He bought a house behind my back, should I leave him?
Ok, I read your post and read what everybody else had to say and I have to agree with some of the people on here who feel that if he will do this behind your back with your hard earned money what else is he capable of? This was a total lack of regard for your role in the relationship as part bread winner. I also agree with what someone said about his not marrying you with you having his child. I think he is unscrupulous and has questionable character, I would get out now and never do this again. If you are married then what he owns is half yours, even though a married man could very well do the same thing only keep it a secret forever. From what you've told us about him I can tell you that I don't like him. Play it smart and protect yourself and your finances I read the added on stuff you posted later, you want your son growing up witnessing this behavior? How long before he isn't breaking stuff and hitting you, especially if he is drinking, he is verbally abusive and thats a total lack of respect for you yet again. I too stayed in a bad marraige for 17yrs finally left after it finally sunk into my thick head that what everybody had been telling me for years that it wasn't right to stay in a bad marriage for the sake of the kids, and I left and you know what? My daughter was sooo happy the day I left and she just seemed to enjoy life so much more ever since she and I both have absolutely no regrets over leaving that jerk. Its not good for your child to be exposed to this you'll see the long term effects on both of you sooner or later.
Why do dogs run away from home and do they ever come back?
Lots of reasons. There arw dogs famous in their towns for making social rounds. That end up having statues made of them.Some simply need more stimulation. Depending on breed of dog, some dogs are entirely bemused by the concept of staying put. I knew a glorious, athletic, show-breed Aussie that had a sitcom-like iterative situation with his ‘owner', who, after gathering his dog from wherever he was to be found that afternoon, spend a few months trying to improve the backyard kennels he devised until finally installing electric fencing. The dog could leap over most fences.Sheep herding dogs do not ‘guard' or ‘watch' property. They watch other *animals*. They report to and accompany the sheperd. Totally weird for this buff, whip smart canine to have to try to get this across to this lame physicist. Poor dog was getting ONE long walk, weekly. Else just some around-the-block jaunt before bed. I would leap over fences and dig myself out, too.I am aware of hunting dogs, including one who designated me his preferred human, who will take themselves on outings unto overnight. They seem be mostly recconnoitering, something akin to a bit of canine orienteering. This is annoying to neighbors, moderately disturbing to the dog's humans, mostly because dogs rarely are savvy about vehicles and often want to be social with other dogs behjnd fences, or pursue cats that give chase. I think it's good to the dog: dogs enjoy stimulation, and their noses allow them access to a world we don't know. Young dogs, especially, need a lot more exercise than many comprehend, and despite having enough exercise, will take advantage of loose gate latches, open doors, deactivated alarms.Rain *will* deter them from staying on scent and can keep them from finding their way back. I've picked up a sheepish dogs few times crom this.But it's not just fear, or thunder: its also simply the joy of exploration, and need to run.
Who sings that 80's song that goes If you leave don't look back something like that?
You haven't given us that many clues really. It could be OMD - If You Leave but other than that I wouldn't really know. Do you have anymore clues?
How can I move away from home and never come back?
I can’t give you an universal answer, ‘coz your question depends on yours unique circumstances.I can share my experience.If you can, first define the problems you are running from. Otherwise you will be running forever.Get a stable job. Your parents shouldn’t pay your rent. It’s just not logical and not giving you any actual freedom.Do not expect luxury apartment from the start. (I know, it’s obvious, still some people have an unrealistic expectations, and have a problem accept reality)DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT SPENDING RENT MONEY. You don’t want to be homeless because of your lack of self control. Rent money is untouchable.Control your spendings. You probably don’t want to invest in someone else’s apartment. You can think that fancy teapot will make your place cozy and more “homey”, but keep in mind, that at any day you would be forced to leave so keep your backpack easier as possible.Have a plan B. What would you do if you’ll lose your job? Or your landlord want you to leave? Having some money on your account is not an option, it’s obligation.Be stubborn. If you want to get away - do it. Find a job, save some money, choose an apartment (you can do this with friends, lot of fun actually) and just go away. You need it, so take it. Probably your family will be against your decision, but it’s only a chance to prove them wrong.Good luck.
How can someone walk out of your relationship and never look back?
Why does it seem that men can walk out of a relationship and never look back with know care at all. and I am broken hearted...and he tell me I'll live. It want kill you. I know that. He tells me he loves me and I hope I know what he is doing.(What he left to she his mom and didn't come back.!!!)He went to rehab for a year.This time we was going for it all. We have always been bestfriends. Why couldn't he be a man and tell me?
Why did Richard Parker not look back (life of Pi)?
