My friend and I like the same guy?
so basically i liked this guy A LOT. then he got with a girl and i tried to get over him by liking this new kid and the new kid kinda liked me back too so then i started liking him a lot a lot. He’s such a sweet person. Then i found out my friend liked him so i stopped liking him (kinda) then she got over him so i started liking him again and i like him so much. and he definitely likes me back. but she just told me she still kind of likes him. i’m so broken. because i knows our friendship means so much more to me than this kid does but I like him so so much. and i felt like things were just starting to work out for me. but she said i can still like him if i like him a lot but i know it hurts her. i know she’s still hurt by it and the one thing i don’t want to do is hurt one of my best friends. idk what to do i’m torn. any advice? please?
My friend and I like the same guy?
Hey! Thanks so much for answering my question! xx Having a parent with cancer is hard, and I know because my mom currently has it. My dad died when I was four. If she's asking you who you like, don't lie to her. Be straight and honest with her, and tell her you like him. But if she want's to ask him out, be the better friend and let her. She will definitely appreciate it. Besides, there are plenty of other guys out there anyways. I hoped this helped xx Maddy
Me and my best friend like the same guy?
i say just try as hard as u can to move on. this happens to me all the time, i like a guy and then from out of nowhere someone comes along and steals him just try to be friends with him and try to pick out someone else to crush on and eventually the thrill wears off if u 2 r friends this is wat happened to me and my best guy bud so luck 2 u!!!!
Me and my best friend like the same guy?!?
Listen... it all depends on how much you like the guy. Also, are you ready to risk your friendship? She might get too mad and never speak to you again. Think about it. If your friend means too much to you, more than the guy and if he isn't worth losing your friend, I think you should forget him. I mean, friends are forever. But, if you can't get him out of your head and if you like him too much to forget about him, go for it. If your friend is a true friend, she’ll forgive you in a heartbeat. After all, all is fair in love and war. Good luck! Just think about it, and make sure you won't make a decision that you'll later regret.
Me and my friend like the same guy but he likes me and i like him?
So heres the story: Me and this guy have known each other for about 2 months now and weve become good friends. After about the second time i was around him i started developing a huge crush! His personality is amazing and i think he is adorable.My best friend has known him for years but never liked him until i met him. She told me she all the sudden was starting to be interested in him because he was cute but she didnt think she had anything in common with him but that wasnt stopping her from liking him. She told me this right before i was going to tell her i had a crush on him too....so it scared me away from telling her because i didnt want to start tension between us because we liked the same guy. I tried to just forget about him but i never could and she just kept saying she liked him more and more so i never felt like i could tell her!! But then she started telling me she liked his best friend too along with sooo many other guys. Shes boy crazy but yet she still claims to really like the guy i like. Well the other night we were all hanging out and me and him were in his room alone and he told me he thought it was hot when he saw me dancing earlier so it led to a conversation about if he liked me or not and he admitted he did so then i did too! Then we kissed....my friend wasnt in the same room but i still felt bad. He knows about the whole situation now and he said he doesnt think of her as more than a friend and that he really likes me. So Weve both agreed to keep it a secret from her and our group of friends so she wont get mad. But i really feel like i need to tell her because i don't like feeling like im being un true to her. What should i do? or should i even tell her?
My friend likes the same guy as me?
its your mistake why didnt u told the truth to rachel....when she asked..!.if u liked brad that much..cant u tell to ur best friend rachel..big question mark to you????..in that case there would be two possibilty..either u dont trust ur best friend...or you dont trust ur love..?? but ur shy(as i am too)...it can b counted ......as result of ur shyness u couldnt expresss. okay...u liked brad since 5 yrs...i think..he might have felt ur love..did u ever show it..or jus u became shy????? and ya...now..rachel as she is pretty...and if they like each other u cant do anything....???? but...in my personal experience..the girls who flirt....lyk rachel..apart frm shes pretty..boys...jus take flirting love jus superficial..not real... if..if..u had loved...brad for 5 yrs..then..it will b felt..by him.. dont go in between brad n..rachel..jus talk to...brad as u did,,, b as u are..... if rachel...tries to..keep u far..then...say...it to brad...me outspoken..n true to both..dont get to animal behaviour jus to..get brad.. simply think..n do best logically.... b good..if u loved..then brad will..return..n if he does...wow dam..the respect he will have for u..will b in zenith..so..wait..have patience..and b what u are... ur day will come..dont try to b n show ur better in than rachel...to brad..b as u are!.... and..if possible..express ur love to brad..at that instance...forget..racheal.......!!! we cant make everyone..happy!
Me and my gay friend likes the same guy?
If he wants to be in a relationship with you, then he has to be friends with your friends. Friends are way more important (friendships last forever). Anyway, if he were actually sweet and caring, he would understand the way you feel about your gay friend and would try to make things better with him. He would also be willing to give the two of you space and time to work things out. He kind of sounded like a prick to me the way you described his behavior at the mall. He could be a little more empathetic. The main point, though, is that there is no reason to start the relationship now. There's no rush. Wait till your gay friend is okay. Besides, time is the best test of love, so you'll find out if that guy actually cares for you or is just playing you.
My friend and I like the same guy, but he likes me and not her and she said I can't have him. What are some suggestions for what I should do?
It's not up to her.It's up to you and him.But if she is the sort of person who is inclined to say things like "you can't have him" about a human being, then if you want to have a relationship with this guy, you need to be prepared to lose her as a friend, or perhaps even gain her as an enemy.Having said all that, you sound pretty young. Lots of relationship things seem much more dramatic when you are young than later, when you are older. But the bottom line is: the only people who get to decide whether you and this guy have a relationship are the two of you. She can be unhappy about it, she can try to make you unhappy, she can try to make him unhappy. She can try to hurt you. But she doesn't get to decide, unless you allow her to.