Do you look different in other peoples eyes than what you think you look?
Congratulations on asking one of the few questions where reading everyone else's answer is more fun that contributing your own. A facinating mix and so far ALL valid view points. There is the philisophical answers and the vanity/physical type answers. Here's my basic view. Physical: When you hear your own voice most of the time you hear the sound conducted through your skull. It makes a huge difference. Likewise, when you look in a mirror you see a mirror image. Almost nobody will see you that way unless you look in one together. Another less obvious thing is your height. You look at the world from the height of your eyes. Remember that unless your're a snail (eye balls on a stalk) you are actually two or three inches taller than that. Philisophical: Dispite how many people are in the world and how close our proximity to any of them, even our own family. How can anyone really truelly KNOW us? If you are just not good at expressing your feelings it doesn't mean you are in anyway shallow. It really just means you are more isolated. Here's a couple crusher questions tho: Do you really know yourself? Is possible that someone out there knows you better than you know yourself?
When I look myself in the mirror, do people see the same thing when they look at me?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You obviously don't look like a complete stranger to the person you see in the mirror or photographs... But you would see yourself 'different' then other people see you. Everyone in the world would see you differently. But you still 'look' the same. For example, when you look in the mirror ... You may hate your hair. So you will focus on that. But someone who knows you could love your eyes. So they will focus on that. Look at it like this. Have you ever met someone and thought. 'Ah there nothing special- ugly- un attractive?' And then you have got to know them and all of a sudden you think the light shines out of there ***? Once you get to know someone as a person there personality comes into play. So in total i believe that everyone looks different then how they view themselves. Obviously not a different person... Haha. But i think when you view yourself you only focus on the negative aspects. Not seeing the full picture. Except for the people who are conceded :P And other people see you and judge you on what they find attractive. And I believe personality has alot to do with this. :) Nice question by the way. I think everyone has looked in the mirror and asked this. Hope i helped... Good luck!
Do you look the same in the mirror as you do to other people?
i agree with Suzanne. I do not think that you look too much different in the mirror and seen by someone else but i think in your own head you will look different because people are very self-critical so they see the worst things eg, they would pick out large hips or something that other people may not notice. i hope that makes sense! anyway apparently you look 20% nicer than what you think you look when you see yourself in the mirror...
How can i look at other peoples phots?
I depends on what form they are in. If they are in jpg format, you can probably open them with your email program or your operating system, and they can just attach them to an email message to you. If they are on your friend's 360 page, you can add the person to your page as a friend, and then the photos will function for you.
Why do I feel bad about my life when looking at other people’s Instagram accounts, and what should I do about it?
Trust me, pal, life would be much better and easy if we know how to and when to demarcate between reality and virtual reality.You are not alone.Almost every other person on social media feels mentally down for one reason or the other, seeing the highlight reels of others on social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook or Snapchat.I am no different.But having a career in digital media AND growing to know this social media world better, I have understood that it is foolish on anyone’s part to buy everything that social media sells to us, at face value.A simple way of putting this would be, you have a bad, bad day, wherein, say, you had a fight with your parents, your cat died, or you just simply don’t even feel like waking up from bed and do nothing but laze around the whole day.Now, would you put this negative/mundane angle of your life on social media?Chances are marginal, for you may feel the onus of the possibility of being judged, being called an attention-seeker, moody, et cetera.Now compare this to a day where you just feel good about yourself. Say, you got a damn nice dress, which fetched you a plethora of compliments, a bevy of people viewed your Snapchat stories, etc. And you do feel like basking in this glory for a change, and you click a picture and post it on Instagram/Facebook.These are all highlight reels that you are sharing.There are people (though less) who share as much of their sad stories as they do for their happy ones, and then there are people who only let their positive side show on social media, concealing the chink in their armor fairly well, simply for the reason that they do not want the world to see their inner demons.But amid all this: truth remains just one. Everyone has their dark days and perfection is just a myth. Nobody’s life is as perfect as their Instagram Feed or Snapchat history might look, and this is a fact.You may feel like, ‘’Oh, she’s got a perfect life!’’ ‘’He has nothing to worry about! I wish I had a life like that!’’ but bottom line is, those persons aren’t living a life that’s hunky dory either, just like you. Just that their problems might be different than yours.It’s the best to thus treat highlight reels as they are: ‘’Reels’’ and know that ‘’Real’’ is quite different. It is basic, it lacks background music, and sometimes, it sucks! But hey, that’s life. We make, we break, and we gotta live it the way we want, whatever it takes! :)Good luck!
When you walk into a crowded room, do you think people look at you?
Yes but not in a parnoid way. I think anyone walking into a crowded room is noticed.