I've never been close with anyone....?
I've always had friends, and I enjoy my friends' company a lot, but I never felt super close with any of them. I always hear that a friend should be someone you can confide in, express your problems to, share your wishes with, someone who could just walk into your house like they live there, even when youre not home. Some people are constantly texting with their friends, skyping them, calling them, etc., but I just dont. In fact, i've never even used Skype with anyone! I had a couple of close friends in elementary and middle school, and we would talk to each other all the time and constantly walk into each other's houses, but then both of them deserted me quite suddenly and i've never had a relationship like that since (im in college now). I guess I just tend to keep all my inner thoughts to myself, which is alright with me sometimes, but other times i feel weird that whenever something is really bothering me the only person I have to talk about it with is my mom! Not only has this effected my friend relationships but also my romantic relationships....I've still never had a boyfriend. I'm worried that if I dont figure out how to get close to other people, I'll never be able to find love! Is this a strange problem? I'm very nice and quite friendly in general, but I'm also shy and I just don't ever have a lot to say. How can I fix this?
I can't love anyone?
As far as disappointments go... well these people have hurt you whether they meant to or not. But the only one that can allow them to keep hurting you is YOU. To be bitter and/or unforgiving towards them will keep you (not them) hurting forever, if you don't decide to take control of your feelings. Give them the benefit of the doubt, that they were ignorant and release them from the debit you feel they owe you. I was hurt badly recently and wrote the following during that dark time: What then do we do with it when our love feels like pearls cast before swine? Well, forgive and keep on loving. Love radically! *Love your enemies. * Bless those that curse you *Do good to them that hate you *Pr@y for those who despitefully use you and purposely hurt you. When you take care of these feelings then you'll see things get better. You are on the right track, you are seeking help, there is one that can help you if you just ask. Love exists, you just need realize how valuable you are, then belive and expect it . I hope this helps you.
Why are guys so nice to me?
you are a nice girl, stay that way.
Anyone got any good comebacks?
Act like you don't care, Their motives are to make you mad so this is what you do: They say: You're ugly You Say: I know, Isn't that great I can accept who I am without down talking any one else. They say: You're gay You say: It's 2008 find 10 people who aren't or Your right I am very happy(the proper definition of Gay) aren't you gay too? They say: Nobody likes you You say: Really !? I like me Acknowledge yourself, love yourself and know that God loves you. Nothing else matters.