Would you always love your children no matter what?
An unequivocal yes. I believe that children should be able to count on unconditional love from their parents. It is a tough enough world out there to manage without it. It is my true belief that everyone needs to have a safe place to fall. Without that safe place, regardless of age, they will either find it elsewhere-and it may not actually be safe, placing them in dangerous positions, or spend the rest of their lives' seeking it in vain. While I may vehemently dislike my child's behavior or some of their friends, choices, etc. my children know that, no matter how much I may disagree with some of their actions, behaviors and so on, I will always love them. And I can rest with the knowledge that, should they choose to have a dog sometime in their life, it will not be because their therapist suggested it as a way to have the experience of being loved unconditionally, but rather, because they just love dogs!
Why parents love their children more than their children love them?
I have two children......a 4 year old girl and a 2 year old boy. 1) I love them unconditionally. There is no love that can ever compare to the love you feel for your child. It flows in the second your first is born and is the most amazing feeling ever! That's when you find out what REAL love is. 2) I take care of them. I make sure they have everything they need even if I can't always give them what they want. I spend time with them and do the things they want to do. I tell them I love them and give them hugs and kisses every day! 3) The love you feel for your child goes deeper than any love you have ever felt or will ever feel, even for your husband/wife. You have a connection with the child because you know that he/she is a part of you and that they are the greatest gift you will ever receive. When you become a parent, you learn how to love someone without expecting anything in return. You will do anything for your baby, including give your own life if it was needed. I hope this answered your question......good luck and have fun when you become a father! :-)
What is it like to not love your own child?
i can't tell you what my mom have in mind, but i'll tell you what is it that i have observed.a little background first: i was never wanted by my mom, the only reason i was born, is because my stupid dad thought it's a must to have a son in the family as our family is highly regarded(by the big family only). have sex with someone at your 50 to born a son is something very common in my country, and after i refuse to take my dad's job as the head of the house he went on and born another with another woman. when my parents divorced, my mom choose to raise all the children on her own but my dad will have to provide the money for the rest of his life.i could tell that in my family nobody likes my mom. my sisters doesn't love my mom also not only me, but they're all over 30 now and they have their lives and husbands, while me an 18 years old boy still have to rely on my mom to get through high school(in my country study load is huge, kids have to learn extra since the day they're still midgets so kids usually don't start working to live on their own till they finishes college) we have an age difference of 12 years and they're living abroad, my mom works to pay my school fees but mostly it's provided by my sisters. i could tell that my mom never even wanted me, she used to hit me hard every time i made a mistake until i finally fight back. we live in a same house, but difference parts, we have separate items and we rarely speaks, we don't share anything apart from the house. she gives me money everyday to buy food and i'll buy it, cook, and take my part to eat and leave for my dungeon. from what i can tell, she wishes for me to not have been here to ruin her relationships with other men in the past. sometimes she wishes i were never even born, but she still wants a servant. we live just like we live alone, the difference is she pays me to cook and i needed that money, i do provide small services for my friends like building PC fixing their PCs etc and they'd pay me small amount for it but it's enough for me to buy my things, i loan money from my sister to pay for school fees and currently i owe her about $2000.so to the conclusion it's pretty much a normal life. at least for another year as i'll be moving to Canada next year for college and she will be taken to Korea to live with my sister and her family by my sister,my mom have a lot of health problems so i'd guess she got it all planned out.
What does it feel like to love your child?
