Should I trust my best friend?
I'm having some trust issues with my friend. This girl and I have been friends for years since kindergarten. We are now older and both in college and more interested in the college life and guys. Then there is the guy who was my first and I really fell in love with him. One day she comes over to my house I see them outside talking and she gives her number to him. I was upset about it and told her I didn't like it. She assure me it wasn't like that. I moved on from that now another incident happen where I met this new guy. His aunt and my mama hooked us up. I met him at his job with my friend. She talks me into seeing him. Then two weeks later I see they are friends on Facebook. I was mad. She assure me that she wouldn't do nothin to hurt me but twice she has giving me reasons not to trust her. I know I can take things the wrong way sometimes. BUT LADIES CAN Y'ALL BLAME ME???? I really need some advice on this one
How do I make real friends with trust issues? I'm 17.
I also have trust issues. From when I was your age, and even now at 29. I’ve been told that while we like to have friends to confide in, it is in fact rare to find people you can totally trust with everything. An interesting way to look at it is: is it actually fair to put that on your friends? People you are supposed to care about. They didn’t necessarily sign up to hear about the bad in your life; they like you for the good. So it’s a very fine line.Yes, if they’re good friends they should be there for the good and the bad, but I wouldn’t go into a friendship hoping to dump burdens on people. Go in for the good, be curious about them and their lives. The good ones will inquire about yours, they’ll check in, they’ll be there. Don’t force anything. Nobody wants to be a crutch, they’ll be there for you if and when they decide they care about you.So, don’t go into friendships hoping to find someone to confide in. Go in hoping to find people you can spend time with, make memories and build more good. They’ll be there to help you with the bad if they’re good friends, but nobody wants to be friends with someone who leads like that. They’ll assume you’re just a downer and no fun to be around all the time.
How do I overcome trust issues with friends?
I used to be a social butterfly. Being friends with everybody, trusting easily, telling all my secrets to all of them.Then one day I collapsed. A victim of anxiety attacks and in the depressed state of mind, I tried seeking help from all of the "friends" I had. Countless all of them. But suddenly everyone was busy. Suddenly their charming talks seemed like use-less advices and fake sympathy or care. That's when I learnt my lesson. You CANNOT trust everyone. Today I only trust two people in my life. My girl best friend who I met two years back, and my boyfriend who's also a best friend. They love and accept me with my flaws and moods and mistakes. I once had hundreds of people to call "my friends" but today I've got two most beautiful people to call "mine". All I meant to tell you from this long story is, in the end only one or two of your friends will help you through the storm. The rest will go away from you just as they came near you. You needn't trust all. Trust a few and make sure they are trustworthy. Give a bit of yourself to someone you trust, if they take that bit and keep it safe, give a lot more :)Trust and never break anyone's trust. Good luck.
My best friend doesn’t trust me as much as he trusts other people. It really hurts because I trusted him a lot. What should I do?
If you trusted your best friend and he does not trust you, you may have to ask yourself what have you said or done that justifies his mistrust. If you feel that you did not say and do something that is the opposite, then the issue is with him.It does not matter if he does not trust you or that you trusts him. It matters that you know that you can be trustworthy and you demonstrate in words and actions in a consistent manner. In time, he may learn to trust you.Remember that trust is earned, never demanded.Either that, you may treat him/her as your best friend but he/she does not. On your part, don’t feel sad or disappointed that they do not value you as much as you value the friendship. If you have treated them well and they do not appreciate it, then you can’t be faulted for being a good friend. You just move on and make new friends who will value you for your friendship.
Do you have trust issues?
i think that trust is something that has to be created by just two people, it cant just exist, just like love. So when you meet someone new after being hurt, make that relationship your creation, if you really love them or care about them, trust has to be created to keep the love. And evry person you meet is different from the last, dont be afraid to just go for it and wish for the best bt good luck!
Ex-boyfriend cheating = trust issues?
Continue not trusting every man, and keep that wall up around you, until they EARN your trust! Bottom line is that you can't trust everyone and you should be careful in who you involve yourself with... or you will get hurt again. PS... Your 'best friend' is no friend at all.... I hope you 'broke-up' with her too...
Do taurus men have serious trust issues?
let me tell u...he says and does things just like my EX, (and for good reason he's my EX) and the living hell I was thrown into, as well as the special ways and things he used to do.. but, definitely does not outweigh the really bad....as with the trust issues...such is Taurus~ They want what they can't have, and they make you one of their 'possessions' after they do finally win you over...and you are practically closed off from any contact with the rest of the world....even ur own family! Idk if this guy is exactly the same, but, u'd be better off forgetting him and moving on to a more normal and loving relationship, that will be lasting and good for you in the long run.......Taurus can be soooo loving, yet the trust issue and control is always there......and gets worse as time goes by....believe me....or find out for urself~ good luck tho~
What's the best way to build trust with someone who has trust issues?
Ask my BF. Hhahaha. But unfortunately he’s not on Quora.Anyway… I have a very deep trust issue (from having a dysfunctional family), but he somehow make me trust again.Be patient,Show him/ her that you are sincere,Don’t be too overboard (it might sound like a lie/ dishonest to me)Take things easy, but don’t give up,Don’t force him/ her,Remember its about them and themselves NOT about you,Don’t get offended when they tell you openly they don’t trust. I remember I used to tell my BF that I don't trust him, and he’ll ask me once in a while, typically after we have some good laugh, “umm… so how much more do you trust me now?”Don’t force things and enjoy it the moment of friendship/ relationship.Goodluck :D