I don't think one version or the other version of the story was true. It's not something we need to question in this story. But I also think that the reason Richard Parker didn't look back was related to the side of Pi that survived on the boat. Consider this, you yourself must have lived through something amazing or horrific, or out of the ordinary. And when its over and when you come home, sit down, it feels like it was another version of yourself who went through the extraordinary event. And that version is now gone, now that you re back to your regular life. It is gone without a goodbye and it makes you feel a sort of melancholy. Wether Richard Parker was real or not, the tiger still represented the person Pi had become on the sea. And when he was back on land, that basic version of himself had desolved into the nature, without him even noticing. There was also the sense that even if that basic version of Pi was lost in the nature, it was still with him. He also says so, right at the moment of telling about the tiger going into the woods. So he never got to say goodbye, only changed silently. Thats why Richard Parker didn't look back.
When is a good time to leave home and become independent?
It's a good topic, but the question itself is biased in a way that many cultures could not accept. Being separated from your family does not make you independent nor does remaining with a nuclear family make you immature. A better assessment might consider whether you are selfish and lazy or altruistic, thoughtful and productive. Having said that, I do recognize that it is most often healthy and natural for a person's character to be developed and defined by the sorts of trials and challenges that come with standing on your own. Going to college is one traditional path that marks a new level of independence for many in western culture, as is military service. If one is not on such a path or earnestly pursuing a career by that age (around 18 to 20), then they are probably not on a healthy path, and should be encouraged to take initiative by whatever means are available. That could mean mom and dad cutting off the free ride. Even in western culture this often used to come at an earlier age than is now customary. In rural communities for instance, it was common only a few generations ago for young people to marry and start their own families even in their mid teen years to start raising their own children and making their own fortunes, a practice that would now typically be considered improper at best. That's just one of myriad examples of how the age of a person does not necessarily dictate what is right for an individual. For better or worse teenagers in our present day and culture are very unlikely to be suited to responsibly provide for a family of their own. Finally, I will add that whether at home or away there is no place on earth that you are not dependent on the kindness, civility and grace of others, so we all ought to strive to provide those things to each other if we hope to find them ourselves.
Have you ever wanted to run away and never look back?
Yes, it's an escape fantasy. In alot of ways this kind of fantasy is like a lesser degree suicidal ideation, you don't want to kill yourself, but you want your life situation to die.You probably feel trapped or like you want to change who you are. Why not try traveling for a while? I don't know how old you are, but if you are over eighteen there's no reason why you can't run away for a while. Go see the world.If you are younger or feel like you can't travel right now for other reasons, why not work towards it? Make a plan, save money. Working towards a sense of freedom has a way of making things more bearable. It's something to look forward too. Even if your married and have kids, make a plan for what you are going to do once they leave home, again having something to look forward too can help channel feelings of being trapped.
What will happen if you leave your family for years, not contact them, and then suddenly just come back? How would they react?
Once my maternal Uncle left home ( no particular reason known, he came back from temple in the evening, had dinner and he just left). He left behind his wife, two kids and parents. He must have been 27-28 then.1. His mother ran after him , to catch hold of him but she couldn't.2. His father, who was crippled couldn't figure out, for a very long time,about what exactly had happened!3. His wife, was deeply saddened and shocked by the incident. But she was angrier and worried about matters concerning finance, as he was the sole earner of the family.4. His mother visited vrindavan every year around the time of Holi in the hope of finding him there.( he was a lord Krishna devotee and vrindavan is the holy place for Lord Krishna devotees.)5. His wife started hating him, for his insincere behavior. He did not even think once before leaving his family behind, how would they study, eat and live.6. His father ultimately got into depression and passed away. 7. His wife left home along with her kids and her mother now lives alone. She is 73 years old btw.8. They did not leave any police station, any hospital, any mental asylum in search of him.The family broke into pieces, because my maternal uncle wanted to leave home (and might have had plans to come back, God only knows)You must be thinking how irrelevant I am talking. But dude, drop the idea ASAP. Do you want anything like this happen to your family?Don't think how your family will react when you will be back after 5 years, think about each and every second they will pass without you thinking about your whereabouts . This will start from the very moment you step out of your home.And for instance, let's forget about your family. What will you do with yourself? If you are 22 then you must be a fresh graduate at the max. WHAT WILL YOU DO FOR YOURSELF?If you are thinking this is a way to make your parents happy and surprised, then there is a better way to do that. Study, be a successful person and come back home every night. I hope this is a question posted for fun. I have written this long answer to do my bit to help anyone of you who has thought about this even for a moment in their life!
How do you make a cat stay in home and not run away?
I own a cat and she has already attempted to flea for around 10 times.To stop this behaviour of hers, I have taken extra care in making my home cat proof. The windows are always closed. I make sure that my cat is not around whenever the windows are open.She has a bad habit of running away whenever somebody is at the door. Thus, I make sure that she is not around or I get hold of her whenever opening the door.Its always good to keep an eye on your cat and her habits of attempting fleas. This way you can think of solutions to stop your cat from running away.