My best friend is being really mean to me?
Wow, she seems extremely rude. Sometimes people change. I'd suggested writing her a letter and giving it to her and walking away. At the end of the letter put "And I'm going to ignore you when you bring this up unless you act like an adult and speak without harshness." If she throws something at you like "Well you just want attention" then just ditch her. She's really not worth your time if she decides to be rude to you.
My Friend is being realy mean...HELP!?
Ok. So my Best Friend has a not so secret admiarer and she doesn't like him too much and last week on Friday he slipped a note into her locker because she already had a boyfriend and He (the not so secret admiarer) Has REALLY strong fellings towards her and he's liked her through everything she has done to him and neways she opened the note and it said... Can we just be friends?.... She laughed outluod rolled her eyes went down to the luch room and showed more than half the people down there like it was one big joke! Is their Ne thing I can do to help out the Admierrer and besides she doesn't really even like her boyfriend all that much and i do... Should I do sumething or just lave it be?
My best friend is so mean to me?
My so called "best friend" is being so mean to me recently. We've been best friends since we were about 7! But the last few months she's been really really mean to me! Well, I sorta have this group of friends but my BEST friend in the group is the one that's mean to me. Recently, she always goes shopping with my other friends, but she doesn't ever ask me, or tell me. She invites our friends to her house, but doesn't invite me. I don't know what happened, we were so close! Please help me, I don't know what to do. =[
My best friend is being mean.. Help?!?
Oh my dear there are a couple ofthings for you to remember. First calm down for just a minute and relax; remember high school/Jr. high will be over before you know it and you will look back at situations like this and laugh at them. But I know that doesn't really help your current situation. So, I just want to to think about this for a minute. You say that this girl is your best friend and that you live her, that is good. It's good for everyone to have a best friend and to love others, and chances are you're probably pretty good at it I'd bet. It sounds like your friend however is preoccupied being a little selfish and not worrying about you as much as you are worrying about her. Something you will learn in life is to expect as much from your friend as you give to them. If she loved you as much as you love her she wouldn't say what and react the way she does. My suggestion to you is to give your friend some space for a day or two. Do t just ignore her if she tries to talk to you but it sounds like you could be smothering her. If you give her some space and spend time with your other friends she is likely to start to miss you after some time and come back since you are so close to each other. However if she chooses not to come back, find a new friend because she is in a different place right now and needs to learn how to communicate and have a healthy friendship. If you think that there is possibly anything wrong going on in her home life you might just very casually ask her how she is doing and when she casually answers look into her eyes and say no, how are you REALLY doing? And just listen. She says she is tired of hearing about all of your problems maybe she is frustrated because she feels like you aren't listening to her problems when she needs you right now as her bff. Hope this helps.
My best friend is being mean and rude!!?
My best friend has been really rude. I have known her for 6 years. She has always been a little rude from the beggining but still a really good friend to have around. I thought maybe she would get better but she hasn't. She's always been putting me down and acting like I'm and idiot. She also teases and embaresses me in front of my friends. She also thinks that. I have to be around her every second of the day and have no other friends. One day she was talking to someone after class so I went ahead and went to the next class. In the next class she got really mad and was like "why didn't you wait on me!!!". Really rudely. I told her that she didn't always wait on me and that I thought it was ok. She also always puts me down. Almost everyday she says something rude about my outfit or my hair. She is reall making me lose my self confidence. Also I think she gets a little jealous of me because I'm a all A student. Every time I make a good grade she always says somehing like "well at least I actually studied" or "well it doesn't even matter cause these grade don't even count". Also a few times she would run away with another friend saying "we don't hang out wih nerds!!!!!" Really rudely. She is a really nice person when we are at her house or just me and her. Then she always talks about how she's sooo glad we are friends. Bu around other people it seems like she hates me and tries to make me look stupid!! I've tried giving her some space but she always get mad at me for "leaving her" or "ignoring her"!! She also tells me that I'm stupid on a daily basis or your sooo wierd or whispers to other friends behind my back saying things like "omigosh look at her hair it's so frizzy!!!" I try to act nice and go along with it saying thing like " I know today has been a bad hair day". She also bullies me by hitting me and pushing me around saying "did that hurt"!!! Then trying it harder and harder. I know sometimes people do this just to be fun but she does it a lot and I can tell she is trying to be mean not funny. How do I tell her I don't want to hang out with her anymore. We have been friends for sooo long. I do have other fiends I could hang out with but then she always gets mad!!! Any advice is apreciated!!! Thank you in advance!!!
