My parents want me to live with them forever?
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM! I am an only child so that pretty much is why. Well, only my dad wants me to stay. My mom eh, she'd rather I got out asap blah. My dad wants to move out of the city, but decided to stay so I can go to a university here and stay at home. When I say that I am getting out in 2 years (once I graduate), he laughs and says "good plan." and starts laughing. Worse part is I will still be a minor once university starts and I have no chance of paying it on my own, so I am stuck. I honestly plan on getting the heck out of this place once I graduate, it is hell. They might start lightening up once applying comes, but if they don't, who cares. You are the baby of the family and they don't want their last one to leave, but in reality you will be 18. If they want you to have a successful life, they will suck it up and help you pay for university and get your life started. It is extremely selfish what my dad and your parents are doing, they need to let go and realize we need to experience more and learn more than we possibly could if we stay at our homes.
Live with my parents forever?
Well, i just turned 20, and my father and i are in business together, we work everyday, and its in the garage mostly, i just dont see the point of moving out, i never feel the need to get married, i get along with my parents more than anyone else, home life with them is just more comfortable. I think relationships arent really for me, in fact they are stupid to me. Life is much more stable and fun living with them, i do have friends but i spend most of my time with my dad. I'm happy about it, they have no problem with it, its all part of our life style. I just want to hear from someone else..do you think its normal?
Why don't parents live forever?
This.This is exactly what I thought about when I was in 1st grade. Why do we live just to die eventually. Let me tell you something here...This talk of people living life not because of the destination but because of the journey, it's all bullshit.Sincerely ask yourself, would you be on Quora if you followed your current thoughts? Without hope? Would you have created all these wonderful memories you have right now, today? No, because it's a stupid way to live life. It's not "life" if you haven't done anything fearlessly, and stupidly. What made you do it then?Peer Pressure.Everyone lives according to how people lived earlier. Study, Job, marriage, kids etc. Only few people actually live.They are the ones who know anyday life could be over for them. This fear (ironically) drives them to chase everything they ever wanted fearlessly. Living boring lives isn't enough for them. The rest of us, taking inspiration from them, and to be accepted in society, live a "safer" life, *imagining* that we do enjoy life.So I'm guessing you know how people actually live. Curiosity.They don't want to regret getting life. It's a gift. They actually value it. Not because others told them. Because they actually found a reason to live.This is exactly what me and you lack. I'm still searching, but parents being as concerned as they are, put me in CSE (safest) branch in college. I know I like it too. I love music too. I love food too. What do I do?So here I am trying to find a reason to live. For now, my parents and very few friends are it. When I do find, I'm sure I'll tell you first. I have got suicidal thoughts too. Whenever I fuck up. Bad. But I've always had something to save me (luckily). I have seen what happens when someone takes that path. So whenever you feel stuck, feel such emotions, remember we all reading right now (maybe even 1) person is with you. To help you when you mess up. Not alone.To help you live life like you really meant to live.
Would you mind living with your parents forever =)??
yes!!! U have to be independent!
I don't want to live with my parents forever?
I'm 23 and ever since I was 12, every single day my parents would bring this up, "But you're not going to move from us ever, right"? I don't know what to do. I was planning on moving out some day, but now I just can't. What should I do? My dad is 61 and my mom is 48.
My mom wants me to live with her forever?
I am 27 and have desired to live on my own in a city somewhere. my mom is against that and discourages it. she tells me horrible things will happen if i leave her. sometimes threatens to turn me over to state and have me arrested if i leave her. There have been times that i did leave her, but she wined,complained, and threatened until i move home. why does she do this. she also makes me feel horribly guilty. I can't just up and leave her, but I don't want to live with her for ever. She also tells me if i ever get married my husband and I can at her at her house and share my bedroom. She came from a time when everyone lived one house and is very against children being independent. her idea independence me working and paying her to do nothing, but sit on the couch and eat my food.