Why don't most women approach guys first?
I'm a very bold individual.I f I like someone I never hesitate to tell them that.A few years ago, there was a guy I liked, and a couple of days before Valentines Day, I asked him out. I had no fear of being rejected,that's not me. Fortunately he said yes.And I got all dressed up to meet him. It was a fabulous date. Perfect. We both had a great time.And then I don't know how, his behavior changed. He stopped picking up my calls and had the lamest excuses ready. I being smart knew he was making shit up.I respectfully backed out, I knew he did not take me as seriously as I did.When I got into no contact, he would text me at odd hours again signalling that he took me as a booty call, cause he was bored.And that was the last time I made the move first. The reason being women need to be certain that the guy wants her as much as she does. We need to be sure that we share the same feelings because it is not in our nature to hunt down someone into submission. He needs to be crazy and willing to do anything for her because if a woman does that,the guys would feel intimidated, bossed around by the girl. Dominating nature in women is not invited as it is in case of a man. Women are supposed to be soft and delicate not rough and tough. Unfortunately that's the truth.So to be considered seriously it is always mandatory for the guy to show interest.
I'm insecure, would women date me if I approach them (pic)?
Baby I would look after you for the rest of my life. Truth And the lovin? Don't even get me started on the lovin you'd receive. It would be off the fvcking charts. No lie.
Do you think women would have more success in dating if they approached the men they liked instead of waiting for a guy to approach them first?
Dear Steve,If a woman were to make the first move then it would certainly increase her odds, particularly when a guy is hesitant, because he's shy/intimidated by her.One of my friends is the complete opposite of me, she's confident and a natural flirt, she's never had to resort to online dating. I'd watch her be able to recognise a guy's subtle interest, and then be happy to initiate things. I'd often watch in awe, no way, would I ever imagine asking a guy out. That's because I have a different personality type. I'm also old fashioned, preferring a man to ask me out, and if I'm brutally honest, why most women don't make the first move is fear of rejection.I remember years ago, the building porter telling me that the guy that lived opposite me had a secret crush, he would tell him he thought I was beautiful, and ask questions about me. I'd known him for a number of years, we'd sometimes stop to exchange pleasantries, but our conversations were restricted to 'good morning/evening', he never asked me out. No way would I have thought he liked me. The funny thing was, I secretly fancied him too for ages, but by the time I found out he moved away! That still hasn't changed me - typical ;) but kudos to any woman that's not afraid to make the first move, I envy you!Kind regards,Abi
Why do white women frequently date Latino men?
Ok, so I am hip to the fact that alot of white women date black guys, but I have also noticed that alot of white women date latino men. I think we all know the REAL reason why white women date black guys, but why do they date Latino men?
White men, Why do you Think Black women care about you?
Why do white men have a vendetta against black women? what is your problem? white men are the only race of men that are constantly running behind a computer to insult women. That is a really feminine characteristic and it looks ugly on a man " BLACK WOMEN ARE UGLY, LOUD, GHETTO, FAT, AND THEIR HAIR IS LIKE A BRILLO PAD" Umm....ok, And white men are unattractive, feminine, smell like a wet dog that just finished rolling around in it's own feces, egotistical, pathetic and think women of all races want them. Honestly the only ethnic women I see chasing white men are asian women, It is a shame because asian women are to beautiful to be settling for a white male. I never see a multiracial hispanics dating white men, and most of us black women aren't checking for you either. When ever I see a white male pass me in the street I don't even look twice. I find black men the most attractive, If I did date outside my race I would date a puerto ricans or another mixed latino, They are attractive. So to white men out there why do you invest so much of your time attempting to lower the self esteem of black women? You might be able to weaken a few of my sistas with your rhetoric but I'm way to strong and proud to let your negativity get to me. What is your problem really?
Do women realize how easy they have it when it comes to dating? It's men that do ALL of the work!?
Your basic premise is correct, but your support is rather...incorrect. The benefit of being female in the conventional dating scene is that a given woman can break out of her designated role to her own benefit. There is absolutely nothing but archaic tradition preventing a woman from approaching a man, and when a woman breaks this tradition, she has great success. Approaching gives her the appeal of confidence and a "go-getter" attitude in addition to the visual appeal of all of her aesthetics. Additionally, if I may objectify the sexes for a moment, a man has a lot more to lose by turning down an approaching woman than a woman does in the traditional arrangement, due to the rarity of women who approach. Therefore, a man is more likely to take advantage of this rare opportunity, even if he isn't the most attracted to the woman in question. This gives the woman time to work towards establishing an emotional connection over the course of the first few dates. That is, dates that the woman, by virtue of approaching, will be largely funding. Not having to pay (as much) gives the approached man another reason to stick around.