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What was the worst advise you have gotten regarding your baby?

the health visitor telling me i shouldn't put my baby in a baby walker as it will prevent her Development. she hated sitting around and lying on her back so did it anyway and her legs have gotten real strong. she not crawling y but i think she'll be walking instead as she can hold herself up for longer periods of time. plus shes not bored anymore. also people saying not to mother a child too much. how can you mother a child too much?? i kept picking her up when she cried and soothing her specially at night and that's why since she was 1 month old she sleeps through the night! i listen to advise but its my decision at the end of the day whether i take it on board as i am her mother and i think i know what is best for her and what isn't.

What does it feel like to give birth to a baby?

It is so hard to explain the pain. But I'll do my best
With my 1st the contractions hurt yeah, but obviously not to bad. Because the next day as I sat feeding her I said I would do it again.
But after my 2nd one I said NEVER again,lol.
The actual contractions start off as dull period pains that come in waves. Then over time they get progressively worse. To the point that the pain is way more than just period pain,lol. They start off as little pain, then over the course of a minute they ioncrease and then decrease the same way as they started. With my 2nd birth they got to the point where they were so painful I couldn't sit or stand still and couldn't talk or breath right. Then when it's time to push, you get this all mighty overwhelming feeling to push with all your might. Once I finished every push I wondered how on earth I could push again. Then that feeling came again and that's all I could concentrate on. Which is bad because I forgot to breath and fainted,lol. Well I can laugh about it now. Then when the head is crowning the opening and surrounding tissue burns crazy as it stretches and tingles(not a good tingle either,lol) and feels like you're going to explode. Then once your babys head is born, they tell you to hold the push and not to push anymore. Even though you really really need to. Then when the body comes out it feels weird(did for me any way) I could feel every limb move out, like a snake,lol. It felt like it was on slow motion too.
As for the pain after my babies were born, it was still there,lol. I remember saying "I thought the pain went when the baby was born" hahahaha I'm SO gullable. The pain was sore pain,Obviously. Both my daughters births were so different but at the same time so amazingly fantastic. I'll never forget each one's pain and happiness
There it is. What having a baby feels like for me(in detail,lol)

What were the theories Carl Jung came up with regarding tarot cards?

tarot is an alchemical science - the marseilles tarot that is,,,it is the only authentic tarot. like alchemy, gnostic christianity and hermeticism, tarot is about the union of opposites giving birth to a new being…. coincidentia oppositorum, …. this is the process of individuation, in jungian terms.jung didnt come up with any theories about tarot explicitly - he just recognised it as part of the hermetic lineage - ie the more or less hidden schools/bodies of knowledge that have continued down through the ages, safeguarding a certain knowledge, or wisdom we might call gnosis (- another union of opposites, gnosis is the marriage of reason and intuition/faith - it is knowledge from the inside out as well as from the outside in)….the gnostics were slaughtered by early roman christians…hypatia being the most famous of these - her brutal death officially ushers in the dark agesin short, for about 1500 years or so western societies have been based on suppressing certain truths about the nature of reality, and discrediting these truths, often violently, when rediscovered. hence why tarot is a card game and alchemy is about making gold - ie a cover to protect the initiates…today we are being asked patiently but firmly to rediscover these truths, for now its not just a matter of slavery to power, its also about the survival of the living earth….and this is the kicker….wherebefore power always mangaed to reasert itself, maintaining slavery throughout the ages, by calling it different names….today we know that this pyramidal structure cannot be tolerated anylonger…..it is too dangerous….for allthe new structure: the web of life.

A newborn dies immediately after birth. How does karma work here?

