My best friend chose someone else over me?
We are going on a week long trip with our church and she told me about a month or two ago we will be roommates. Well now she's saying she's going to be roommates with this one girl she knows I dislike and last time we were on a trip with the girl they both complained and fought the whole time over NOTHING (keep in mind that trip lasted 24 hours). She has always said I'm her best friend but she has been ignoring me lately and I don't know what to do. I always try to be nice to her but, yeah. She says she's allowed to have other best friends and I said that's fine but she promised me she would be with me. Now because of her, I'm going to be with a complete stranger and I seriously cannot do that because I have a mental disorder and I just can't do that because I would freak out. I told her that and she claims not to have known and I have told her multiple times. I asked how she expected me to react because she didnt even tell me, I had to ask her and she just keeps saying the same thing "I can have other friends". She practically begged me to let her go with her boyfriend on this school trip and I said OK because we were going to roommates for this. Idk what to do anymore. I'm so upset and talking to her is nearly impossible because she doesn't listen to me., I love her as a friend but I feel so mad right now, because she lied to me! I feel like I might be over reacting but I can't back out because there are no refunds, but how would you feel if someone did this to you? Thanks.
My friend chose someone else over me :(?
So there is this over girl she dosnt like me and she chose her over me saying its not fair on her i feel sad as we have been bestfriends for ages what should i do?
My friend chose someone else over me?
So I forgot about my friend and me meeting up on Sunday for dinner and made plans to a basketball game that evening. She came up and asked if we were still on and I just remembered then. I scheduled us for lunch, but told her not it can't be too long because of the travel to the game. Later that night I get a text from her saying that she was going to NY for a few days so she couldn't get lunch. She's going with her friend to visit a roommate of hers, who offered to pay the majority of their tickets. I don't know, am I being selfish or jealous, or is this a rude move to play?! I haven't planned a reschedule date but just wanted to know what you guys think.
What do I do if my best friend chose someone else over me?
Lately, I've been feeling neglected by my best friend. Today, she was mad at this other girl and I asked her what was going on, instead of telling me someone else did. I asked my BF why she wont just tell me herself & she said and I quote,"Maybe cause I don't want to." Later in the day at lunch, she sat by me and acted as if nothing had happened, even though I didn't talk to her after that. We were cool again. Then after school, my teacher was going to give me and her some candy, I just had to find her and go back to his office. She was hanging out with Bobbie, the girl I've been feeling like she likes more than me lately. Bobbie didn't want any candy, but my BF said she did. We were walking towards the exit and our teacher's office. There was actually a split in directions. Bobbie went towards the exit, my BF stood there for a moment, deciding her decision. She didn't say anything to me and walked away with bobbie. I never did go get the candy. Am I just jealous? Or am I seriously having a problem here? Please help:(
How should I feel when my best friend chose someone else over me more than once? Was she my best friend?
Being “best friends” should have little to do with possessiveness, expectations and comparisons. If today there’s an emergency, let’s say, you get hit by a car, and you can’t call any family, is this a friend you know you can count on to call to help you? Is she the first friend that comes to your mind? If so, yeah, I’d say she’s your best friend.Are you her best friend though? Without any expectations or strings attached?
My best friend chose someone else as her maid of honor?
My best friend is getting married at the end of the year, and Im not her maid of honor!!!! We have been best friends since 8th grade, and we are now grown adults out of college. She has chosen a girl she knew in elementary school, who she no longer associates with because she has become a 100% flakey *****! All she does is talk smack about what a terrible person she has become and they talk probably once every 6 months. They made a promise in middle school, so I guess thats what its all about. Would anyone else be a little upset? I have been here for her for years, and this girl hasnt. This girl doesnt even know my best friends fiance.
What should I do when my best friend prefers someone else over me?
At any rate, worrying about it only gives you a problem. Feeling angry about it only has you feel that way. Best friends do not have a baggage label on them saying ‘Property of…’. They have a right to spend their time however they like. If that happens to be in your company, great! If not, that does not mean that you are no longer best friends. That friend will not forget you that easily.All you can do, and should do, is let them be with that company, and be happy when they are with you, when they are. And when they are with you, do not claim them exclusively, or cling to them much. Let them breathe. That way, they will be your best friend forever, I mean this literally, for a long time.There is this thing that is best described as ‘fear to be left alone’. This is not a joking matter. It can have severe consequences and may lead to never leaving the house anymore, as that is the only safe place one can be. Luckily, treatment, that counters or even conquers this fear, is available. Seeing a general doctor/GP might be a good step, if there is a wish to get rid of that fear, and others besides.
How do you fully accept that a relationship is over? He chose someone else over me because of distance, and I just can’t get over it. Is there any advice?
I have a bit of advice. I do not wish to be hurtful, but I will be blunt. “He chose someone else over me because of distance…..”. Stop your statement before the word BECAUSE. “He chose someone else over me.” It is the most awful and brutal rejection. You were dumped. No matter what the reason-you were not chosen. Let that sink in and get good and angry. You really, truly, absolutely do not want to be someone’s second choice. You deserve way better than that. When you think of him-think of that-“I deserve better.” You do.
How do you handle your best friend getting closer to someone else?
No matter how bad you feel about it, don’t reveal it because, despite your best intentions, you will come across as jealous, possessive and a control freak. It might make matters worse.The thing about life is that friends come and go and we, as people, keep changing. Indeed, change is the only permanent thing in this world. Your best friend too is ever changing. And the worst part is that you can’t do anything about it. So, if your “best friend” chooses to replace you, then so be it. It’ll hurt you a lot. But sooner or later you will have to pick up the broken pieces of your heart and move on. That’s just how life is.Also, if you truly love your best friend, then you will have the courage to look past your own hurt feelings and be glad that they’ve found someone they’re happy with. You will have the courage to prioritize their happiness over yours. And, I think that’s what matters in the end.
What do you do when your friend picks someone else over you?
i hate this ''best friend" crap... i never chose favorites and never had someone do this to me... its even worse that i'm almost 15, shes 13, and the one shes choosing over me is a 23 year old stoner... i cant not be her friend because i have literally NO ONE ELSE.. since i'm shy.. i understand she likes him.. but she thinks if she hangs around him all the time, when she gets older he'll go out with her.. he is an awesome guy but i have been the one whose talked to her everyday, helps her when she needs me, and it hurts like hell having her do this to me.. she thinks she doesnt have any friends but she needs to look around and notice i have even less friends than her.. i dont mind being around her w/o him but only she talks about him and how hes awesome and it pissed me off when she said "i always feel really happy w/ him" and i said "that makes me feel great" i was joking, she said "well ur fun and i'm happy with you too.. but its like.. hes amazing and its different" i said "so, you'd pick him over me?" and she said ".... kinda" i'm really starting to hate ppl seriously wtf?! i'm always second...