, rings, etc. They just draw attention.Cut your hair short; really short. It can still be tasteful. I’m sorry to offend the ladies with short hair. And I know there are several celebs out there with short hair that look amazing. But biology is against you on this. Throughout history, a long mane has been a sign of fertility. Its coded in our male DNA to be drawn to it. It doesn’t apply to all men, but you should notice a decrease in the attention if your hair is long now. Now before y’all send me hate mail, tell me honestly you thought Penny on The Big Bang Theory looked better with that pixie cut. And short hair is easier to take care of; thus freeing up even more time for other things.
Single men poll: If you won a big lottery, how likely would it be that you would make a fool of yourself?
How likely? Extremely likely. No matter what happens, it will simply be ME - the midget, making a fool of myself. With a lot of money, ANY woman will give a midget like me a go. They will be lying of course... telling me how cool and attractive I am - until the money runs out of course. Being a midget with several beautiful girls hanging around me at the luxurious hotel is "making a fool of myself" enough. No one takes me seriously... boo hoo
What would you consider genetic lottery?
Being very intelligent, healthy and mentally intact. Confident, charismatic personalityFrom an appearance standpoint:*Good skin*Balanced, attractive facial features….eyes, nose, mouth/lips*Straight, white teeth*Good physique…..lean, good muscle tone, flat abs, nice legs, nice booty, etc.*Good hair