Boyfriend is mad because i hug my guy friends?
Guy's perspective. My girlfriend does the same. She hugs her guy friends which happen to be mine too, but that's just her personality and I'm learning to accept that. I'll admit that I get jealous when I see it but I don't want to be selfish. I'm not asking her to change who she is but it really does affect me when I see it and it hurts a little sometimes. When I do see it, all I can do is turn away. I love her so much with all my heart and I know that she does feel the same way about me too. I don't hug my girl friends in front of her, or ever for that fact anymore because I know she feels jealous sometimes too. I did this for her because I love her. If they, however, hug me, that's ok. It's just that I feel she's a bit too friendly with some of them sometimes. Yes, your boyfriend was jealous, but trust me, us guys, it's in our nature to be. However, he did overreact and was so wrong in dumping you just like that. Definitely should have sorted things out with you first.
Should I be jealous of girls hugging my boyfriend in front of me?
hell ya that would annoy me!!! why are they so friendly & well acquainted? has he been hooking up with them behind your back? how do u know them girls aren't trying to steal ur man? i wouldn't take this.. if they're already hugging, soon they'll be kissing.. all it takes is too many drinks.. hugging is an invasion of personal space, how can ur man let these strange girls into his personal space like that? its supposed to be off limits for them & while u his gf he's only meant to allow u into his personal space!!! dammit, that's whats so special about being gf/bf otherwise whats the point guys? u cant keep them away from eachother, but u can choose to keep away from him if he keeps acting like a jerk.. tell him how u feel & if he cant understand, its over..
Why is my boyfriend annoyed that one of my guy friends hugged me?
This might seem pretty odd to a girl, but it’s how men are hardwired.Believe me, we aren’t objectifying you or anything, but when we are in a relationship our mind is tuned to she is mine and that’s just on a constant loop.Think of the relationship like a Pride of Lions. You have the one male (usually) and the rest are females. Why? It’s territory, it’s protective instinct. We want everything to be ours and that thought pattern extends to our mate.Men don’t like other men that can potentially steal our mate, and believe me, the most threatening male is the one that is a ‘friend’ because, even if we say we believe nothing is going on, we secretly do think it.It’d be like if your Boyfriend gave a deep, waist hug to a relatively attractive female friend of his. Would you feel threatened? (If you answer no to this, then… well, you just can’t understand.)Later on in life, I’m talking Marriage and Kids—men tend to tone this behavior down because, well… you are stuck with us at that point, or at least that’s how we see it.Until then, any other male is an enemy.If you aren’t willing to alter simple behavior that makes your boyfriend uncomfortable, you might not work out very long. It’s not a terrible thing to just change how you interact with friends until he knows and trusts that nothing is going on. Or, until he is friends with your guy friends.Just takes time.
Why is my boyfriend mad at me for hugging a guy friend ?? (10 points)?
He's jealous. As long as it was a quick hug, not some long one then it shouldn't be so bad for him.
Is it ok for your girlfriend to hug other guys?
my girlfriend has a lot of friends that are guys and when she see's them she hugs them.. also whenever my best friend leaves to go to class or whatever he always asks my girlfriend for a hug. is this bad or anything to worry about?
Could my guy friend like me?
Well lately, he's been acting a bit more, well i really don't know. It's more of a gut feeling. But he's sending so many mixed signals that i'm seriously confused. So here are some things that make me suspicious. -He always hugs me, in front of everyone and he holds me really tight. -He always puts his head close to mine and puts his face against my hair sometimes. -He sometimes grabs my hand and 'plays' with it or just links his two fingers with mine when he hugs me from behind sometimes. -We each have code names for each other (Mimi and Crackajack) -(inside joke really weird...sorry) One day when I was messing around with him I said I ate Mimi, and he pretended to get all shocked and said "Where's 'my' Mimi?!" He never said that before. -He looks straight into my eyes sometimes. -I catch him looking at me (sometimes again!) -He always tries to make me laugh -He picked me up one time -Like one or two times he hugged me around my lower waist. Notice all th e'sometimes' thats why im so confused! Any help!? And he also dissaproves of my huge crush on George Clooney, which he always calls old and ugly. And he always asks: "Why can't you just like guys your own age?"
What should I do if my girlfriend hugs a guy (friend, colleague) in front of me and she is all smiles and the guy picks her up and twirls her?
You should run over screaming beating your chest and fight him. Once done asulting him and screaming mark your territory all over the place.Or do nothing. Smile and introduce yourself. This guy makes your partner happy. That makes him a great guy and someone to bond with.This is a stupid question and sadly it needs to be answered. It needed to be answered to me 10 years ago.Your girlfriend is NOT property. If she's uncomfortable with how a person touches her trust her to tell them or ask you for help. She is all smiles? Be happy she's happy.If this interaction made you jealous then you need to seek help and grow self esteem. It is not ok to be a jealous partner.Jealous partners always project their problems onto others then try to control them. This is when a relationship turns toxic and past the point of no return.Dig deep into your insecurity. Seek professional help. Make sure you never feel this uncomfortable again.
Is it wrong to ask my boyfriend to stop talking to a female friend of his?
Yes, it is wrong.You find it wrong when she used to give massages to him in the office, or she used to hug him, Right? You may be right, they must not get that physical in front of you. But tell me does the guy love you? Really? How do you know? How can you judge him? Just because he said so? People these days don’t know the meaning of LOVE.Listen dear, this may sound rude and make you feel bad.. But just put 1 small, minute thing into your brain. When a guy says he loves you from the core of his heart, or he wants to spend the entire life with you or any of that mushy talk, you might feel that he loves you. But in reality a guy would show his love not by his words, but by his actions.If he would have loved you and cared for your feelings, he would never ever have let that girl behave like what she does in your presence or absence. If he pushes a girl away who makes such a move in your absence that is love.If you think they must not talk just because you are together now, so let me make it clear to you. You don’t own the person, nor would you ever. You can make a person yours just when he wants to be yours.If you find something inappropriate in a relation between your boyfriend and his female-friend, just make it clear to your boyfriend. If he actually loves you, he would take care of that girl, or any girl in that matter.You must not take matters into your hands by talking to that female-friend. You are simply destroying your relationship with her and breaking her heart by your cheap talks.**P.S.: I don’t want to be rude or arrogant, but I have been into the place of that female-friend and I know how it feels when we were not wrong but still some one teaches you how to behave with one of your best-friend, and how that silence of the guy breaks my heart till date. How my relation with of them is still in tatters. All three of us regret our words after about 3 years of that incident but there is no turning back now.**
My boyfriend gets jealous when guys hug me? What do I say?
Back up before they move in for a hug on you. Dont buy the whole oh he's just jealous crap. Guys know you dont do that to another guys girlfriend, it says I think you are big pus*y, watch this. Really, it does. I know i have dont it to guys I do not like and have no respect for just to piss them off and challenge them. Its a subtle dominance thing and women dont get that part so the ones who say it is ok are full of it. Besides they dont like it when girls do it and they do it for the same reasons. And guys dont hug you because you are their friend it is contact on a female they are after. He is right.