What do i do? my best friend is getting on my nerves about my boyfriend?
sounds like your friend is the one needing dumped. so what if he's not the best looking guy or got a mean 6 pack? she's either jealous or arrogant. unless the guy actually does something wrong, there's no reason to even consider your friends opinion to dump him. if he's a great boyfriend, you should not dump him over his appearance unless you are simply not attracted to him at all.
Losing my best friend because of her boyfriend? :(?
Hello everyone. I have a problem which had been bugging me lately. I've met my best friend 2 years ago. As we met, we became very close from the start and ended up being best friends. Our friendship was amazing, it looked to good to be true. We were always there for each other, never had a fight, we used to be the most important people to each other (ok, after family). My best friend used to have a boyfriend but I was always more important. I was her #1. She would cancel things so that she can spend time with me. I was always there for her and helped her with college and whatever she needed. I would come to her place although she lives at other side of the town just to comfort her when she was down. We would talk on the phone non-stop. She would call me five times a day. About a month ago she started to date this guy she met last year. Since she's with him, she isn't being social with her other friends anymore. Not even me. I understand that things change a bit in these kind of situations, but I feel a bit hurt. It's because I have a lot of friends, but this with her was different. I really tried hard, our friendship ment so much to me and now I am being left out because of some guy who loves her for some other reasons, not because of the reasons why I and the rest of her friends love her. And also, it hurts me the fact that as she started to date him, she called me being formal. She texted me from his place, wrote long message and my reply was friendly but not too long since I didn't want to bother her since she was with him. She acts sometimes like she want me to be jealous which I'm not. I am very happy for her, but feel a bit hurt because of the way she acts. What if some day he dumps her and she wants to come back to me and others like nothing ever happened? She totally is ignoring everyone. We barely see each other. I tried to talk about this, I said that we don't need to see each other everyday, but at least two or three times a month. It hurts me the fact that she forgot about me, after everything that we've been through. I could never act like that. I don't understand. She always used to say how our friendship is the most important thing to her and how she would never let some guy destroy it. Sometimes I feel like she doesn't care anymore, but she keeps denying that. What should I do? What do you think about this situation?
My best friend wants to kiss me. What do I do?
I’m kinda experiencing the same situation right now… (except I’m a guy)A couple days ago, I was texting my best friend (who is a girl) in the middle of the night and we got bored. She suggested playing the question game… and since I was bored, I said “sure y not”. We ended up talking about what makes us horny, sex fantasies, favorite sex positions, etc… and then it got to the point where we were exchanging nudes. I personally did not ever have feelings for her, but for some reason, I got out of control and shit happened… I’m still not sure why.The next morning I woke up very confused about the night before, because me and her have been friends for a long time, and not once have we ever done something like this. She later called me and asked if I wanted to come over to watch Netflix or whatever. I didn’t bring up last night because I wanted to avoid an awkward phone call.When I got to her house, the sun was already setting and so her room was dark. I casually laid down next to her and she turned on Netflix, I still didn’t mention last night. After about 30 minutes, she started moving closer to me and slowly grinding against me. I pretended not to notice, but then she said “fuck it” and hopped on to me. At this point, I was really confused and had no idea what to do. I stopped her as she tried to kiss me and said “WTF?!!”, because I wasn’t about to fuck my childhood best friend. I immediately pushed her off and said “Listen… I don’t know what was up with me… or you last night, but I’m not ready to take our friendship in “that” direction…” She stared at me with much frustration and said, “but i want youuuu… just FUCK me alreadyyyy!” I said “No” again and left.I later called her and tried to explain why I sent her nudes last night, which I wasn’t even sure why in the first place, but she said she understood and said she wasn’t thinking straight too. I guess we just got a little too excited. (2 o’clock in the morning)What I recommend you doing is explain to him that even though you’re curious to kiss him, you don’t want to ruin your friendship by taking things too far. And if he asks why you sexted him, say that your mind wasn’t in the right place at that time, so you made careless decisions.If by any chance, he doesn’t acknowledge your opinion on things, simply give him an ultimatum like “I’m sorry, but if you don’t care enough to put into account my feelings, then this isn’t gonna work” or something like that.Hope you the best of luck!
My best friend hangs out with my enemy?
So like a year ago me and this girl fell out and she's done loads of s*** to me yet the other day my best friend hangs out with her at lunch when I was off school, I often hear they hang out on weekends together. But it's really bugging me now and I just want her to choose but does that make me a bad friend, and what if she chooses her over me?
I told my best friend something..but I feel guilty..?
Ooh sounds very mysterious! Well you told her now. So thats that done. But dont tell anyone else anything again! You should try to keep the secret, but if it gets too much, make sure your best friend can keep her mouth shut.
My Boyfriend said my best friend was hot?
I dont know why its bugging me so much. but we've been together for two years. and apparently hes added her on facebook.. it didnt bug me but it bugged her? and now it bugs me why it would bug her. Hes recently been asking me how shes been with her depression when he didnt really care before and tonight he admitted he thought she was hot. Is it right that i should be upset by this? i never ever tell him i think other guys are hot, or talk about celeb guys. i never talk about guys being hot unless its just when im with my friends and its about celebs. idk maybe im being childish
"You're my best friend!" movie quote?
This has been bugging me for the longest time. Every time I say it, I cannot figure out where I heard it from. Anyway, it's from a movie. I cannot determine if it's an animated movie or not, but I'm sure it's a kids movie or a comedy. I vaguely remember the scene but I know it's two guys saying it to one another, and they could possibly be shouting across a yard or something - or like hugging. I can't remember. I also believe they were grown men but IDK! hahaa anyone know?
Should you tell your friend honestly what's bothering you about her/him?
No! If you are unsure of yourself, it isn’t a good idea to put that uncertainty on someone else. I would suggest setting aside some time to deeply think (meditate) about what is bothering you, why it is bothering you, and if telling the person will alleviate your symptoms. Surprisingly, we can internally solve most of our own problems by evaluating them and figuring out what is really going on. Sometimes, you might find that another’s actions or something they did is only bothering you because of another issue you have with yourself. Most of the time when I find myself mad or annoyed with my partner or friend, by meditating(really just concentrated thinking) I uncover that I was bothered because of my own insecurity or unhappiness. Make sure that you want to suggest corrections on someone’s behavior because it will benefit them and make them happier, not for selfish reasons that you think will make you happier. Learning to accept that everyone is in a learning process and making mistakes can help you let go of someone’s negative actions that have upset you.