Is it reasonable to get angry when people cancel on me last minute?
You are absolutely not wrong to get angry when people cancel last minute. It is rude. Extremely rude. The definition of the word commitment is as follows:A commitment is an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of action.When you tell someone you will do something, you (pl) do it. Period. If you tell someone you will do something and then bail out on that commitment, it is called lack of integrity. Would you trust someone who says they will do something and then bail out for no good reason? Or without good reason and no advance notice? Nope. I wouldn’t. It is the equivalent of saying one thing and doing something else.Of course it is upsetting! It is a breach of trust and a very hostile thing to do. It is just like being chronically late.You made your plans, your hopes were raised; psychologically speaking, you had already mentally ‘tried on ‘ what the party was going to look like/ be like, who was coming, perhaps you spent a lot of money preparing the event, etc…When someone blows you off, what they are really saying to you is that you are not important to them, you do rate high enough on their list of priorities, etc…I don’t blame you one bit.
Persistent, annoying car salesman - is this wrong?
A) I never committed to go last night. I specifically said that it was dependent on how long I was in the other city and let him know that it is a 45 minute drive for me. B) I am also in sales, and I understand that is is how you make a living. However contacting me 5 times, and also text messaging (which I find unprofessional), is excessive. C) I don't consider "I will come by tomorrow" stringing someone along. And I have every intention of going tonight. D) He had my number because he went to look to see if the car was still available and said he would have to call me back. His method of trying to get my contact information. Not a big deal, I don't mind a call back. I do mind nagging. ***E) My question is: is it rude for me to ask for another car salesman? *** The reason I am asking this is because I don't want to deal with someone of such character. That is my personal preference. It does not make me unreasonable. Rob R - glad I'm not even considering Mazda. Salesmen li
Do people with social anxiety often wait until the last minute to make requests, causing the other side to get very annoyed with them?
In my experience, Social Anxiety Disorder usually causes me to mentally plan out every detail of an upcoming social event as far in advance as possible, so as to avoid making mistakes or doing anything to cause inconvenience or annoyance to others. Therefore, anything that I absolutely cannot take care of on my own becomes apparent very quickly, and thus any request I need to make gets made right away. It's true that Social Anxiety can make it difficult to actually contact the person to make the request, but I (and others with the disorder with whom I've communicated) tend to find less stressful ways of conveying what we need to say, rather than simply procrastinating as long as possible. For example, making phone calls is particularly difficult for me, so whenever possible I will text/email/message the person instead, or call them at a time when I know that no one will answer and I will just be able to leave a message (e.g. calling a doctor's office at 9pm).Just keep in mind that with this disorder, the anxiety a person feels is centered around how others view them. Therefore, any behaviors that the person realizes are annoying or unpleasant to others are exactly the kind of behaviors that a person with this disorder will instinctively want to avoid at all costs.
Why do i find my mom so annoying for no reason?
You sound like any normal teen. Parents are evil, the most horrible annoying things on the planet until you reach about 19-20. Then you realize how great they actually are.
Do these annoying Macy's one day ONLY ad's irritate you too?
Don't get me started ! I'll tell you what irritates me about Macy's. There has been a department store here in Portland Oregon - Meier & Frank - since I was a little girl. I remember my mother taking me there when I was just a girl, taking me to lunch, to the Georgian Tea Room, to see the window dressings at Christmas, every window a magical land, to see The Cinnamon Bear, and going to see the giant victory parade on VJ Day right outside Meier & Frank's. That was in the 40's. And there was Meier & Frank. Fourteen stories and no 13th floor. In the heart of downtown Portland. At the turn of the century it was still there. Right across from what we now call "Portland's Living Room", our Pioneer Courthouse Square. Still there. Being a landmark for all true Portlanders. Until ---- along came Macy's. Now it's all changing, and the signs are coming down, and the Georgian Tea Room served its last patron, and there is no more Meier & Frank. Just Macy's One Day Only ads! And, they have the audacity to use a heart in their logo. Fageddaboudid!!!!!
What should I do when my friends annoying me to the extent where I am fully prepared to hit her?
You should walk away. Do not stay there and continue the argument. Leave. Physically leave.You should take a time out and think about what is going on. Is your friend purposely doing this to upset you? If so, why? Why are you upset? Are you being overly sensitive? Why? Are you being fair? Is your friend being fair?It doesn’t matter who is or isn’t being fair, you should never hit another person. Ever. This is a crime and could end up with you in jail. No kidding.Respect yourself and others by not staying involved in any situation which is not healthy for you or them.
What little things annoy you?
When you just want to enjoy a bottle of coke and upon opening it, it fizzes. Giving you an extra work to clean up.2. Taking a bite from your burger and the meats falls right onto the outfit you wearing, thereby staining it.3. Forgetting to unplug your earpiece from your laptop before getting up to go somewhere.4. Browsing through your phone whilst lying on the back in bed and the phone falls flat on your face. OUch!5. Just being a genius trying to pour little sugar from a bigger opening instead of using spoon and karma treats you right by loosing your grip.6. Being in the kitchen with the intend of keeping a close eye on what your cooking only to get distracted with your phone and end up burning your food anyways.7. Waking up thinking your phone is 100% charged only to notice you did not on your charger.8. Step on something nasty and you have to drag your feet to get it off.9. People walking in front of you who refuses to give you way, yet blocking your steps as you are in a hurry.10. Stepping on a small pool of water whilst wearing your socks only.11. Forgetting to restock toilet tissue as you are on it or soap just about to have a bathe.Forgetting to hand your towel in the bathroom so you have to play a thief by sneaking from the bathroom to your bedroom naked.Source of pictures: Blossom on Log In or Sign Up