My "best friend" is being so mean to me lately!?
I think that's terrible how gossip and jealousy has killed your friendship. There's no other way to fix it than to sit with all of them and *gasp* TALK it out. No arguing. Let each other talk while everybody listens. Take turns. It's important that everybody is there in your little 'talk session' so nobody says bad things behind anybody's backs. Be ready to hear anything good or bad about you. Ask them what they don't like about you or if they have a problem with you or anybody in the group. I know it sounds really stupid, but trust me -- this is the only way to get your friendship back on track. I know you are a mature person since you still tried to be nice despite their negative behaviors. If that doesn't work out so well, you can always try and ask your school guidance counselor to set up a meeting for you to facilitate the 'talk'. We were lucky enough to have school retreats / recollections where we open up our ill feelings towards each other. We tell each other in class what we don't like and what we want to change. We have to be completely honest. This form of communication is so important and so crucial especially at your age when you're very moody and still learning about how to build good relationships with your friends.
Why is my best guy friend being mean to me?
Ok, we've been friends for over a year now. We are the best of friends and all of a sudden he's starting to say little mean things to me. I asked him about it and he's all like oh i'm just kidding. What does this mean? HELP!
My friend's being really mean to me because she's jealous of how close I am with my new best friend. How do I keep being friends with both people?
Tell her you want to be friends with her and the new friend, that she’s being unfair but also be open to her criticising how you’ve been behaving (possibly making her feel left out). You can either include her more or don’t let them mix, though the latter is only really applicable if these friends don’t get along. Best thing to do is to reassure her without condoning her behaviour and try to move forward.
What is the best friend?
Sharing-One of the greatest things about having a best friend is being able to share everything. They are the ones to whom we tell things we wouldn't dream of telling anyone else i.e our greatest fears and biggest mistakes.Experiences-Having a best friend means sharing experiences .Sometimes when we get stuck in our own routines,it's nice to hear about what other people are doing.Loyalty-means never having to worry about someone spilling your secrets or talking about you behind your back. Honesty-Best friends will also be totally honest with you.They know you well and are able to tell it like it is.They help us to develop our self-esteem,they give unconditional support and comfort.To lie-They tell you that you don't look fat.They come to your house uninvited and blame you because your refrigerator has got nothing to eat.They lose your stuff and then again blame you for that.They eat the last slice of pizza.They give you bad hairdo sympathy(just to laugh at you later).To laugh at your silly and random jokes.Every single time.To judge people.Together.For these things too.AndSLEEPOVERS
Help, my sister's friend is being really mean to me, and I'm so hurt?
Hi, so this is kinda long, so just bear with me: Backstory: I'm a teenager in high school, and I have a younger sister who's 3 years younger than me. Lets call her Sam. Sam (my sister) has a best friend named (lets call her) Breanna. Ok, so I'm not your "average" teenager. I a little immature (I like to sing really loud and play around, prefer Disney Channel and stuff) I'm not popular in school, but my little sister and her friends are mega popular...this doesn't really bother me, however, her friends keep calling me "dork" and "stupid" behind my back. I'm a really good drawer, so her friend Breanna one day asked me if I can draw her a picture of her favorite singer. I of course did, I have nothing against her. But she for some reason does not like me. Like when I got a iPod Touch for Christmas (I have never owned any iPod or mp3 player before) I was so happy, but my sister told Breanna, and she called me a spoiled brat. I don't know where this is coming from, since her brother was in my class and he had things like a droid and iPod and stuff. Also, for example today, my sister was talking to Breanna, and I asked her for the time while she was talking. She then told me the time, and then I went over to the computer (where she was at) and said I needed to use it for research on my paper. She said in a sighing voice "Okkaaaaaaaaay." Then as I sat down I heard Breanna say on the phone: "Oh my gosh Sam!! Pleaaaaase tell your stupid sister to shut up." My sister is nice to me, so she just giggled nervously. I don't think she knows that I heard. I'm just really hurt that her friend thinks I'm annoying/dorky, I mean I've NEVER talked to her before...ever. Even when I gave her the drawing, I gave it to Sam to give to her. That was so rude and I have REALLY sensitive feelings....it really hurts my feelings. I just can't help thinking she is constantly saying rude things to me behind my back. And also the fact that my sister just ignores it and doesn't defend me!! :'((And it hurts even more because shes younger than me! So any comforting advice, or what I should do, or maybe ignore it?...thanks. Sorry I know this was long. I appreciate any help though, I'm really hurt.