I'm mad at my best friend, what do I do?
It sounds like a one side relationship and you doing all the giving maybe you should give him space so he can see what a good friend he is missing out on. And if he doesn't realize it than he wasn't much of a friend as you thought. Good luck.
My best friend is mad at me! What should I do?
say it up front. doesn't matter what you want to do its about what you need to do. you hurt your best friend that you really care about so the least you could do is go up to him and say sorry and that you didn't mean it. && i know that those comments probably made you feel awful because they would have made me feel the same way too but in a way you deserved them. now, if what he said in the comments was too far off from what really was then nicely and gently say: "hey man, look- i'm sorry okay? i didn't mean to hurt you or dicth you- if that's the way you feel about what happened. you're my best friend andi would never do that to you. i'm sorry you feel that way but most of all, i'm sorry that i made you feel that way. you can tell me off, because i deserve it, but please don't tell me it like that. i understand you're pissed but those texts really got to me & they really hurt me. in a way i did deserve it, but in no point do i think i did something so cruel to you." but once again, you're the one in the situation so you know what this is all about, what he said & did and what you said & did so you should know what to say too.
I think my best friend is mad at me. What should I do?
Good grief. You harm a good friendship by not taking the time to actually talk to someone who you supposedly care about, and now you’re just going to make it worse by TEXTING?!!! Really? Your actions said that obviously she doesn’t matter much to you because you didn’t take the time (and also didn’t have the integrity) to do what you said you would. Gee, I wonder why she’s mad? All you can do now is TALK to her. Call her up, apologize profusely, and promise never, ever, to make such a mistake again — then mean it. Offer a meet-up, or a hang-out day, or something real. Texts do not a friendship feed.
I'm so mad at my best friend?
So my best friend we are in gr12 I've known her since elementary so I got really mad at her because we all made plans to hang out on Saturday night and go to Halloween party with our other friend she told us all she was doing is gonna carve pumpkins with her new boytoy(she's with a lot of guys) that's she told us then she was like we can go to party after then so ofc she leaves it till last minute and is like idk if can and she says this all day I'm just like well you need TELL tell us because we can't Justwait all day for idk so I tried calling her and texting her and my mom need to know by 6pm or she wouldn't let me go and I said that to her so did our other friend and she didn't respond back till 8pm and I was pissed off i told her do you know how long we waited for you to respond so anyway I was like this was direspdctful because I couldn't go now and that wasted my time she was like I think I'm gonna go to after I'm just like wtf . But another why I'm so mad is cause she always does this with guys she'll always leave things till last minute and say oh I'm hanging out with a guy rn so.
My best friend is mad at me for talking to her ex. What do I do?
My best friend is mad because I started talking to her ex. She broke up with him over a month ago and says she doesn't like him anymore. She's also dated 2 other guys since him, and i've supported her through it all. Her ex texted me one day and we started talking. Well a few days later he told me he liked me and I like him too. When my friend found out she told me that she would be extremely mad if we went out. Well she found out that I was going to his baseball game today and we were going to hang out. She texted me and told me that if I was a true friend I wouldn't have even talked to him... And I was thinking but why would you care if we were going to hang out or not, because you don't like him and he doesn't like you anymore. They don't even talk anymore either... I just really don't want this to come between our friendship... Is there anyway that she will understand and everything will go back to normal again?
My best friend is angry with me. How should I make my best friend smile?
Hey! First of all ask him/her why he/she is angry with you… Then try to find a solution for that and love him or her….Give all possible mental help you can give!! Never create a communication or never support ego problems as these are those three words which can spoil things in just 3 seconds. Try to do things which make you and him happy.. Try to show them how much you love him/her.And try to solve this problem by meeting up on a coffee or something like that.. not on chat or phone.. because environment matters a lot in these type of things… and you can understand things more clearly!!!
Should I tell my best friend why I am mad at them?
You need to invite her to have a discussion where you put all your thoughts on the table. Do your best to give them the benefit of the doubt and wait to cast judgement until after this conversation. You’ll get more answers as to why they wouldn’t answer you before by saying, “I’m really hurt you never responded, what’s up with that?”Friendships are just like relationships. You need to explicitly state the terms of the deal. What do they need our of your friendship? What do you need? If you can’t fulfill that together it’s tim to cut ties(as friendly as possible) and find a new person to be friends with. Life’s too short to have shitty friends.
