Am I actually becoming a psychopath?
Jonathon, you are perceptive, and a year ago I would have agreed with you. But it's getting worse, which is why I phrased my quesiton in the progressive. Whatever sense of mental continuity I used to have that should have developed into a real social identity has just fallen to pieces... Some people are really scared of me (or so I'm told, hahaha). And by report of my friends, I've begun to show a peculiar gaze which I am beginning to think may be that famous "psychopathic stare." I'll admit that the idea of being a sociopath used to appeal to me in that sense, and in a sense it still does, but on the other hand there are moments when I truly regret that I didn't take this seriously in the first place, since I really can't take anything seriously now.
How can you stop being attached to someone?
This is a situation that at least every normal person goes through at one point in their life. Lessons gathered out of one experience does not necessarily apply to all situations, because every individual is different and behaves differently depending on situations. Few clarifications; is this a person you're attached to and cannot see both of you together in the future and you're trying to separate now? Is this a person that for some reason you cannot move on with? Your why would always help determine your how. With that being said, here are some few thoughts/way out;Find a music that defines the situation. The most popular and highly recommended is “jealous” by labrinth. In this song, you have lyrics that you can relate to, and also empower yourself that sometimes you just have to let go on a good course. Use music to replace the memory of the person; this is a proven research by the author of the book “Unprotected.”Do not try to block the person or completely cut off the relationship; this will drain you emotionally. Begin by distancing yourself; gradually, you will find yourself afar off. During that process:Engage yourself in something you enjoy doing. Or find a new hobby that will occupy you.Become socially involve; try making new friends and getting into new groups.Do volunteering to find a sense of fulfillment.It's OK to occasionally try to say “hello or hi” to the person you're trying to detach from; in this attempt, you're allowing yourself a process to fully be yourself.Constantly remind yourself the detachment is for the good of both you.
Why do girls get attached after sex?
You're asking the wrong question. It's not "why do girls...", but "Why do the girls with whom I have sex get attached afterwards?". Maybe you should ask yourself before you sleep with a girl whether you think she can and will keep it NSA. There are many girls who are happy to have casual sex. If you articulate what you want from this very clearly and you make sure you're both on the same page, then you have my permission, for what it's worth, not to feel any guilt for "dumping" her when she gets jealous. For the record, though, if you want to know something, being penetrated is a very different experience from doing the penetrating. If you really want to understand, get a girl to peg you.
Is it possible to train myself to become asexual?
SHEKILLS: I appreciate what you've said and agree; for me it would be impossible and I think I'm very much in the majority and it's impossible to train yourself to be asexual if this isn't natural...you can't turn a heterosexual homosexual or vice-versa although many people are bisexual. As an aside: it's curious why most people who profess to be asexual are usually female and the significance of this I really don't know. I do know men in general have much more powerful sex drives than woman, and that certainly creates conflict! I'M CURIOUS why some people would either fear or have a need to reject sex and intimate relations with others? Emotion,drama,grief,happiness, sadness, etcetera are all equally part of what it means to be a human being and the best course for dealing with these emotions is to learn how to healthily deal with them: I think a desire or need to be asexual is a fanatical and extreme response, and to be "natually" asexual I think is something to seriously question. Our worlds greatest artists create their art under powerful emotions...how many people here love songs that deal with sadness, grief, happiness, etcetera? Probably everyone. To me a person who professes asexuality or a lack of need for intimate relations with another human is souless. Also, I think for a female to nonchalantly impregnate herself shows little regard for the health and happiness of the child; children are mostly blank slates and they develop their attitudes especially regarding healthy socialization from their childhood environment....an environment where they observe responsible adults who interact well with others and keep their neurosis under control is VERY IMPORTANT. Sex is an emotional act, the closest form of intimacy you can have with another human being; I don't know how you separate the emotional part of it if you're mentally healthy. I don't think asexuality is remotely healthy for human beings; sex and sexuality is one of the greatest forms of pleasure our creator gave to us and what we are able to give to others. To me life without sex or being asexual wouldn't be worth living.
Has any astronaut gotten lost in space like they show in the movie Gravity (2013)?
Laika (Russian: Лайка;[a] c. 1954 – November 3, 1957) was a Soviet space dog who became one of the first animals in space, and the first animal to orbit the Earth. Laika, a stray dog from the streets of Moscow, was selected to be the occupant of the Soviet spacecraft Sputnik 2 that was launched into outer space on November 3, 1957.Little was known about the impact of spaceflight on living creatures at the time of Laika's mission, and the technology to de-orbit had not yet been developed, and therefore Laika's survival was not expected. Some scientists believed humans would be unable to survive the launch or the conditions of outer space, so engineers viewed flights by animals as a necessary precursor to human missions.[1] The experiment aimed to prove that a living passenger could survive being launched into orbit and endure micro-gravity, paving the way for human spaceflight and providing scientists with some of the first data on how living organisms react to spaceflight environments.Laika died within hours from overheating, possibly caused by a failure of the central R-7 sustainer to separate from the payload. The true cause and time of her death were not made public until 2002; instead, it was widely reported that she died when her oxygen ran out on day six or, as the Soviet government initially claimed, she was euthanised prior to oxygen depletion.On April 11, 2008, Russian officials unveiled a monument to Laika. A small monument in her honour was built near the military research facility in Moscow that prepared Laika's flight to space. It features a dog standing on top of a rocket. She also appears on the Monument to the Conquerors of Space in Moscow.Laika was lost in space