My Grandmother is making our lives miserable. Can someone help me?
Ok. I am 22, my mother is 50, my grandmother is 72. We all live together...I know...sad! Anyway, the situation at hand is the fact that my grandmother is the nicest lady in the world to everybody. She's a minister and she has helped so many people and we do too. We have a feeding ministry that helps starving people and help them become closer to God. However, at home, she is really rotten to my mother. She talks down to her constantly and insults her. When she doesn't have a lot of sleep, she takes her anger out on her a lot. Even getting to the point of screaming (a lot.) She tells her it's God, but I know its not of God the way she treats her. We treat her with a great amount of respect and we help out in everything she believes in when it comes to church and the ministry. However, She gets these mean outbursts and she screamed at me today for nothing ( and I really mean it..It was nothing.) It really hurt and she is an understanding woman, but she thinks she is ALWAYS right and she NEVER apologizes to anyone. I want to leave, but I feel guilty because she is getting older and she can't see very well...I need help. My mother and I are miserable. If anything, can some of you pray for me? I am on the verge of breaking down because it is so difficult living here. Also, could this be the sign of a sickness? She never had really bad outbursts like this before, but she has always treated my mother poorly. I need help, prayers and someone to talk to if possible. Please help me
My grandmother is making our lives miserable...can someone help?
Ok. I am 22, my mother is 50, my grandmother is 72. We all live together...I know...sad! Anyway, the situation at hand is the fact that my grandmother is the nicest lady in the world to everybody. She's a minister and she has helped so many people and we do too. We have a feeding ministry that helps starving people and help them become closer to God. However, at home, she is really rotten to my mother. She talks down to her constantly and insults her. When she doesn't have a lot of sleep, she takes her anger out on her a lot. Even getting to the point of screaming (a lot.) She tells her it's God, but I know its not of God the way she treats her. We treat her with a great amount of respect and we help out in everything she believes in when it comes to church and the ministry. However, She gets these mean outbursts and she screamed at me today for nothing ( and I really mean it..It was nothing.) It really hurt and she is an understanding woman, but she thinks she is ALWAYS right and she NEVER apologizes to anyone. I want to leave, but I feel guilty because she is getting older and she can't see very well...I need help. My mother and I are miserable. If anything, can some of you pray for me? I am on the verge of breaking down because it is so difficult living here. Also, could this be the sign of a sickness? She never had really bad outbursts like this before, but she has always treated my mother poorly. I need help, prayers and someone to talk to if possible. Please help me.
My grandmother is making our lives miserable! PLEASE HELP ME!!?
Ok. I am 22, my mother is 50, my grandmother is 72. We all live together...I know...sad! Anyway, the situation at hand is the fact that my grandmother is the nicest lady in the world to everybody. She's a minister and she has helped so many people and we do too. We have a feeding ministry that helps starving people and help them become closer to God. However, at home, she is really rotten to my mother. She talks down to her constantly and insults her. When she doesn't have a lot of sleep, she takes her anger out on her a lot. Even getting to the point of screaming (a lot.) She tells her it's God, but I know its not of God the way she treats her. We treat her with a great amount of respect and we help out in everything she believes in when it comes to church and the ministry. However, She gets these mean outbursts and she screamed at me today for nothing ( and I really mean it..It was nothing.) It really hurt and she is an understanding woman, but she thinks she is ALWAYS right and she NEVER apologizes to anyone. I want to leave, but I feel guilty because she is getting older and she can't see very well...I need help. My mother and I are miserable. If anything, can some of you pray for me? I am on the verge of breaking down because it is so difficult living here. Also, could this be the sign of a sickness? She never had really bad outbursts like this before, but she has always treated my mother poorly. I need help, prayers and someone to talk to if possible. Please help me
Help me Help- My father and his family has been troubling me and my mom for a long time .My father has a negative influence?
I am 25 . My father has been a negative influence in our house -he has made my moms life miserable- I am living in my mothers sisters house . My father never did any work ,he was and always locked in room ,he abused my mom ,took money from her ,never guided me , we lived on rents,shiting houses . My mom wore the pants in the house ,working out,taking care of the home , My dad mentally trapped her and does not respect her at all. She has lot of humanity in her -She always gives him chances. My fathers -mother and sister has also expolited my mom .They come to our house use us ,make us work and go back. My father thinks its my moms right to serve him , he thinks she is her slave .They keep having fights but my mom is not able to kick him out of his own sisters house. We live for free -my aunt and her husband have saved our lives.- My dad abuses my moms sister who has give her house for free. My dad had some inhertiance from his father but my grandmother and his sister has taken everything. We have no legal rights, my grandmother is 81 and has all the property. My dad never pays bills on time , he is teaching guitar -he quit his job earlier ,he always keeps a check on my mothers finances , i hate him ,he has been very insulting to me - How to get rid of these people- now my dads sister is coming in 3-4 days again to stay with us.She wants to do shopping for daughter wedding. My mom is not strong and i feel my dad finds a way by shouting ,dominating and locking himself .
Why is my life miserable ?
