How do I stop comparing myself to others? Everyday I compare others around me and think they have better, happier lives than I do. I always think they are smarter and more involved socially.
I think i have a perfect example of why we should not compare ourselves.This is story about three friends including me among them.It began with an awesome picture.Five years BackThere were three friends those were in their 12th standard all want to achieve success in their life.Success in their own opinions.One friend A was excellent in academics who always make fun of Friend B and Friend C because they are not of that level.Friend B(Me) always stay unhappy because of A making fun of them but Friend C never compare him and stay happy(Because he knew academic success is not the only success).Friend A Got really good marks and Got admission in some great NIT engineering college.Friend B got a medium level of college and Friend C didn’t get any college he started his own business.Friend A always thought that he is very smart and success than these two and always laugh at Friend B and C.Current TimeFriend A is working at 25K a month in TCS consultancy.And there are lakhs of employ like him in that company.He still compares himself to Friend B and C but now he felt really sad because he can’t make any fun of them,Friend B is me Abhishek Dhiman I am studying in computer science department o IIT Bombay.I think I not successful but happy that I never make fun of anyone and believe in myself.Friend C was really a champion because he never wastes time in comparing himself and never stop he believe in himself.His business chain is one of the best chains in our area.He earns lakhs in just weeks but he never makes fun of anyone.His thinking was academic Success is not the only success.Lessons from the storyBelieve in yourself you have what it take’s to be a successful person.Never compare yourself to anyone less or more strong, less or more smarter, less or more skilled etc.Because you never know what the future.Academic success is not the only success every parent should understand this point.Please do upvote if you like the answer that would motivate me in writing more.Happy Reading.
Yugioh-For People that Stopped Playing?
I for one love this question. I never thought anyone would ask it at all, I have thought about it, but didn't really feel like asking it. Nonetheless, I will give a well thought out answer to this philosophical Yu-Gi-Oh! question. Technically, I have not stopped playing the Yu-Gi-Oh! Trading Card Game. I still play it in the latest installments of it in the Yu-Gi-Oh! video games (mostly Yu-Gi-Oh! GX Tag Force 2 for the PSP right now). I did stop collecting / buying the actual real-life trading cards after Tactical Evolution went out in August 2007. Mainly, I just did not feel the appeal to spend countless amounts of money at the local Target retail stores anymore. The fact that I have thousands of cards (about 7000), it WILL NOT be a waste of money until the TCG's era comes to an end in the future. By about 2015 or so, the cards may be worth less than they are today by a large sum. I still have yet to sell them to a Hobby store or on ebay. By my math I think I can get a nice lump of money for them. Basically, I will get the same money back for the cards I bought in terms of common cards and plain rare cards. The amount of money I will make solely depends on the Super, Ultra, Secret, and Ultimate rare cards I sell. The Yu-Gi-Oh! TCG is both a business and a way to obtain glory in tournaments as well as a way to make your mind think in terms of what to include in a deck. I use this method in the video games to enhance my skills and what not. Basically, I will not regret buying the cards until Yu-Gi-Oh!'s era comes to an end. Unfortunately, I think the Yu-Gi-Oh! era may end after Yu-Gi-Oh! 5D's ends. But otherwise, I just play the games for fun and excitement. Plus, buying the videos game is practically buying them for free (buy game for $40, then sell the 3 exclusive cards for $40). By the way, which is a better way to sell Yu-Gi-Oh! cards if you know, Hobby Stores or EBay? I cannot wait for Yu-Gi-Oh! GX Tag Force 3 and Yu-Gi-Oh! 5D's Wheelie Breakers.
How can I stop being jealous of my girlfriend’s past relationships? She is my first girlfriend, but I am her fifth boyfriend. I can’t stop imagining her with her past boyfriends.
