Why do men think with their wrong Head?
Could be genetic, it's just in our nature. That's an easy answer, but partially true. Some guys are worse than others though. Some of my friends treat women with utmost respect, others see them as just a piece of a$$.
If you would convince a man that he does wrong, do right, Men will believe what they see. Let them see.?
It's a combination of, "lead by example" and "actions speak louder than words". Actions are more convincing then words. If you *tell* a person he is wrong, he will simply become angry. If you *show* a person he is wrong, he can accept it and change. The best way to do this is to set a good example. Make sure that *you* are doing what is right. The idea is the other person will compare himself to you. He will notice your actions are right. Once he knows this, he will change his behavior.
Why do I always push guys away? What is wrong with me?
I know how you feel for I am in the same situation. I actually love men and I have quite a lot of male friends but if it comes to more, I get so scared I can’t communicate to them normally. I feel like they are all going to hurt me and dump me when sometimes I’m not at my best. I have actually noticed that I have started to feel much better since I decided to face my fear of men and open up to them anyway even if it’s painful or looks dangerous. Sometimes I am so scared that I have tears in my eyes but I have commited to trying to trust them more. And it has helped because my relations with men have already got deeper and more interesting and having a relationship already seems possible. So what has worked for me is trying to trust people more and get to know them and also trust right people with some deeper knowledge or vulnerable facts of yourself. Of course it’s better to be generally positive and not pour negativity all over but sometimes it’s a good idea to open up.Also, how is your relationship with your dad? This may be the source of the problem. If a girl feels absence of her dad in her childhood, it often build subconcious trust issues and it may be hard for these girls to form healthy relationships with other men later on because she feels they are going to leave or betray her, like her father. This is often on a subconcious level, on the surface the relationship may seem okay. A violent father may cause the same problem.Also, you may have has earlier bad experiences with other men which have made you mistrust them.Whatever it is, I hope you are going to find the solution and wish you all the best! :)Helena
Do you think there is something wrong with my sister for never hanging out men her own age? I do not get why she likes older men?
My sister is 21 and she never hangs out with guys her own age. She is always hanging out with guys aged 27-35 years old. I know she went to the movies and out too dinner (not as a date) with a 35 year old man once. She is only 21 I am also sure she is not using these men for their money because she earns about 80,000 per year which is around the same wage as these men earn as well.