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Its My Birthday Today 14 But No One Has Told Me Anything /

It’s my birthday today and none of my friends have wished me “happy birthday” I am sad and angry. What should I do?

Happy birthday.. Many many happy returns of the day.Do not let others control your emotions. I know it is easier said than done. We all go through this stage in life when we are far from family. We expect our friends to treat us like family. But remember nobody is anybody's friend. We are surrounded by people but we are alone.There are friends who forget our Bday because of the problems and tensions in their life. There are others who do not even bother to ask us our Bday dates, inspite of us wishing them a couple of years. Then there is the last category which remembers to forget to wish. They make things worse by wishing after a week too. So this is the world for you where some times even family members forget.I was there in these situations and it lead to heart breaks, crying and immense hurt in the growing years. To put an end to this partial treatment I started announcing my Bday days before to ensure things in my favour. Nowadays I buy my gifts myself and make my husband pay for it. I buy my cake and get a dress too. I can't waste my day just because of other's indifference. So go enjoy your day. Have a nice day. Eat what you want and sleep well. Do not expect hereafter, your make your day good.

Today is my birthday and no one wished me "Happy birthday." I feel really sad and unimportant. What can I do to make myself feel better?

First of all, Happy birthday, Dear….!!!!Hope you had thanked god to give you another precious year.As come to your question, Birthday is a thing that makes us excited and happy. But it is not necessary that all have to wish you. Sometimes people forgot the day even I forgot my best friend’s birthday. But that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t important in my life. Even we had spend the entire day of her birthday together and I couldn’t remember that this is the day of her birthday. Still, whenever I am in trouble, my mind recall her name first and same for her’s. This happens sometimes, all have not the great power of mind to remember things.Secondly, others are just temporary in your life. Only your parents will stand besides you whenever you are in trouble. So, why we feel sad for not getting wishes from temporary person.Thirdly, our happiness shouldn’t depends on others. If you want to celebrate your happiness you can celebrate by your own. You can do whatever you want to do by your self from dancing to going alone to restaurant.According to me, One should take a blesses from their own parents by touching their legs on their birthday. Because they gives blesses from their heart. One should thanked god for everything what he/she achieved till now. And make a promise to yourself which you want to change in your life. For instance, If u think you are getting angry easily then you can make promise to yourself of not to get angry easily. This things are more important than fake friends.And if you still feel that the person who are important to you doesn’t wish you then you can simply message them and talk with them as usual. Because its your birthday, do whatever which makes you happy.But don’t be dependent on others for anything. Others are just fake. There are rarely people who will stand by you whenever you want them most except parents and siblings. Never feel shy to do things which makes you happy.And you shouldn't worry about the wishes on social media. If you feel bad that no one had wish you on social media, you can erase your birthday from social media. But you shouldn't affect your happiness by such a little things.

Today is my 14th birthday and I'm not sure if my parents remember or not. ShouldI remind them?

Don't remind them yet.
Wait and see what the day brings.

If you get to the end of the day and nothing has been said or done, just ask them matter-of-factly: "I just need to know - did you cancel my birthday because I'm grounded for missing curfew?"

If they've forgotten, they'll have to own up to the mistake - no covering for it by saying they were planning something for the afternoon, or something like that. They should feel terribly about it if they have forgotten, and although it is not your place to say so, it might remind them that everybody makes mistakes.

If they say that they did cancel your birthday because you're grounded, you might consider one of the following responses:
-That really doesn't seem like unconditional love to me. I didn't know that I had to earn the privilege of having you care about my birthday. But, I'll keep it in mind going forward.
-I feel like it would have been more fair for you to tell me this ahead of time. I could understand not having a special breakfast or getting out of chores, but it was hurtful to not at least hear "Happy Birthday".
-I wonder - if you're late to work or get a speeding ticket in the car, does someone cancel your birthday? This seems harsh.

Don't get into a fight, but speak up for yourself and voice your opinion in a mature way. Whether they want to hear it or not, that's a skill that you'll need in the next 4 years and for many years after that.

What piercing should I get for my 14th birthday?

Don't get your lip or eyebrow pierced - that's skanky hahah.

Go for your bellybutton or a small nose ring - it's cute.

Can someone say happy birthday to me?

It's my birthday today! I've turned 14. Unfortunately, no one has said happy birthday to me on any of the social media sites I have or in real life. Only my mom did this morning before she went to work. My mom and dad are divorced, but my dad and I don't really talk to each other.

I am pretty upset that nobody wished me or even acknowledged it was my birthday. I guess they're a little busy going places. So basically I been sitting in my house the whole day, doing basically nothing but eating and surfing the internet. My mom won't et back till 2 am, since her boss is making everyone work until a little later or something.

This is basically a rant now... Sorry! I just feel upset and lonely right now. It's kinda sad that I'm asking people over the internet to wish me this, but can you say happy birthday to me?

Thanks. And I hope you guys have a better birthday than me.

What do I do if no one cares about my birthday?

So I turned 14 today. I haven't been all that great this week. I recently broke up with my girlfriend and I feel as if everything in life has gone wrong. Shoot I sometimes think of suicide. I just wanted too have a nice day, after school to go to a resteraunt with my family. My mom did come home with a cake and some stuff which I was thankful for, but then because it was so simple like just another regular day that I got mad. She started shouting at me and I just told them to F*ck off. I am totally confused with life. Should I go on or just F*ck the world?

I"m having the worst birthday ever?

I'm sorry you're feeling down today. Doesn't seem fair does it? Maybe, just maybe your family is planning a surprise for later in the day.
I can relate. So much so that I wish I could totally forget about my birthdays forever. My 16th - older sister had a HUGE surprise party with about 50 kids. I got a 'surprise' with 6 kids.
21st - I was pregnant and hubby was out of the state with work and I was living in a town where I didn't know anyone.
30th - hubby got called out on an emergency that afternoon and couldn't get back until late that night.
40th - seemed ok until I found out that best friend and hubby had a little thing going on........
I haven't had my 50th yet but really wish I could just sleep through it.

I hope that your special day gets much better. If nobody in your family has wished you a Happy Birthday then you should remind them that today is the day. Call a friend, write a story/poem etc..... ask your mom about sledding again. Too bad if your dad can't go - It's your birthday dadblastit!!!!!

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