Do best friends argue?
everyone argues at some time in their lives(even the closest couples, bestfriends, siblings, families do!) it's natural.. imagine everyone, everything is the same.. wouldn't it be boring? but if you say "awfully a lot" like all the time or most of the time then that friendship won't go anywhere, you gotta try! and sort it out with each other. be fair and square! goodluck
My friend and I are fighting over a guy?
So my friend and I are not really close. But then a months ago, I found out she's loving my crush. I felt kinda jealous because she's closer to my crush. I didn't fight back, I was kinda sad because of it so I let them. Suddenly, he started to act cold with her and he started to talk to me. I'm not sure I'm bad because of this, but I tried to be closer to him too. We became friends. She found out about this and she's so angry but I know she's pretending like she's okay. But I could see her posting hate statuses about me on her Facebook. I posted back, saying "Someone is acting like a s l u t." Now she's fighting really hard, I mean she would be around him all the times and I think we're not really friends anymore. So what should I do? I'm deeply in love with this guy. He's nice, smart, funny and good looking, he's like a brother to me. But they're funny while I'm not that funny. =(
My friend constantly wants to argue with me?
Everyone will always have that 'one friend' that acts completely barbaric. If she really was your friend, she wouldn't do that to you! I, for one, find that completely horrible that she is doing that to you! That's not what friends are supposed to do! Try and hang out with new people! You can still be acquaintances with your current friend, but when you want to get out and have fun, invite other people! Or, if you still want to be friends with this person, take a break from her for a few days. Maybe a fresh start will help your friendship! If things still aren't working, write her a letter and send it to her household, telling her how you feel! If you write a letter, there is no way you'll have to hear her yell and swear! Plus, she won't be able to interrupt you! Good luck!
Why does guy friend like argue with me?
I mean lately he tries to argue with me almost every time we see each other, he watches what I'm doing when I talk to other people. For example, if I'm talking to other guys that are my friends he gets quiet or sit far away from me. I mean when he and his girlfriend, my other guy friend from high school and I went to the movies he kept trying to talk to me in front of his girlfriend. While I on the bus he texted me "you and your guyfriend make a good couple!" Then, he said "I seen you kept staring at him..." A couple of weeks he sent me a pic of him shirtless and asked me "do you like my body?" "Are you calling me ugly?" I kept telling him "why don't you ask your girlfriend?!" "He said just answer the question. I kept saying "no" When we first met he started flirting with me and Ignored it...and then he said "I hope I'm not leading you on..." I said "No,you didn't...I like someone else..." since then he started to argue with me and gets quiet when I talk to other guys from my other classes. He even watch and listens when I talk to his guyfriend about the work. I don't understand why is he is acting this way? Is it because he likes me? Thanks in advance....
Me and my best friends are fighting over a guy. advice??
well, me and one of my best friend like the same guy. Well he asked her to dance at our dance last week.My other friend insists on being first at everything. She likes this other guy, but now all the sudden she seems jelous of my "dancing" friend. Now on top of that there is rumors that he likes my jelous friend and plans to ask her out, and as of 4:30 yesterday, she announced she likes him and plans to say yes and she has totally forgotten about her other crush. When i asked her what about our friend who danced with him, she replied "oh she won't mind" (she tends to do stuff like this since she knows the dancing friend is too nice to object). It seems like she's trading us in for him. Not to mention she is totally denying that she was jelous from the dance thing. Plus it is now making me sad that he notices my (practically) simese twins(we are together all the time) but not me.
Why do me and my bestfriend constantly argue over little things?
