Hide being drunk in front of parents?
I think that this is kind of a talent. I can be drunk and saying and doing nonsense at a party, and at the moment my cell phone rings I'm dead serious like "Hi, mum. Yes, mum. Of course, mum. It's ok, mum" etc... There isn't a way to totally hide it, but here are some tips: don't drink TOO much. If you just are at a nice mood due to alcohol, you'll notice that when you leave the party and stop listening to the loud music or say/do silly things with friends, you'll be able to act absolutely normally. Generally, avoid talking too much because they'll understand. Half an hour before you leave the party, don't drink anything and try to concentrate on the fact that in some minutes you have to look normal. You'll see it's not that difficult, even when you're drunk and dizzy, if you concentrate yourself, you can do almost anything. If you do the above (and your ideas also), chances are that your parents will be aware that you had some alcohol drinks but won't seem out of control. The excuse "everyone drinks a bit at parties" should be enough for you the next day. According to a greek saying, you can't hide it when you're in love, when you're drunk or when you have cough. (I'm Greek)
How could I make a drunk person sleep?
I feel like you’re asking this question because you’ve had to deal with some stupid drunk at a party or some situation where it was better for the drunk to sleep versus make further chaos with stupid actions or attitudes.First, this sucks and we’ve all had to do it - I’ve tried ignoring them, I’ve tried feeding them, and short of killing them the only thing I’ve found that works is out drinking them. Now most of my social events are with people around 25 and up so it’s a group who can handle booze - but when someone is being a terrible nuisance sometimes it’s for the good of the team to take it on the chin and handle the drunk.The worst thing is drunk guys who get drunk and want to fight - these guys or gals you shouldn’t drink under the table but in the most friendly way possible help them to leave. Angry drunks don’t need more booze but the the drunk that is just telling the same story over and over again or Dj’ing their favorite tracks on repeat are easier to deal with.Good luck.
What can i do about my out of control sister?
My sister is 17 and is abusive and aggressive. She is on the verge of being thrown out of college due to agressive remarks towards teachers and at home is even worse. She brings her group of friends home when im asleep and let them roam around my room going through my stuff. She constantly swears and is proud of the fact she has slept with over 30 guys. She frequently steals money from my bag, takes my mp3 or even my clothes without asking me and never gives them back, lying if i ask where they went. If i try to stand up to her she threatens to punch me and if i continue to argue will. She is 3 times the size of me so i have no chance of fighting back. Its especially bad if she needs money for cigarettes or drink on a friday night, to the point where i have to lock myself and all my vaulable stuff in a bedroom to avoid her. My mam is always away at her bfs and when i call her tells me to deal with it myself. I asked if i could lock her out so i dont have to deal with her drunk and i got told if i did my mam would throw me out the house for causing trouble. Im really getting sick of it but cant afford to move out and have nowhere else to go. My dad tries his best to keep her in order but we only see him once a week so its difficult. What can i do?
Is there anyway to stop myself being an angry drunk?
I have the same problem, i was so rude to this girl last night and today i felt really embarrassed and sick. Every time i go out i get in trouble but its been worse lately. I did start drinking more cider lately. I haven't found a cure for it yet. My mam always gave out to me for drinking cider she said it was a mad mans drink and it can make you aggressive, maybe that could be true. I might start drinking Guinness.
Why does my dad get mad easily when he is drunk?
Lately, my dad just comes home and drinks beer like there's no tomorrow. Then, he passes out and snores loud as hell. My mom only shushed him, and he got so mad! He started slamming things around, and then she asked him why he has to slam things around. He also broke the light switch, now it is in the wall. I am nervous because that is a fire hazard. Then my mom and him started arguing, then he threatened to hit her. That's when I started shaking. Then he went out and drank smoked a lot of cigarettes. I am really scared.
My dad came home drunk last night and tried to come on to me help?
So I am in trouble right now. My dad went out last night with his friends and stuff. I think he went to a bar, but he didn't tell me he would be home late. My mom passed away 6 years ago and I am 17 years old. So my dad came home last night around midnight and I was in my room watching tv. Well he came home and I heard him enter his room and close the door. I was sleepy at this point so I was just putting the covers over me and that's when my dad opens my door and comes into my room. I didn't say anything because i was trying to fall asleep, but then he came behind me and sat on the edge of my bed.. he then started touching my hair.. i turned over and he was like really close to me! I was kind of uncomfortable and then he started saying how much I remind him of my mother and how much he misses my mother which made me sad:( He started to kiss me on my cheek and then on the lips. He got on top of me and started sucking my neck... he sort of trying to touch my breasts but i took his hand off of me. He said he loved me and left..I woke up and found that i have a hickie on my neck!!! this morning he was still sleeping, so i got in the shower real quick and then he knocked on my door and i screamed "im taking a shower, go away" and he did.. but moments later he came in and he was like.. "i dont remember what happened lastnight , but if i did anything that hurt you I'm sorry".. i just kind of turned around and began to tear up...I don't know if i should just let this go?? My dad doesnt drink usually or act like this towards me... i dont want to report this to the police i depend on my dad for a lot of things. I think it was just a mistake and he really wont do this again but i dont know?? he is my dad...
18 years old and drinking.?
I am not a parent, so you can stop reading here if you aren't interested in my answer. Underage drinking is a huge problem, and I am glad you are a concerned parent. It's a hard situation though because some parents allow their children and their children's friends to have drinking parties at their house, so they know their kids are safe at home and not out getting drunk somewhere else. Which is a nice thought... but all those children still need to get home, so even though your child may be home safe, you are allowing other peoples children to drink and drive. Plus the parents that allow it should have to face some type of punishment, but it's hard because at age 18, you are an adult, but you aren't allowed to drink until you are 21, so those 3 years in between are tough to handle because you could get your own place, and not have to follow your parents rules, but legally you can't buy your own alcohol. I think it's great that your daughter has an open relationship with you, but don't be naive because I have seen several friends/coworkers of mine that tell me their kids are totally honest with them and they tell them everything and their kids don't drink or have sex, when..... in reality I have seen the kids drinking, and I know they are having sex, but I don't want to be the one to tell the parent they really don't know their own child, and they figure it out sooner or later when their kid ends up pregnant or getting someone pregnant. So basically if I were in your situation I would sit down with my daughter and say "I know you are 18, you are an adult and you can make your own decisions. I would love for you to stay living at home, but if you want to move out, that is up to you. Not only do I not like you drinking, it's illegal for you to drink and if you get caught drinking, you will have to face the consequences on your own because you are adult." Be honest with her, tell her how you feel, but as much as you love your children and are looking out for their best interest, you have to let them grow up and make their own mistakes.
Help!! How can I stop my jaw from moving when im drunk!!!?
Right ok this is a bit embarrassing!! When I was younger I used to take drugs most weekends for about a year, it was mostly ecstasy tablets and sometimes cocaine when I used to take these drugs me jaw would start moving from side to side like mad and i do not take drugs anymore and havent for a while. Now everytime I get drunk my jaw starts moving as if im on drugs it must be because i use to take them when i was drunk. I find this really embarrasing because i look like an idiot. I thought i only done it when i got really drunk but at the weekend there i wasnt even that drunk and i got told i was doing it. I like going out with friends and having a good time but now I feel i cant even go out now incase i get a wee bit drunk and start doing this. I dont know if i should go to the doctors and say to them?? Can anyone give me some advice how I can get this to stop because when i get told i am doing it I dont even realise that I am. I just want it to stop!!! Please give me some advice as what to do!!