My mom stole my stepdad from his wife. Now he’s always touching me and buying me gifts and says he only loves me. What should I do?
You don’t say how old you are.you must put him on notice without accusing him directly. Say in front of your mother a version of the following. “Hey, Henry. You have to stop: No more gifts or touching. It is too much like those movies they show us at school about child molesting. I get that you are trying to make us a family, but what is happening seems like ‘grooming.’”2. If it doesn’t stop or changes to physical/verbal abuse, again call him out in front of your mother:Henry, seems as though you r reactions have changed to anger towards me. This too is like the hygiene movies we learned about when a molester is no longer allowed to abuse or groom an intended victim. If you are angry with me about something, please tell me so I can try to correct my part in your anger. I want you and my mom to work out.”3. If you are under 16, tell the police, your dr or a teacher. You need to rehearse how you will respond when you are questioned by social services. Most authorities are required by law to intervene on behalf of any child who may be abused or is being groomed for abuse.Be prepared your mother May ‘stand by her man’ which means she could deny it, therefore deny your truth, If you go authorities the state may require you to be removed from the home. You may in fact lose your parent and your home, but your safety is most important.4. Look for a safe place if your mom sides with him.Grandparents, birth father or friend’s house.if you are over 16, you should still follow through to stop him from abusing you even verbally.You have now been brave enough to tell us; you recognize how wrong he is. Make him stop. I’ll be thinking about you.
I touched the little girl i babysit ( 11yo ) HELP?
Ugh, I wonder where she learned that behaviour from originally? (i.e. who was abusing her first?) I would say first not to do any more babysitting of that girl. Not because you are likely to do the same thing, but so as not to make the situation worse. As for telling anyone, I really don't know. If you have an EXTREMELY GOOD relationship with your mother, and she is a calm supportive kind of person, maybe tell her. Don't use words like "sick" and "perverted" - say that you are confused and shocked, because that's true. Not to blame the girl, but she was creating a very difficult situation. If you think your mother won't cope very well, then see if your school can recommend a counsellor for a "difficult situation" you are experiencing right now. Get to know the counsellor a bit first to see if you trust them before spilling the beans. Do this sooner rather than later. The girl may tell her mother, and then the **** will hit the fan. Obviously it'll be better (for you as well) if you can show you were trying to do something constructive about the situation.
Is it alright to touch a fish?
i might get a fish soon(if i can convince my mom to let me) i really have no idea what kind i will get but i'm thinking about just getting one or two really simple fish and keeping them in a bowl that i will clean weekly. anyways i just had the thought on whether it would be bad to touch the fish. it doesn't sound like it would be bad but then again i don't know a lot about fish, will they freak out or get sick if i touch them? i could also use any advice you have on owning fish including a type to get that's easy to take care of but pretty. I've only ever had a goldfish before when i was 6 and it died after a week. i haven't had any pets besides that. your advice is greatly appreciated.:)
Our family doctor is very close to my mom. While checking her chubby belly in her regular checkup, he playfully inserts his index finger into my mom's deep navel and keeps rotating it for sometime. Is it normal?
No……….Why the doctor has targeted the navel in course of routine check up. The action signals otherwise. Does your Mom protests ? Why not ? Ask her. Ask the doctor, in which part of medical science it is directed to insert finger in to navel during regular check up, until the patient is specifically complaining of problem with navel. Challenge the doctor and proceed with action as there are ample reasons for so. If your mother does not like it and just tolerating for the sake of family doctor, you should consult lawyer to fix the doctor as there are legal recourse for such uncalled for action.
How do I get over this? I accidentally touched my fathers semen...?
i would have tasted it and compared it to mine
I touched my friend's dad inappropriately! I feel so guilty! help!?
I'm 21 and go to the same college as my best friend. I knew her family since sophomore year of highschool. I have always felt that her dad had a thing for me....always treated me like a woman rather than a girl...pulled out chairs for me, complimented me...my friend never caught on but I always felt it and liked it and her mom also felt it and now I see why i haven't been invited over a lot since yesterday... So during dinner last night all four of us eating...my friend, her mom, her dad. So her father kept on complimenting me throughout the whole evening on how I turned into such a beautiful young lady etc...then he grabbed my thigh and I froze...I looked down and he squeezed it tighter. I then placed my hand on his thigh as well (my head was in the clouds and I was so high from his sexual energy)...then he took my hand, and put it on his c***. I slightly squeezed the outline of it... the thing is, I am VERY sexually attracted to him even though he's 47...he got my number and is constantly texting me to meet and telling me how much he wants to finally be inside me...I REALLY REALLY like him and want him too....but I don't want this to ruin his marriage. I don't want to marry him or date him. I just want us to be lovers....would that be a really mean thing to do to my friend? even if she doesn't know?