As you think, children are not innocent. The child of a demon has the devil characteristics in the form of seeds. The soul in a child has just entered the earth after a long punishment in the hell. The child may get a better birth. The angle of sympathy comes since you are not aware of the soul in the body of the child. The body is like a shirt and the death is only destruction of the shirt. Gita emphasizes about this aspect in the beginning itself. The plans of the Lord are not known to us. He may give a better shirt in a better place and protect the soul. We see a brief part of the film and conclude.Only complete and thorough spiritual knowledge can remove all the doubts.You are getting everything according to your present deeds and also the past deeds. The Lord has arranged the cycles of your births. In each cycle happiness and misery are alternatively arranged leaving the sequence of good and bad deeds. Even if you have done two sins subsequently the fruits of the two sins are not given to you subsequently. The result of a good deed is penetrated in between these two sins. Like this the Lord has arranged all your life cycles at present and in the future. If you are pestering Him, He will bring the result of good deed from the future cycle to the present cycle as a pre-matured fixed deposit with reduced value. By such interference your future life cycles will be filled with misery. Then you will scold the Lord crying “Oh! Lord you have given me misery from birth to death”. You don’t remember your foolish interference in the past birth.The other way is that the Lord in human form should transfer your sin on Him and should suffer for your sake. This path is possible only when you don’t aspire for this path and worship the Lord in human form by sacrificing all your bonds of the world. This is possible only for a true devotee who never wishes that the Lord should suffer for his or her sake. Such true devotee will be worshipping the Lord without aspiring anything in return. One has to understand the theory of Karma and the devotion towards Lord. The Lord suffers for the sins of His true devotees only who are really serving the Lord in practice by doing Karma Sanyasa (Sacrifice of work) and Karma Phala Tyaga (Sacrifice of the fruit of work) in His mission without aspiring anything in return. In such service even an Iota of desire should not be present even in any biological cell of the human being. This is called ‘NISHKAMA KARMA YOGA’ AS EMPHASIZED IN GITA.

Where did Limbu people originate from?

Basically there are many theories regarding the origin of limbu people ,yet i am not going properly like a academic observation giving reference and sources. Limbu are kirat peoples like Rais, Yakkha ,Yamphus etc. (Don’t ask me about Kirat). Being a limbu , my observation and answers may somehow sound or turned partial to some extent.The citizens of Limbuwan are called Limbu . So the origin of the Limbu people directly have conncection with their present land. The historical as well as citing the ancient and sacred limbu religious book “mundhum” (oral basis or on book form) which contains some interesting facts and the details about the Himalayas, the rivers of which are in present Eastern Nepal and some regions from present day Limbuwan clearly pointed out the Limbuwan region as their place of origin . Some says that they were basically migrated from Yunan Valley in Southern China to Nepal and some are of the belief that they were actually from “Muna Tembe” a region that is projected as the area nearby the Mansarovar lake in Tibet (China). They also termed themselves as the people of Lord Shiva,the Kirateswar . Some even observed that limbu originated from Kailash region , the Mansarovar region . So at forst they were termed as kai lasho people, later it changed to Kirat which is traced to the early history of Nepal.Some even termed themselfs as the original settlers who were born and brought up in the present Limbuwan region of Eastern Nepal. But it is somehow interesting to analyse that either the people residing in Limbuwan were termed as Limbu or the limbu people termed their land as Limbuwan.

I thought Roseanne was having a baby girl?

Roseanne Conner from TV show Roseanne!

I thought for their fourth baby was going to be a girl,
but she gave birth to a boy and name him Jerry Garcia Conner.

Did they say anything about her having a girl and then a boy came anyway?
I mean it was fiction etc etc?

Lol <3333 I love that show, I grew up on it, I'm just curious (=
If you know, please let me know!
Thank Ya, take care, Coco & Roy

If you give up a baby and then the adopted parents die , can you get your kid back ? ?

i individually do no longer think of your quandary is that vast. And no i do no longer think of they could desire to. enable them to be grandparents. once you're living house you are the mummy and that they could desire to paintings on so as that he knows that even however you may no longer be there in the process the day lots. And do you fairly understand once you are able to pass out? i think of you're making plans somewhat too a techniques forward and the little one isn't even right here yet. If adoption sense genuine extra down the line it is not too previous due. yet despite in the event that they do undertake him he can nevertheless call you mom and understand you as his mom purely as he will understand his father as his dad. And approximately his dad. If he needs visitation which would be raising the youngster as properly in view that he's development a relationship with him. raising a toddler isn't something that purely happens interior the living house. he would be a function style as his dad. noticeably in case you 2 pass in mutually sooner or later. he purely wont stay with him genuine now yet many mom and dad, divorced or single, stay like that. this is going to take some years till you are able to pass out if i'm no longer flawed and once you're you able to progression which includes your little boy (sorry i think of of the little one as a boy bare with me) and as you say, he and your sisters would be like siblings. So how approximately letting him stay which includes your mom and dad 0.5 or area time? Weekends? That way he wont omit out and that i'm particular the ladies can stay with you on a weekend or 2. he won't omit his grandparents, siblings, you or the dad. the guy who will omit out the main is you. Your mom and dad could desire to have some rights over him however in the event that they could have him all day long concerning making scientific judgements so seem into that. You wont have time to take him to the wellbeing care expert and perhaps no longer the dad the two. i think of he will have an extremely reliable existence, surrounded by ability of one and all of those people loving him. do no longer panic and take it on a daily basis. reliable success! ;-)

