My girlfriend is stealing from me. Should I break up with her?
I saw her taking money out of my wallet, and when i confronted her about it, she got mad and threatened to break up with me! I love her, but I don't like how she's being dishonest with me!
My depressed friend is driving me crazy?
My depressed friend is driving me crazy. Can't help her and she refuses to do anything, spends her time sleeping or obsessing over recent sad events. She's cut herself off from other friends and refuses to talk with them because THEY can't possibly understand her, NObody can understand her. She just announced her plans to remain like this for the rest of her life (if she doesn't kill herself first). She definitely has reason to be depressed (socially isolated, a recent crisis) but she won't try anything new or do much on her own (she has no friends in town) or do anything that her shrink suggests might improve her life/outlook. Our phone calls lately are: her sobbing and saying how her life sucks, me commiserating and suggesting she try doing this or that, her shooting down all the options and voicing negative thoughts about herself, me saying that I'm not going to listen to her insulting herself and that there are plenty of things she can do right now, her denying this, then sobbing... After two weeks of this (nightly), I'm losing my compassion. Talking to her is wearing me out & it's extremely frustrating. She tends to be a v. needy, jealous friend under the best circumstances. She sulks when I don’t include her on outings w/ my other friends. If I don't talk to her regularly, she guilt trips me and tosses p-a comments into the conversation. A year ago I decided I'd had enough and she called me up crying, hysterically begging to stay friends. There have been plenty of signs that she’s using her condition for emotional blackmail. But I don’t want to risk her killing herself (her shrink knows about this, is pushing for hospitalization; she won’t do it). FYI, she's not a minor, and she IS on meds. Help? Suggestions? What the h_ll do I say/do?
Becoming interested in exploring other options (people)? Should I break up with my boyfriend?
We've been together a long time. We know everything about each other, and I'd love to progress to the next step (marriage and kids) but he's not interested in that right now. For the past 3 years (we've been together a lot longer than that) I've been waiting for him to finally propose. Hasn't happened. I feel unhappy, like he's not in the same place that I am. The whole time we've been together, I've only had eyes for him. But now that it's obvious he doesn't want to get married anytime soon and that he never wants to go out and do things, and he'd rather stay home and watch TV and ignore that I'm trying to get his attention... I'm starting to notice other guys. I even have several co-workers that try to flirt with me daily, and before I'd firmly tell them I'm not interested. But now...it feels nice to actually be wanted. I don't feel that way with my boyfriend anymore. And I'd prefer to be with him, but he's not treating me the way I think I deserve (is it really that hard to have a real live conversation for half an hour every day?) I'm 28 so I'm not getting any younger. Should I just break up with him and explore my other options? Or just stick with him?
My girlfriends bestfriend kissed me?
WHATEVER YOU DO. DO NOT TELL YOUR GF! it will make everything go bad! your gf and her friend will get in a huge fight, and prolly won't be friend anymore! and you guys might break up! you don't know how this will end... Just keep it to yourself and pretend nothing ever happened. was she drunk? cause if she was, not that big of a deal right? Maybe she just had a crazy erge to kiss you, just don't let it happen again!!!!!!!!