My best friend, who was there for me when my ex hurt me, is now mad at me because I dated him again. How long will my friend be mad at me?
Thanks for the A2A, but you may not care for my answer.I'm not surprised your girlfriend is mad at you. She must be feeling pretty abused right now. She can probably see that, unless your ex has changed dramatically, and you too, you are headed in the same direction again. People repeat the lessons until they get the learning. But does she really want to have to steer you through all that again? I doubt it. She will probably say 'no, been there, done that. This time you are on your own, honey.'I have no doubt she thought she was helping you to overcome your ex and move on. To get some wisdom in life and to grow from this. But you, it seems, were being fickle. You asked for help or expected it, or took it anyway, and then went back to someone who hurt you.... to her it must seem as if you have not got any learning at all and as if you think she is just there to prop you up whenever you need it. It is one thing to expect a friend's support, but it is quite another to make them accountable for your lack of learning. This is very draining in any relationship - be careful about how you treat your friend. You need to make a decision about whether you wish to be with your ex, but if you go back, don't expect your friends to want to be on the big dipper with you or to bail you out emotionally afterwards. This is the behaviour of a child and your question 'how long on average will she be mad' indicates how immature this attitude is. It is also a mark of great disrespect to your friend, who tried to help you. Try showing some sensitivity...What strikes me about your question the most is your willingness to disrespect yourself. You quite clearly hold your own heart in such low esteem that you would go back for more hurt. I have a feeling you have not gained any learning and will get hurt again. I would also not be surprised if you lose a girlfriend over this.
Mad at my best friend for smoking weed?
So my best friend (we are juniors) just told me she has smoked 3 or 4 times a couple months ago, and I am kind of mad and upset at her. We have been best friends for about three years and tell each other everything and I can't believe she never told me this until now, she just casually mentioned it. Also, we always said we were not going to smoke or drink and talked about how rediculius it was everyone else did it so much and then she went and did it and didn't even tell me. I feel like she is becoming a different person. It's not even that I am mad about the weed, I'm mad she didn't tell me and is going against what she said and also that she didnt include me I guess because I always wanted to try things first with her not someone else. If she has invited me to I probably would have done it with her, so I'm not that mad she smoked I don't know. She said she doesn't anymore and just wanted to try it and I believe her. Do I even have a right to be mad? I just feel like we are going to drift apart and like she is not the person she said she is, and I can't lose her because she is the best thing that ever happened to me. What are your thoughts?
My best friend gets mad at me for no reason?
I had the same situation, like last year. My best friend would always get mad about absolutely nothing. I never got mad at her for stuff, the only time I was EVER mad was when I ended up mad at her for being mad about me for nothing. So anyways, we went through pointless fights all the time. I tried to say sorry all the time and it turned into "Sorry doesn't always cut it." And I tried to talk to her about it and then we wouldn't fight for a short period of time and then BAM, another fight about something dumb. And then we ended up not being friends. We recently became friends again and haven't been fighting at all. So I guess what it took was for both of us to realize how it was without each other. So basically my point is, you can't let yourself end up in a friendship where she thinks its fine to fight all the time. I would just let it go for a while. You could text her later and say "Hey, it seems like you're mad, could we please talk?" What I don't recommend is saying sorry for nothing. Then she'll automatically assume she was right and can be mad for nothing. Only say sorry when you honestly did something! Also, when she's not mad you may want to have a heart to heart with her about how you don't want to constantly fight over little things and that she's your best friend and you don't want anything silly to come between you. (Which is what happened to me). And if for any reason you end up not being friends ever, it'll be okay too. I survived, and I think me and my bff are actually closer now because of it. Well, anyways, I know how tough of a situation that is to be in and I hope it all works out! Hope I helped a bit. Short answer: Wait a bit, and if you're really worried about it text her asking what's going on a bit later. Good luck dear! Sorry for the ranting xD