Why is my life so miserable? I’m 15 nearly finishing my exams and my life is just so rough. There are many things wrong with my life, for example: my mother, father, siblings Well lest start with how my mother treats me. My mother knows how to push my buttons, every day she has to insult me. It’s like a daily routine and every time she calls my name I feel that I’m in trouble. At times my mother blames me for most of the things even though it wasn’t really me. It’s like she hates me with this passion. My mother calls me ‘ Useless’ and ‘good for nothing’ This one time when I got a bad grade at maths she actually said to me that I shouldn’t have come home that I should’ve just killed myself. I thought that my mothers were supposed to be caring and loving and understanding. My father is a man who cares greatly for education and he compares me to my sister everyday. He’s always telling me that ‘be like her’, ‘you’re nothing compared to her’ when actually she gets tutoring and I don’t. My siblings are cruel too. Every word that I say they’ll straight tell my parents and whenever I swear at my mom they tell her. They completely hate me. My oldest sister told me that I was actually ugly and that out of everyone in the house I was ‘Ugly duckling’ and it’s not only her. My other sister said that too as well as my mother. My little sister actually bullies me:/ she pushes me around and when I do something about it she runs to my mother and tells on me. Of course my mother puts the blame on me, she says how I’m not her age and that I’m 15 and I should grow up. My 3 brothers( two of my twins and 1 little brother ) are the nicest, I get along with them the most, we have our moments but so ******* what , I love them. Please don’t say about how no matter what your family does you should always love them because you don’t really know how it feels like until you are experiencing it. Lowly, I’m loosing faith in everything. It’s like my whole world is coming down at the speed of light and it’s not stopping until it crashes. I have thought about maybe suicide and running away, but then I’d lose the people that actually care about me. This year I have seen through many of my so called ‘Friends’ I’ve learnt which were real and which weren’t. Anyway (: Thanks for reading <3
How do you deal with your mother-in-law living with you?
When I saw top answers, I wanna laugh! You people are so naive!It all depends on what a person your mother-in-law is. If she treats you like a daughter with love, there will be no problem whatsoever! But if she sees you like an enemy who took her son, she still hate you and will continue picking on you no matter how perfect you do. My mother-in-law wants me to do everything, literally everything! All housework: heavy and light, cooking, cleaning, washing dishes, doing laundry, taking care of baby and I have a full time job! Whenever my husband helps, she gets mad. She will find ways to not let her son do it and make me do it. For the first few years, I cared about how she sees me and tried my best to be the perfect one, doing everything EVEN when I was recovering from giving birth. BTW, she fought us so bad and I had to move back to my own parent’s house because my husband helped me clean dishes and do laundry when I was taking care of a new born infant and recovering from giving birth!I used to care so much, keep the house clean, take good care of babies, make good tasty separated meals for babies and family, keep everything organized, etc. But every time I said things (like keep the door close so toddlers won’t walk out of the house, babies should wear seatbelt when they are on high chair), she took it all personally against her, and yelled at me like a crazy woman.You know what, she pushed it too far!!! And now I don’t care. I don’t care how she sees me, how dirty the house gets, how unorganized things are, I am sick to be the prefect one… I AM JUST NOT DOING ANYTHING! Whenever she comes to ask me for things, I say I don’t know…. and I just stay in my room to read my books like a selfish bi*ch…. She turned me into a heartless person. Cus I don’t give an eff! And I feel so relief when I just don’t care any more! I think that’s why people are selfish!
How to make my mom and step dads life miserable?Make them wanna get rid of me?
my mom is a total b*tch she has never cared about me and I have always lived with my dad however my dad recently died and now I'm being Forced to live with her and my as$hole stepdad I could be with my sister but My mom wants me to live with her because I get money from my dads passing..anyway I'm being forced to move to a different state and my step dad is a f*cking douche! He told me I have to call him dad because he's my dad now and my mom agrees with him...and yesterday we were in the car (with my sister driving) and he got in a fight with my mom he said one day I'm gonna punch you in the face! Like WTF? Who says that bs and he is so lazy today me my sis And my mom left and he was home ALL day with 3 dogs and didn't take Amy of Them for a walk and when we came home and asked him why he said they're not my dogs.. Anyway I really am dreading this I can't stand them im willing to do anything..I talked to my sisters bf and he told me to do stuff like pop tires in their truck..."accidently" break stuff ditch school anything to make their lived hell(btw I've gotten advice like this fom many adults, everyone knows being with my mom is bad for me) I have looked up info online and Juvie sounds WAYY better then being with my mom seriously I actually think I would enjoy juvie..compared to my moms "house" Well the point is what can I do to make them Want to get rid of me? Plz help me Thx(:
How to make my moms life a living hell?
First of all, you should give her the silent treatment! Do NOT be rude or mean to her. Just don't talk to her, unless she talks to you first! Help around the house. Do what ever you can to do your part, but you owe her NOTHING! If your mother treats you terribly, just ignore her like the bad habit she is! I am 47 and my mother, 73. I hate her guts. There is nothing wrong with that. I was treated horribly by her, basically all of my life, (judged, controlled, talked down on). I can't stand that woman. I finally did the right thing and told her she was dead to me. JUST because she is your mother, DOES NOT MEAN you "have" to love her! You don't even have to like her! And yes, you MAY hate her! But just ignore the witch. She sounds like 98% of all other mothers and should have never had kids - like my mother!