Me and her have been best friends for 3 long years. We have laughed together,cried together, and told are deepest secrets. Recently this year we have been arguing over little things. Last week we came back to school from winter break, we were eating breakfast her being across the table from me she asked "Can I see your extensions", since I had just got new ones, I told her to simply wait until we were done eating, (4 minutes) She then started to flip out saying "I just wanted to see your hair! It's no big deal, just get up!" Saying things to the other girls at the table. After that we hadn't talked the whole day. I always apologized for everyone of our arguments. Though I was tired of it, In my mind I have not done anything wrong, NOTHING. Me and her older sister are close, so I called her a few days ago, and It turns out that my friend I was arguing with had told her sister about us, and that I had even switched lunch tables. Her sister laughed at the stupidity and said "Why are you guys always fighting over stupid things?! Just be friends again" While I told her everything and I told her to not say anything. Recently Iv'e been having dreams of my friend, us In the beginning not being friends but somehow becoming friends or hating each other more..... I really don't expect an answer, Maybe this is just a way to get out my frustration. I miss her, I tell her things Iv'e told no one else. I will not apologize first though, I just want our friendship back....
How do I argue with my friend that Hitler was a bad person? He is very good at history and considers Hitler a good man, anyone?
I doubt that your friend is good at history but it seems to me he is good at being Bad at history which is most common disease these days. History makes you able to take an insight into the events of the past and learn lessons from them. History always tells us that "Power corrupts and Absolute Power Corrupts Absolutely". When ever there is accumulation of power in limited hands it produces Evil. Hitler was one of those evils. He was communal, shallow and cunning leader who portrayed simple solutions of complex problems of German people garnished with heavy dose of Nationalism. ( beware of heavy and insane Nationalism of RSS too). He was also a product of political opportunism and appeasement. Even he was not an extraordinary achiever politicians and people gave him space in hope that he have the answers to all their agonies but unfortunately Hitler was a tattler. ask your friend to give reasons why he thinks he was a good man or even a good leader? what are the traits of a Good Man and a good leader?1. Honesty 2. integrity 3. compassion 4. helpful 5. kindness and for a good leader 1. Ability to create productive environment 2. To lead the nation at some place higher than present 3. establishing peace 4. bringing prosperity 5. dealing problems with positive results Hitler had none of the above. He was just a Power monger tattler who charmed people and lead his nation in a never ending agony and killed more than 80 million people of a single race. he was and is an ugly spot on humanity. because him people all over the world suffered. He lead Germany to nowhere and he had to end his live in shame and frustration - just like a wasted non achiever looser. Hitler was not a Good man neither the ways of hitler can be good for any country. BEWARE ! there are people who says India needs a hitler. and we have already a tattler in power now a days.
Why do I always argue with my best friend?
Well, the reason that you argue with them because they are your best friend so the question itself is a answer.According to me you fight to those people you love the most and they are your best friend because not all of them but some of them are whom you value the most and maybe at times their small change in behavior could hurt you a lot, again that's because they are your best ones and you are still gonna care because you never want to lose them. So, love them ,respect them. Understand them and let things go just don't let the thought dominate in your mind that they are not your friends because you fight with them a lot.That's fine, its a normal human behavior. So Comley treat them and try to resolve disputes with normal discussion and not with an anguement. That's all!Hope this would help you understand :)
Me and my best guy friend argue alot and he says he hates me.. what does this mean?
So I have a guy friend who is my best friend! We argue alot because I'm mean to him sometimes, because i like him, idk if just happens i don't try to be. He makes me cry because he says he doesnt care then the next day we're the best of friends! & he jokingly says I hate you sometimes. When we were talking on the phone he started to tell me the things that i do to him that he doesnt like and i told him the same and i became quiet and he's like; wheres melissa? and my other friend was like idk. then he said; oh she's probably being mad, with her mad self.. like jokingly.. like idk.. does he like me? I like him a little bit. I get jelous when he hangs out with his other friends. Hmm.. can someone help me.. I wanna tell him how i feel but my other friend likes him and things are awkard between them soo.. help?!
My girlfriend compares me with her male friend during arguments and fight and says he loves her more than me. Although there is nothing between them, he loves her but she told him about me and that she loves me. Why when we fight does she start talking about him?
She secretly wants to be with him instead of you. Your gf shouldn't ever be comparing you to another guy if she really loves you for you. Yes she could be trying to get you to be jealous but that's manipulative. There's also a huge possibility that she has a crush on him. When you're both cooled and calmed down, have a discussion with her and ask her why she keeps on comparing you with him and express your concerns about it. See what she says. If she gives a cliche answer, it's best to cut her loose.