How do I respond when someone gives me a compliment?
Humble:"I'm glad you feel that way.""Thanks! Very nice to hear it.""That's nice of you to say.""I'm not worthy of such praise, but thanks anyway.""Thanks a lot, I appreciate that."Witty/humorous (not recommended if you're normally not a witty person):"That's true, but did you also know I can hold my breath for ten minutes?""Yeah, I know, I'm too great for my own good.""Thanks, I love you too.""Oh yes, but enough about me... let's talk about me instead!"Rude (never recommended):"Just stop sucking up, will ya?""Are you asking me out on a date, or something?""Uhmm, nope, I still don't care about you.""I'm just doing my job, I'm not performing miracles here!"
What is the best answer to "Introduce yourself"?
This will vary person to person and how you are will directly refelct your way of Introduction.Make sure you keep it simple and crisp .I follow these steps.Greet Interviewer.Your Name and your current status i.e Student or what and which organization you are with.Give a little detail about your Native place.Stress upon your hobbies. (Make sure that they Ade your actuall hobbies .)Mention your areas of interest .(Same make sure they are really your interest.)Express your Strengths .Continue till Interviewer doesn't cuts you or stops you.For all this you have to do a study of yourself and one must do always. Introspection helps for this. Be ready with all the stuff regarding yourself.Never mention any Weakness till its not asked .Never fake anything and answer everything veraciously.Be confident and crisp.A short example I would like to give .Hello Sir/Mam,My name is Shubham Parashram Sawant. I am currently studying First Year B.Tech Information Technology at Walchand College of Engineering, Sangli . My native place is Washim in state of Maharashtra . My hobbies are Reading ,Singing and these days I am learning Photography. My areas of Interest are Computer Technology , Defence,Literature, Music, Psychology, Spiritualism. I like to go for trekking.To express my Strengths I would like to mention that I am Dedicated,Confident , Clear with thoughts,Prudent along with this I have Good Communication and Presentation skills , Influencing ability, Good Academic profile and Technical knowledge of my field as well as I keep track of current affairs too. I am a social person .I have ample of Friends and I love to make friends . It makes me Happy to have people in touch so that I learn from them at every second moment . Hope this will help you .Thanks for A2A :)
Why do people ignore me when I try to be friendly and get to know them?
The Internet bring out the "best" in some people. It gives them their chance to be cruel and forward because there can be no retribution. Joe schmo can insult me and there is nothing I can do or anyone else for that matter. It give people a power high. I see someone slamming you as a Jesus freak on the religion/spirituality section. If that bothers them they should go to another section, but it makes them feel empowered. Just let it go by and give em a little prayer.
What is the polite / nice way of replying when someone says they had a long, tough day?
Offer them a huge smile and a cup of tea. Sometimes when you say nothing, you mean everything.
If you could tell your ex one last thing, what would you say?
I am really thankful to you for teaching me some of the finest lessons of my life.You taught me how great I look. It was you who made me feel wonderful. After meeting you I realised that “Beauty is not how you look. It's about how you represent yourself.”It was the relationship with you that taught me that sex is not a necessity in any relationship. Your relationship can survive without even hugs. We never hugged or kissed each other, still we were together.It was you who taught me that looking in your partner's eyes is the sexiest gesture you can pull off. It's amazing gazing continuously in the eyes of your loved one and talking to each other, without uttering a word.It was you who taught me that you should be ready to make some extra efforts to make a relationship interesting. From love letters that we passed secretly to phone calls that we made even after knowing the worst outcomes, I remember everything.Finally, it was you who taught me that if you want to stay happy in life, learn to detach yourself from the people who are gone.Thanks once again for the most important lesson of my life.You left, and I cried for days. I waited for you, for months. But, you didn't appear.And when I heard about you after a long, it was about your engagement.But, by then, I was emotionally stable. I just smirked. That's it. I didn't laugh. I didn't cry either.Your absence made me stronger. I hated you for few months initially. But, then I placed you as one of the most beautiful parts of my life. I don't hate you anymore.You were amazing. I respect you, still, for all the love and care that you showered on me.I had many questions for you. But, I don't want answers anymore.Some questions are better unanswered.Some paths are better unwalked.Thank You. May God Bless You, And Your Husband.
"If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?"?
Here is what I was thinking about, and actions that I did that kept me from meeting that special someone. This was within a six year period: 1. I always expected the worse to happen. 2. Whenever I did something wrong, I expected him to not forgive me, or hold a grudge and take away the love he bestoed upon me. 3. I dated "separated" men. (not a good thing they're always unstable with what they want). 4. I didn't think I was worthy enough for a respectable man, so I would settle for less than I expected out of one. 5. Always trying to please 'him' instead of considering what I felt and what I needed in my life to be happy. 6. Always depending on a man to fullfill my happiness, so I felt as if I weren't happy unless I had someone to share my life with. Of course I found out that's not true. You have to make yourself happy in order to "be" happy in life. 7. Withdrawn from huge crowds or from others whom I didn't know. I was quiet. 8. I didn't know how to keep a conversation going, or interesting. I felt since I didn't have a college education behind me, that I couldn't fit in or was intelligent enough. 9. I was needy for attention/affection/friendship. Some co-worker friends saw this too and didn't like it, so I lost friends as well. 10. Expected too much when I shouldn't have. Hope this helps. Boy was I a mess....LOL There is so much you learn about yourself and your actions as you grow and mature. Of course we can't change what has already been done, but we can sure learn from it, and use that knowledge in the future. I made a lot of mistakes when trying to find a man. And a lot of them were because of my self esteem and confidence. Another example that could be ruled in, and this isn't what I did, but I've seen it, and it is: 1. Never satisfied. Always looking for that "Perfect" person. I hope you get some good answers. :-) Take care my friend....
If I give my ex girlfriend space will she come back to me? PLEASE READ AND REPLY!!?
Me and my ex girlfriend have been together for nearly two years. This is the longest relationship we have both been in and it's our first time being in love. Before we met her life was hell. She lives with her abusive dad and hateful grandma and they both treat her like crap. She ran away for 3 months and got raped. Then I come into her life and I showed her what love really is. She used to get nothing for x-mas and I got a bags full of presents. I treated her like a queen and I tried my hardest to keep a smile on her face. We go to different schools so I used to get up a hour early just so I can see her face before school started. I was basically the perfect boyfriend to her. We almost had a child until she lost the baby. We was doing good but we broke up two months ago because I feel like she's starting to take my kindness for weakness. She's acting mean and bossy and like she runs me and our relationship and expects me to do whatever she says. She's a very beautiful girl and she has a lot of admirers at school and they have talked her ego up so much that she think she can do whatever she wants. She doesn't seem like the girl I met anymore. Well after we broke up, she got a "rebound" boyfriend who was a close friend to her and they went out for about a month until she texted me and told me that she misses me, so she left him, but then when I asked her back out she said she just wants to be single for now. She texted me a couple days ago but I didn't say much and I tried to be a friend instead of a lover and she stopped texting me. I heard when you give a girl space they will change and come back a better girlfriend and they always come back once you give them time. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but I want to know is she going to miss me. Will she come back if I leave from her life completely? Will she come back a better girlfriend and take more pride in our relationship?