You seem to be laboring under the delusion that the fact that your girlfriend has had sex with other people means that she is somehow tainted, dirty, and lesser for it. You may not realize that that’s how you feel, but follow that bad feeling in your gut when you imagine her with one of her ex-boyfriends and that’s where it will lead.You’re upset because you aren’t the only one she’s ever been with. Are you upset that you weren’t her first kiss? Are you upset that you weren’t the first person to hold her hand? If not, ask yourself why. What makes her having prior sexual partners different from her having prior hand-holders? It’s because sex makes her dirty while hand-holding does not.Obvious bullshit, right? Hopefully you know that in your head - now you just have to come to terms with it in your gut. If you can do that, and you two are happy, more power to you. But it may be that you just aren’t emotionally mature enough to handle a girlfriend who’s had prior partners yet. It doesn’t make you a bad person - the society we live in seems to actively celebrate emotional immaturity, so it can be tough to shake. But you need to communicate this to your girlfriend. She doesn’t deserve to be dragged through the mud while you come to terms with yourself.One other thing to consider - your girlfriend has held hands with other guys, kissed other guys, and had sex with other guys. She’s gone on dates with them, had dinner with their parents, and played with their little brothers and sisters. She’s learned a lot about herself in that time - she knows something about what she likes and what kind of person she’d like to be with. And having learned all of those lessons, do you know who she’s chosen to spend her time around these days? You.At the end of the day, you’ve gotta do what you think is right. If the fact that she’s seen other dicks in person truly keeps you up at night, then you’d both be better off if you broke up. Otherwise, try to realize that she’s with you because she wants to be, rather than because she doesn’t know any better. That’s an honor.
Bf keeps asking for threesome. Last time I said no, he joked about finding another girl. Should I leave him?
Ive been with him for 2 1/2 years. We always go on dates we try different things in the bedroom and we lived together for a year during our last university. I believe he loves me but I feel like he has the potential to be impulsive and selfish so I took what he said not as a joke but he claims that he was just talking too much and told me not to look into it when I expressed i was hurt. He kept asking for a threesome I told him a guy could come to make him jealous and stop but he still wants one but with one more girl. The first few times I brushed it off and even was okay with it because I was happy he was being open but as he kept asking I began to feel like I was not enough. Despite this he brought it up again. He said he will go online to find his soul mate he even joked about asking what star sign is most likely to have a threesome because I'm into star signs. He then told me that I am boring. Please start with a yes or no. Thank you .
Women , please help with your opinion On what this could mean?
First Ill say that I asked this the other day and got some good responses but I want to ask one more time and try to draw from a different group of people because Im getting ready to make a huge decision. Here goes. My wife had an affair a few months ago. I caught her on the phone with him. I left. She begged me back. I came back home. But told her that she was going to come clean about her affair. She said it was short term heat of the moment and just emotional. She went on to say that he did come over to my house one time but he was only there for 5 minutes. I put her on the spot and told her I was going to leave again and this time for good because of her lying. She then said "I cant tell you" "you will never forget it" "your not going to forgive me" I said well, what is it? She then confessed that they had kissed. Which I didnt think was an "I wont ever forget". So my question. What would be a " you wont ever forget" to you? I know women think different. Y I ask.
How to Last Long Enough in Bed?
Probably one of the most common questions asked.. but mine's different I think because of the contradictory (yet honest) information I'm going to give before going into details of my question.. Facts: 1. I have no problem catching a hot chick and getting her home. I'm a dancer and well chemistry on the floor is usually follows you back home. 2. I enjoy giving oral sex to a woman, you could say it's a fetish of mine. And girls have complimented me on my work with loud screams and hair pulling. 3. I'm not a shy person. 4. I whack off twice a day. Ok having read all that let me get into more specifics and details.. The issue is that I *** too fast. But not all the time and usually when I bring her home the first night and the sex is well that night. The morning sex on the other hand is usually amazing. This is driving me insane for the following reasons: a. I'm 28. b. I think the fire starts the night you get her home the first time.. but in my case it's usually in the morning wehn we blow each other's mind.. c. I feel like it's 90% psychological and 10% physical. - The more ridiculously gorgeous the girl is the more sexual pent up energy I have and the more I want her and and and... when I eat her out and she's about to come.. and I go for it.. I can't last long. It also pisses me off because I'm a giver and I want her to experience pleasure.. so me not lasting I know is not helping her. - On the other hand if the girl is eh so so, cute but not hot.. I can last much longer and usually have crazier sex. I don't think it's fair to her semi cute girl and to the hot chicks that don't get to have the same fun till morning. - Finally, when I whack off alone, I feel in total control, and I can stay longer and harder and and.. So to summarize all that, I would like to be able to last longer and really please her the first time around. I give good head but can't last long the first time if it's a really hot girl. What can I do?