Can you ever truly be friends with your ex? Even if you want to be friends, can you really become the best of friends?
No. Definitely not if you still have true feelings for them.There are so many possible reasons for this.You still have deep feelings for them and you still love them no matter what has happened . You still love them for who they are and somehow they don't share those feelings anymore.You can't fake like you aren't hurt by their decision. Most of the time it hurts, but you respect their decision and stay away. Sometimes you try your best and they fail to realize, so you stay away.What does friendship mean? You actually can talk about all possible things in the universe. Will you be able to talk to her/him about some other person that she/he can actually be involved with? You can never if you truly love them. So there you get an answer of why you can't be friends. Friends are honest and you can never fake honesty with the one you love.You will always love the person if you love them truly from the bottom of your heart. If they have decided to end it, and after you have tried enough if they still end it, friendship isn't possible for a while. One can be mature to atleast have hi bye kind of interactions, but some people aren't even willing to do that.May be you don't want to see her guilty or hurt. This is one of the main reasons why I stay away from her. I can't see her hurt anyday. I still love her but in silence. Can't just be dishonest by being like a friend. That's dishonest to both her and the friendship.We can't be like before. Love makes emotional connection and attachment stronger. But when that person wants to leave, you question yourself, love, life and everything. You simply cannot be friends with the one you truly love. We can care as a friend, but can't fake like a friend and be opportunistic.Finally, friends can be lovers, but you can't be just a friend with someone you genuinely love.
I'm very mature for my age at 19 So why do people think its wrong for me to get married?
Now i started dating this guy when i was 14( i'm 19 now and hes 20) years old and just a couple of days ago he asked me for a promise ring and i said yes because i love him And we've been together for a long time and no one can saying thing about me being immature because some people, when i was 15, thought i was 20 because not only do i look older but i am very mature and have a good incite on things. And i am still a virgin and i will remain one till my honeymoon if he dose proposes to me.So yes i was always the person that thought if you knew in your heart that you would be with a person forever it would be ok to marry if you don't have kids because trust me i don't wants kids at my age. So why do people say i shouldn't marry him. I love him and i have always been mature And no on can judge me if they dont know me.and i have always been the erson that didnt say yes for something i was sure of. Because i'm not like other girls my age. I dont even drink or smoke.I am a Christian and have strong believe not to get married till your sure and i am. So my question is how do i deal with people talking down on me for wanting to marry some one i love. MY parents love him and my bro thinks of him as a brother-in-law already. Some one help i need serious advise here. And please be serious you guys. I don't want to waste a question for stupid answers
What are the lessons people most often learn too late in life?
1. Never judge any person by his/her looks. Never judge a book by its cover, so stop being judgemental about others.Example : Ex-Miss World & Miss India Manushi Chillar2. Work on Self Improvement more than entertainment. That’s why Quora is much better than facebook.3) If a person wants to stand by their self then let them because there is nothing wrong in doing by their self.4) Nobody will come to pick you up in your bad times except your family . Hence, value them .5) Love is a second thing ,First learn to respect your lover.6)Stop wasting time on a person who doesn’t deserve your attention.7) Showing respect to helpers & waiters would not degrade your position.8) Our words might kill someone ,We should think twice before using them.Choose it wisely.9) Intelligence beats size.10) We should never give up because sometime great things take time to happen.LEARN FROM YOUR FAILURES. No one is perfect in life. We all makes mistakes, but person who learns from their mistakes or failures are the one who creates history.11) Physical fitness is important. It affects your intellect, mood, and relationship to others. Go to bed early. Wake up early. Sleep well. Eat well. Stay fit. Exercise Regularly. You only get one body, so don’t neglect it.12) Drinking alcohol and doing drugs or smoking cigarettes will at last get you to the death bed at an early age. Its looking stylist to other but actually it is a classy way to commit suicide. Avoid them.13) Developing skills will get you to a reputed post and that in turn will earn you a decent amount of money as well as respect. So start working hard on your dreams. Person or life can cheat you but your skills can’t cheat you in your life even in bad time also.14) You never know when you will become famous due to your efforts on something , So keep on trying. Don’t give up.Never lose hope. No one knows about destiny. Best example : Richest man on the earth right now Jeff Bezos (Amazon’s CEO)15) Challenge yourself each day,each week and improve your willpower, productivity of work and self-control! Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.Hope you liked my answer :)but I want to hear your opinion. Please share in comments below.Thanks & Regards by,Chirag Dhanesha(Developer of Best 999+ Psychology Facts For Life Hacks - Apps on Google Play)If you liked my answer then check my above application to support me & get daily life psychology solution in one place.Credits : Google Images & Pinterest