What is the point in marriage?
I live alone, make great money, and I'm happily single. Why do people get married? It seems pointless for men. 3/4th of marriages fail. And everyone is on the woman's side in court. Men lose all their stuff because they signed the contract. So what is the point of it? It seems more beneficial for the woman to get married. What is the benefit in it for the man? Why can't two people just be in a relationship without the contract?
Is marriage pointless now?
I love being married and being a family guy. But, I have to tell you with the world the way it is today I can't blame you. The problem is that marriage is no longer real anymore. It doesn't mean anything. Marriage used to be upheld in sanctity. It meant that a man and a woman entered into a COVENANT to themselves for the purpose of creating a family that showed to the outer world their love for each other. Then it morphed into a contract with an out clause. Then it changed from wanting to start a family to couples wanting to share orgasms together (wow, such a beautiful thing, right?) Now you have people already thinking about divorce before or at the same time they are thinking about marriage (prenups, etc.)! Of course, now it's shot all down the tubes because this new way of thinking about marriage is totally exemplified in allowing homosexuals to marry each other. Sure, you can still get married for the right reasons (as I've explained in the first paragraph); and make that a REAL marriage. But everyone on the outside will equate their piece-of-sh*it marriage with yours. Totally diluting the sign of faith.
The married man left for me, now he ignores me?
I have dated a married man for 8 months. He just left his wife after she found out about me. He is living with his parents, whom know the relationship. He has older children from a first marriage, and they love me. He also has a 8 year old from this marriage. He has chosen to sorta ignore me now. The phone calls slowed and so has his presence. He said it is to protect me and his son. He doesn't want to tell his son the truth. Why do they do this? Is this just a transition period? Will he ever be with me, in a new life? We had plans to move to Florida in July, 2007. He said he still plans to go. Do I give him space and time and see what happens? Please help!!
Why do married men get jealous when their mistress is sleeping around ?
Congrats. You are the first person to make me want to take a hot shower on Yahoo Answers. You're a walking HIV case waiting to happen. That's terrible. Please take better care of yourself. Rebuild your obviously lost self esteem. Stretch marks? Easier on the eyes? Honey, I have allll my husbands money. So do the wives of the married men you're sleeping with. You just get a piece of it. I guess you forgot to check the model year on the used benz. Don't get mad when the repo man comes for it. Plastic surgery can fix just about ANY issue nowadays, including stretchmarks (I should know). And *I* can look myself in the mirror in the mornings. Bet you can't. ;) Edit: That's not a frown hooker, that's a scowl. It reflects the utter disdain I have for trash such as yourself. I'm THRILLED at home honey, because I'm marriage material. Oh, and my breast are high and firm - you'd notice if I slapped ya in the face with them. Money can buy that. I'm married. I have it. You, on the other hand, aren't good enough to marry. That's why ya always end up being the spooge dumpster. Tell me, how many times do you have to shower a day to keep the green stuff from being to obvious? :) I'll bet you're putting Dial and Summer's Eve stock thru the roof. I'ma go buy some. :)
If you have messed around with a married man, should you tell his wife?
Wow, some of the people that anwered this question, seems to be very judgmental! I mean in a perfect world nobody should cheat on anybody or willingly engage in an affair. However; in real life people make REALLy bad choices. This is all part of life. I hope you learned something from this. It does sound like you feel guilty. Someone who dosn't feel guilty would'nt give a rat's a** about the wife. Telling the wife is wrong!!! If you feel guilty, (as you should) you need to deal with it! Don't ease your guilt by hurting this woman more then you have. This is their problem, not yours. You really need to stay out of their marriage. Take some advice from someone who has proberly made every mistake known to mankind...Stay away from him and never speak to the wife. Good luck and this really doesn't make you a "bad" person. It just means you need to work on self control.
How is the life of a male without marriage?
This is a story of one of my uncle(Father's brother) who is unmarried for life and he is 50.Background:- Someone in the earlier answer pointed out unmarried male could survive with the company of older female relatives. But this man and my dad lost their mother in the early childhood. They were raised by my grandfather. So in all there are 4 children to my grandfather. My senior uncle, dad, aunt(Father's sister) and junior uncle(Unmarried one).His life:-He pretty much misses love. Knows the best way of love. Makes his decision quickly and on his own. Unlike influenced by other's better half. But gives extra cares to all the children.Benefits :- - Low expenses.- Can enjoy life because of no immediate family responsibility.- Knows the value of true relation and importance of love. - He has a good personality like Godfather and an admiration to many in our family.- Huge financial support to family because he has no wife/kids to spend money on. Folks, Please take this in a positive way, because we all know person has to spend a lot over kids, their education, wife and by her demand expensive sofas, cushion, matching cushion covers and matching bed sheets and what not. - Always getting pampered by him.- Influential person in society as he has made many trust worthy friends in society because no wife. No wife means you could spend more time with friends, work on multiple projects simultaneously, build relations outside homes because you know that no one is waiting at home for you.Sad part:- - He misses people in his life to listen to him.- He misses getting pampered.- Because of no wife, no person to share everyday things and waking up in morning with zeal to live life for wife/kids.Thanks for A2A.