Loving your children is such a strange phenomena that happens the minute they leave your body (as a female). You instinctively want to protect them from ... everything, including your own house cats. When I had my first child, the cats were so much bigger than him, and it really upset me to have them prowling around. I put them in the basement immediately, and later tapered it to at night only. Slowly, but surely, this protective feeling dissolves, and you learn to let them fly on their own (with your eyes glued to their every move). You want them strong, because you want them to survive. In my case, I also want them cool, so they will fit in socially. I try to behave chill around them, and limit hysterical mother behavior. I now am at the phase where I trust them, and can take my eyes off of them, and it makes me proud for both of us. However, similar to what Patty Henry said above, I would throw myself in front of a train for my kids. It's the strangest thing in the world. I think I may even do it if it isn't even necessary, but I knew it would improve their lives. The other important thing to note here, is that having kids, teaches you to not sweat the small stuff, humble down, and stop worrying about the myriad selfish things we tend to feel on instinct growing up in life. I think it teaches us to be tougher, work harder, and never say never. At least this is what it has done to me. Suddenly, after having kids, I will do anything to be a good example, including not screaming at them when they wrestle around the house, breaking everything in sight. I slowly walk in the room, as if Jack Torrence in the movie The Shining, and give them one look - and the entire situation is fixed. I'm not actually sure how I gained that power, to be honest, but it sure is super. I think it is the "calm" I try to bestow upon them. A face expression will go a lot further than hollering, in my opinion. And to me? That's love. Not giving in to my instinct of reactionary behavior.
Why don't I feel love for my children?
That happen, when you go along with all this “kids are best thing in your life” “you will regret not having kids” etc. “I don’t like kids” is more unpopular opinion, than it would be, if people were not afraid of saying unpopular truth. I am a crazy cat lady, and if I will talk like this about cats, people will think, I’m strange. The reality is: not everyone like kids, dogs, cats. Most men I know, for example don’t. They “try to find something good in it”, but for them the child is useless and annoying, like for me.And children make life shitty. Its harsh truth, but it is. I start my day with a coffee and some new math-related tasks to train my brain. Then I read some new nice books, while commuting. Then I work on my beloved job. Then I go on a training in my beloved sport. Then I do something from the long-long list of things I wanted to do. Every weekend I spend travelling, I have a list to visit longer then my lifetime unfortunately. And I feel happy doing all of these things. All of my friends with kids spend 90% of this time for child-related business. And only few of them seem somewhat happy about it. Most of them look annoyed.
What does love child mean?
A love child born out of wedlock who is not otherwise a child of incest, rape, or any other way, out of wedlock, that is born when the two people are in love. It is not derogatory per see, though, like any word, it can be used that way, but no ugliness at all is implied by the parents, and that is the only thing that counts. if you find it offensive when the person says it, you may tell them that, otherwise, say, isn't love a beautiful thing? Or, thank goodness for love or I (or my precious child) would not be here. Hold your beautiful head up high, you are no mistake, and neither is your child...hold your head up even if you are a product of rape, or are raped, or produce a child after being raped. Put the shame where it belongs, on those who would put it on an innocent child or parent(s). Long live love children.
How does a mother love her child so much?
It's called "unconditional love". I feel the same for my son as your Mother does about you and your siblings. The love you have for your child is unlike any other love you will experience in your life. It's sometimes overwhelming! Unconditional love means no matter what you do, or don't do, you will always be loved. That's the best I can explain the answer to your question.... you should print your question out and give it to her to read... I bet it would mean a lot to her and she could probably give you the BEST answer and explain it in a way so that you completely understand. :) I bet if you show your question to her, it'll really make her day! It's a very sweet question... she'll really appreciate the fact that her love for you doesn't go unnoticed.
What's the difference between parental love and children's love towards their parents?
Something to do with magnitudeAs a child I loved my parents, they were good parents doing all the right things, I felt love, and loved in return.Becoming a parent, I can't even describe how much love I have for my little dude. It's completely different, have you ever heard the phrase that your children are like a piece of your heart walking around outside your body?As a parent the love is so much deeper, you don't just love the baby, you have hopes and dreams for the baby's well being, you become invested in them. My son really loves to play with cars right now, before he came along I didn't give 2 cents about cars. Now? I'm all about playing with cars, it means everything to see him happy.My mom has interests, I willingly went to a painting class with her last week, because I'm a considerate adult. As children however, we don't do things our parents like just to see them happy.Here we are this morning before I got out of bed, he's my whole world.