Trying to buy a my Grandparents house?
Of course it’s going to get ugly. Nobody thought this through. Your grandmother had assets. Your grandmother needs nursing home care. The $3000/month bill exceeds her income by $1800 a month, so the other $1800 has to come from grandma’s assets. Once the cash is used up, the $1800 has to come from another source. That can come from her children paying the bill, you paying that much in rent or, gee, selling grandma’s assets. Grandma can’t go on VA/Medicare until she has spent down her assets. These are welfare programs and as long as grandma has assets, she doesn’t get welfare. Putting everything in the Aunt’s name to reduce the amount of assets doesn’t work—these programs have a 5 year look back program to see where the assets went. Nowhere in your post did I see how much you were paying in rent. Somehow, I don’t think it’s $2000 per month. An understanding is not a legal agreement. “Rent to own” is a generic phrase for I can’t qualify for a house on my own because my credit is bad. (You won't be getting a conventional mortgage for at least 3 years after a short sale.) It’s clear you didn’t sign anything and guess what, most real estate contracts must be written to hold up in court. Your Aunt's plans for her *own* money is none of your business. Your Aunt's plans for grandma's money should be an open book to the family.
My mom wants to get custody of my girlfriend to get her out of bad circumstances, but what might happen?
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Aunt and Uncle are mooching, what would you do? help!?
Alright, so it all started about 6 years ago. My uncle, started dating this girl. A few months into their relationship, she got pregnant, so they got married. Then, they decided to move into my grandparents upstairs. So for the past 5 1/2 years, they've basically been free loading off them. They pay no rent, they're obnoxious, they do no work around the house, they don't have steady jobs, they constantly use them to get whatever they want, they lie to them, they have 2 kids and they asked my grandparents to co-sign a huge loan for them. My grandparents refuse to think there is anything wrong with it and continue to let them live there. So a few weeks ago, my grandparents announced they're downsizing and buying a smaller house with less land. This should be a happy time right? Its a beautiful house that happens to have a rather large basement, which my aunt and uncle seem to think they're entitled to move into. They're both healthy and they have a house of their own that they've been fixing up for the past 2 years. My grandparents are planning on changing the house around for them, and even putting in a kitchenette. Okay, so my other aunt and uncle and their family agree with us, that this needs to end. Not only are my grandparents being taken advantage of, but this whole situation is creating a great conflict in the family. My dad and aunt tried talking to my grandparents about it, calmly, and they make excuses, they say they're adults and can make their own decisions, and that its no one else's business. They also tell us that they would do the same for us. Of course, the free-loading aunt and uncle feel the same way, that its none of our business. My grandparents want us to stop "causing the conflict" and pretend to be one big happy family, like we have been the past 6 years. We're afraid that once my aunt and uncle move in, they're never gone move out. Okay, so if you've actually read all of that, then wow, you deserve a huge thanks. So here's my question. What would you do, is what my aunt and uncle are doing right? Any ideas on how to make my grandparents see it? Much thanks =)
I'm 18 almost 19 but i got caught having sex by my aunt and grandma and my mother is away how do i tell my mom
i know i have to tell her but i don't know the right way to say it or start it out. She knows the guy who I've had sex with and he is willing to confront my mother with me and telling her about what happened. Can anyone please just give me advice on what to do or say?! i know my mother is going to be disappointed but i want her to know that i am being smart about having sex using protection. I dont know what to do someone please help..
Can a 17 year old legally move out in South carolina?
You are leagly able to move out at the age of 17. The cops or your parents cannot make you go back home. But if you wish to go back to your parents house once you have moved out at the age of 17 your parents have to take you back up until you are 18. once you are 18 your parents have the choice on if they want to take you back or not. I've had it happen and thats what the cops told us. However, parents are still responsible if their 17 year old breaks any laws even if they have moved out (WPDE TV 15 did a story on this as well). The state has two laws that contradict each other. Now keep in mind you do still have to go to school until you graduate or until you turn 19. SC has changed its law frm 17 to 19 in 2007. if you dont believe it says it right here: South Carolina General Assembly 117th Session, 2007-2008 SECTION 4. Section 59-65-10 of the 1976 Code is amended to read: "Section 59-65-10. (A) All parents or guardians shall cause their children or wards to attend regularly a public or private school or kindergarten of this State which has been approved by the State Board of Education or a member school of the South Carolina Independent Schools' Association or some similar organization, or a parochial, denominational, or church-related school, or other programs which have been approved by the State Board of Education from the school year in which the child or ward is five years of age before September first until the child or ward attains his seventeenth nineteenth birthday or graduates from high school.~
I am a 26 year old virgin not by choice and has never dated, went to a club or bar.What is wrong with me?
First, learn to not type a wall of text. Second, You are 26 and your grandparents call to see if you are out at a club or bar? That's weird. Take control of your life dude. You can support yourself, so why care what other people think? Also, you don't have to meet girls at clubs and bars, you could try church, a bookstore, coffee shop, anywhere. I have a fear of talking to girls sometimes too, but you just have to get over it. Are they going to make fun of you if you try and talk to them and they reject you? Odds are they'd make fun of you more for just sitting there looking at them and acting weird.