In your opinion, what is the most comprehensive theory of motivation and why?

This is not a formal theory so I hope it is still welcome.  Take it with a grain of salt.Motivation: a function of evolution most likely started by competition for mates. The first signs of motivation were likely in the form of curiosity. Those who were curious were likely intelligent compared to non curious counterparts which I'm betting had them accidentally becoming unique and interesting socially as they could show their tribes what they had discovered.  Their social status would have made them popular mates which in turn carried their intellect and curiosity and willingness/ability to mate, forward in the gene pool.Fast forward 1000s of years to today and we see the effects of motivation hard coded into us by years of what was once a fluke becoming common. It manifests in us today as boredom.  A genetic alarm clock to warn us to stimulate our brain or we will lose effectiveness and become less appealing to the gene pool.  Even those who are madly rich and successful,  what do they spend that money on?  Social status,  sex and security.  Birth control allows us to forego the actual breeding part if we so choose,  but loneliness is felt by the rich and poor alike.In the end we are breeding machines and I feel motivation all comes down to getting laid (that's the scientific term).

I'm catholic, is it wrong to find out a baby's sex??

The simple quest for information is not wrong, the question is what methods are to be employed in this quest and whether the information gathered would be used for an immoral outcome.

For example, an ultrasound is a perfectly safe (although not 100% accurate) method if determining a baby's sex. No problem.

Amniocentesis, however, is associated with a higher risk of miscarriage (whether that is because it is mainly used in high-risk pregnancies, or actually is that dangerous, is open for debate). Would you risk your baby's life to find out its sex? That would seem to be wrong - the risk is not outweighed by any benefit.

Now, do you intend to use the information for an immoral purpose? I.e. you want a boy, if it's a girl you're going to abort - that's just wrong.

Assuming you're just curious, however, and the information is being gathered by routine, safe methods (or your doctor wants a less safe method because of other risk factors that you're not telling us) then no, there would be nothing wrong with finding out the baby's sex, no matter how "Catholic" you are.

How do I respond to someone who says "Gravity is only a theory"?

Your colleague is quite right, Gravity is a theory. The word “only” is the part that is confusing. A theory is the name given to the most solidly established knowledge that science has. If the words around science, hypothesis, theory and law were clearly defined it might be easier for you to explain to your colleague what the word theory means.In the past, scientific theories that were thoroughly verified were called “Laws”. The paradigm for science was that theorists “discovered” the Laws of Nature as if the Laws in some way already existed. The best analogy I can use is the story of the child asking the sculptor, “how did you know that lion was inside that piece of stone?”. The Laws of Nature were thought to be immutable and permanent. For example Newton’s Law of Universal Gravity.Today we call even well vetted and tested hypothesizes “Theories”. Theories in the modern paradigm of science are thought to be our best current guess and every theory is thought to be merely the current place holder. The modern view of a scientific theory is somewhat similar to our view of an Olympic or World Record. We think of Usain Bolt as the fastest sprinter today, but think it is only a matter of time before his record falls.Now the word theory like many other words is sometimes misused. For example, when some says “I have a theory”, what they should really say is “I have a hypothesis”. Hypothesis should be the word used for a scientific idea that has not been tested. When scientists says they are working on “String Theory” they should clearly calling it “String Hypothesis”.Modern science has no Laws or absolute knowledge. So yes Gravity is a theory.(Actually your friend probably means Newtonian gravity anyway which is no longer a valid scientific theory, The General Theory of Relativity has replaced Newton’s gravity)