When a woman says a man is "hot", what does "hot" mean?
Answering as a girl who has only recently found guys "hot", so I may be pretty (but hopefully not) biased.Edit: By "recently found guys hot," I mean that I've been attracted to to men but never truly found a guy hot until recently. Not sure what changed.I think that it's conclusively the same as when a guy says a girl is hot. "He's hot" = "I want to bang him". But the difference lies in getting to that conclusion.- Guys find a girl hot because her physical body is sexy, and she looks like a "freak in the streets" and (thus probably) "freak in the sheets". -- There is a Q&A on this (What is the best way to describe to a female the difference between a hot girl and a pretty girl?)- Girls can find a guy hot for more than just the physical body but the aura emanating from him. The physical body is a (somewhat) big component, but I think it carries less weight for a girl than for a guy. Sure, washboard abs could help the case, but there are a variety of factors. She may leverage in how he carries himself, talks, dresses, and perhaps hobbies, skills, profession. And this leads to a much greater variance in what girls find hot. In other words, there is a less "standard" view of what's hot in a guy as probably a boy's view of a girl. - This next point is still speculative in my head at the moment, but I'll say it anyways. Guys are visual creatures in bed. Girls are not as. When a girl says a guy is hot (and truly means it), she probably imagines that he can work her body the way she likes it. And to tie in these last two bullet points together, all those factors mentioned above gives a girl some idea of how a guy works it in bed.A girl with an hourglass body, "She's hot," says the guy. A guy with waterboard abs, "He's hot," says the girl and if the guy looks like a hot douche, "Repulsive," thinks the girl. Edit: There are variations amongst each population, so I'm really just comparing the overall male population to the female population. --> Does this make sense that I'm comparing general male to female populations? If you imagine a Gaussian distribution of males' willingness to sleep with a "mean/stupid" hot girl and females' willingness to sleep with a "douche" hot guy, my claim is that the male's distribution would be up-shifted compared to the female's.Disclosure: I absolutely don't find any Abercrombie models hot.
What does a woman mean when she says you are a good man you deserve a good woman..does she want me or not ?
ok..we just had a sexual relationship but never told her l love her or like her..only gave due compliments..it's true ..one of the responders talked about her being hurt yes..i suspected that and later found out that she lost 2 husbads in 2 consecutive marriages to her best friends . Too bad for me it was just lust that got better of me..she started saying thoz words when my galfriend caught her smes and in their conversation she told my galfriend that we have an emotional relationship ..but all i knew was it was just sex but of coz her beauty dazzled me and i admit it made me seem lyk i wanted mo than wat we were having..and smetyms wen she smsed me to go and see her i started backing off getting scared to fall in love with her..coz i reali have an amazing galfriend whom i reali think i do not deserve (tried to tell to go but she says she will stay pray for me to change , marry and live happilly ever after..it touches my heart..i love her) and would never leave her for anything..plz p
What does it mean when a woman says, "I'll think about it, but it isn't a bad suggestion," when you asked her to go on a date with you?
Whatever she means doesn't matter. What matters is you have self respect and so, you're not going to wait around but move on.Either it is a Fuck Yes or Fuck No.She hasn't said yes or no, and was just playing safe. You know, she wants to say no, or she didn't know what she wants....and said that.Whatever it means, not your problem. Me, I'd take it as no and by time a couple days gone by, I'm dating someone else. Don't wait and don't bother trying to figure out what it means.Instead think, "it is not a good enough answer and she didn't show enough interest. She don't qualify for anymore attention from me. Moving on. Next!"That's how I roll.Either fuck no or fuck yes.Take it as a no.
What does it mean when a woman says "your kind man"?
It means just that, that you are a kind person. It means you are being nice to her and that you treat her nicely. Women often say that when they like what you’ve said or done to them.
What does it mean what a woman says she likes "funny" men?
I'm a naturally funny guy and it's one of things that women find really sexy about me What's so sexy about being funny ? You can't be uptight and naturally funny at the same time . So women know that if you're naturally funny person then you're wired pretty loose You also can't be stupid and naturally funny at the same time So women know that if you're naturally funny person then you're a pretty smart guy ....and women love smart guys And it goes from there on into things like your ability to laugh at yourself ....which reveals a lot about your character When I saw your Q I thought of this scene from Goodfellas Warning : it contains adult language http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_ff46b58Hk
What does it mean when a woman says she likes to be challenged?
You know how it is, you troll through the dating sites and some of the profiles seek 'a man who challenges me.' What does that mean exactly? Challenging her to a game of chess? A joust? Some help please.
If a woman say's you smell good, does this mean she is some-what or very attracted (or both) to you?
I've noticed that it usually means we think you smell good.