Ramadan: are women the most biggest weakness for men in this dunya ?
Allah says in Surat imran 3:14 "Beautified for people is the love of that which they desire - of women and sons, heaped-up sums of gold and silver, fine branded horses, and cattle and tilled land. That is the enjoyment of worldly life, but Allah has with Him the best return" therefore we see the thing that eludes men the most is women, sons and wealth but number one is WOMEN
Would a Pious Muslim man marry non Hijabi?
Before starting I only want answers from MUSLIM MEN. Salamou Aleikom brothers. I was curious to know if a religious Muslim man would marry a non hijabi even if she is pious. I'm a Muslim girl who prays all her prayers in time Al hamdulillah, fasts, never drank alcohol or smoked, never dated a guy and never will, Loves Allah and Muhammad Alayhi assalam knows a lot about Islam and Sunnah and respects my parents but I don't wear the Hijab (but still I dress in a very conservative way: no short sleeves, long skirts ect...). I really like religious Muslim men because I feel like it’s the most important attribute in a man, if he follows the Sunnah and the teachings of Muhammad (saws), he will treat me like Muhammad (saws) treated his wives. PS: I know that Hijab is mandatory in Islam and Inshallah Allah will guide me to straight path. (I don’t wear because I’m a student in France and it’s the most racist country towards Islam…)
My girlfriend of 5 years wants to break up because of her parents disapproval. She tried for 2 years but fell for their blackmail. I am not able to leave her. What can I do?
I 100% believe you that she loves you and is sacrificing her happiness for her parents. Please don't listen to these people who say maybe she doesn't love you enough or she isn't strong or independent to handle a relationship. Let me tell you, the love for parents isn't same as that as of the love for your gf or bf or spouse. They are 2 different types of love. Parents who care won't abandon their children no matter how bad the children are. But a spouse will Divorce and abandon you. See the difference in love? These are 2 different forms of love. Parents are the reason what we become today. I 100% believe your girlfriend had amazing parents who brought her up with great values which has shaped her character and what she is today and I believe this is the same character and values in your gf that makes you love her.My advice to you is never give up on her, this girl is damn loyal and will make your life awesome. I have seen people with similar stories, who have had happy endings with parents approving their marriage and living happily ever after. Show her parents how much you care for her. Don't be desperate but send her love through your mind. Search or google remote influence. Goodluck, I hope too hear reply with a good news very soon from you.
How do I make my girlfriend dump me? She is a very emotional and sensitive person. It was sweet and cute in the start of the relationship, but it freaks me out now.
I was in your position once, except I was trying to make my then-bf dump me. Actually, scrap that, I was more cowardly than you once. I realised I was falling out of love with him. I did what anyone afraid of blatantly hurting another would do – I did everything I could to make him hate me and then to leave me. And I succeeded. But at what cost? I genuinely broke and destroyed a good person's faith in love. This is a line that, once crossed, will take more than a lifetime of amends to undo. You are a coward, but you are also being absolutely human, and there is nothing wrong per se in that. But it doesn't excuse you, nor make it any less horrible. "We accept the love we think we deserve." – The Perks of Being a WallflowerMy guess is your main problem isn't that she wants to love you and be with you; it's that you don't know how to love yourself, and therefore don't allow others to love you in the way you deserve.This is the crux of the problem; it will keep coming back and your way of dealing with it (or avoiding it, as you are doing) will only continue to hurt the people who care for you. It won't go away or solve itself even after you get her to dump you. This is, unfortunately, only a temporary fix. Probably until the next girl. But before you tell her anything, do the hard work of being radically, painfully honest with yourself. Ask yourself the hard questions – what am I really running from? What do I stand to gain from getting her to dump me? What is hindering me from dumping her myself? Why am I so afraid of telling her the truth? And then be brave. Don't beat around the bush when you tell her – no analogies, no metaphors, be direct and truthful, but empathetic and tactful. Be ready to answer her questions she may have (she will have many), but stand your ground. Do not waver. And then after you've done it, forgive yourself, learn to love yourself and get to the root of your issues. You do what you must to get where you need to be. She deserves better, and you do too. Now you just need to believe it, internalise it, and then act on it. You can do this.
How do I get my girlfriend to break up with me?
OK - I've been in this situation, it's tough, but you have to end it yourself. Man up (even if you're a woman). Be honest with yourself, you are trying to get her to break up with you so that you stay "the good guy"(even if you're a woman). Speak to her honestly and tell her that she doesn't need you, that the relationship is hurting you and its hurting you. Love isn't about owning another person, it should be supportive not destructive. When I grew up (49) I finally had the guts to do this in a very toxic relationship.
What is a Dua for cure from medical issues?
Ok I am a 15 year old girl, and I went to the doctor and she said my blood test report showed that I probably have celiac disease. Goodness me I have so many toilet tendencies at school. She said I have to go the hospital to have a intestinal biopsy. Apparently I read if the biopsy is positive then I can never outgrow this disease, I so hope I don't have this disease, cause I have to be so carefull all my life. Can you guys please pray for me. And can you please give me a dua or tell me something I should do to get better. I cry all day and also the final exams are coming up so I want to sit them, cause I have tried so hard all year long. Please pray for me. Please
My girlfriend wants to break up with me. What should I do to make her stay?
Hi ,Is there a reason why she wants to break up with you?Let me tell you the reality ok? Let me start of by saying ‘’If you love something , then set it free, if it comes back to you then its mean to be!’ . This might not work in every situation.If there were reasons given to why she wants to break up with you , do you think they are valid?Since i dont know the reason , i am giving you general suggestionsIf you think that she is the girl for you , then fight for her . Give it everything you have got.If you think , the reason she gave you is not valid and she is just making excuses, it obviously means she does not want to be with you . (And trust me , there is nothing you can do . YOU CAN NEVER EVER FORCE a person to stay in your life.)If it is something because of a fight that you guys had , please talk it out to her . and If its your fault , please apologize. Sometimes all a girl wants is a simple apology .Let me tell you something about love, there is NO PARTICULAR way to make a person STAY in your life if they are adamant to leave.Let me tell you my personal experience with my EX, I really loved him , he didn't want me , Didn't want to stay . I forced him , begged and pleaded. Sometimes he would get back to me only because of SYMPATHY . Because I cried so much.And this went for 1 year and 9 months. And then after a while he broke up with me . At one point , I realized , there was literally NOTHING more i could have done to make him stay if wanted to leave.I went through the pain . One year of depression , then moved on. After all of this I have realized , that it was useless of me to have gone through that much of pain because he was NOT WILLING to stay.So here is my advice to you, if you think all that pain is worth it , if you think you have slightest chance to get back , then try . Try talking to her. Sometimes a girl might want to leave because she is insecure . So please ask her if you have ever made her feel that way?. If you did , give her that confidence. (Now you might argue saying that she has to trust you and should feel secure. But trust takes a while to build . Its not easy).PLEASE PLEASE dont force her to stay .. If you mean ANYTHING at all to her , she WILL stay no matter what.I hope this helps . (This answer is general based on few assumptions as you had not given the reason on why she wanted to leave you.)