Falling for your best guy friend?
I would recommend that you not try. You don't want to hear that, though do you? Well, if you want to "test the waters" to find out if he likes you back, a simple and blunt, "Do you like me?" will do the trick. Again, I wouldn't advise actually doing that though. A friendship is NEVER the same again after you ask a question like this. (This is assuming the answer is a no of course.) Believe me, once they know you're attracted to them, it's like finishing a book with an ending that leaves a bad taste in your mouth. They won't look at you the same way anymore. (That last part is true for both a yes or a no answer.) Because I know that you can't help feeling attracted to this person, you're better off finding out the answer now instead of holding off forever. A very good way to ruin the mood of the situation when you ask is when you start stressing out about it. Don't let yourself become awkward and indecisive when you go to ask, he's going to think something is wrong with you if you do. If you've been friends for a long time and slowly you've felt yourself falling for him, there's a good chance he feels the same. Basically, just keep a natural attitude about it, and if he says no then just get over it. There's really nothing you can do besides move on and find someone else.
My Best Guy friend is going to ask me out tomorrow?
Yeah I know.. It's just scary to take that step with your best friend because if it doesn't work out then you guys wont be friends anymore.. /:. I'll just say that I'm dating one of my best friends, and we have been going out for a year and ten months now! But then again, when we decided to pursue that kind of relationship both of us - asides from liking each other - were ready and looking for a serious relationship, like we were in the same page you know? Actually the day before our first kiss we had like a serious convo about how he wanted to take that step with me but wanted to be sure if it was ok because we had such an awesome friendship and didn't want to ruin it! And I thought that was really sweet. So I kinda feel you are in the same position, but what stands out to me is the fact that you said you usually lose interest in guys quickly and aren't really into dating. So because of that.. you have to be sure that you like him first!! Cuz what if the same happens again? That would suck!! So my advice is this: When you talk to him tomorrow, and he brings the subject up.. tell him that you like him too but you're scared of messing things up! Like you don't feel you're ready to be boyfriend and girlfriend yet and you guys should take things slow and see how it goes. Like hang out now and go on dates and stuff now that you both know you like each other and it's all out in the open.. And just see where that takes you :) I just don't think you should take that step right away so suddenly, more like ease into it so that you are sure of what you are doing every step of the way
Is it wrong to go after a guy that my best friend used to like (and might still)?
I see a word that has little meaning in today's world. It has little meaning to people that say they are. It is rarely said in honest fashion and most never have truly understood it. Your own blood does not maintain it most of the time and millions die because their leader abused it. Loyalty. You will find love before Loyalty. Its the hardest thing to find. There is your answer. It is a choice. Are you real enough to tell this friend and tell this person you wanted their blessing because of loyalty meant more, or are you a coward and choose a few moments over friendship. Choose.
How do you flirt with your guy’s best friend?
Straight answer: you don't do that, EVER.Respect your boyfriend and your relationship.If you think flirting with his best friend is going to make your boyfriend jealous and make him want you more, the answer is no. It will just upset him and he will probably break up with you. This would actually serve you right for playing silly games.If you genuinely are attracted to his best friend more than your boyfriend, break up with your boyfriend now. He deserves better.In your place I would still not pursue my attraction to the best friend but extricate myself from the situation completely. Not see him, not message, not keep in touch. This is just weird for all involved and if his best friend has any loyalty, he will simply ignore you as he should.There’s no winning in this situation for anyone. Don’t bring in unnecessary drama to both their lives and yours too.
How can I stop rumors going around about my best guy friend and I dating?
Ignore them.This used to happen with me and my best guy friend all of the time. People (friends/coworkers/family) could NOT comprehend why we didn’t want to date each other but hung out all of the time! Clearly, it’s because we weren’t interested in each other in that way! We really were just great friends!Whenever people would ask, we’d deny the rumors. We’d get these looks and comments but realized we were just fanning the flame whenever we’d address them.It sort of stopped when we started dating our significant others, although I found it very annoying whenever someone would say, “Awww, do you think you and “R” would ever hook up! You two would be so cute together!” Not only was it disrespectful to my SO, but I considered “R” to be like a brother so it felt wrong in every way!
My best guy friend asked me out!?
I really like him too, and I think we've both known for a while that there was something more than friendship. I don't want to ruin our friendship though!! We have been best friends for a long time. we always hangout. yesterday he asked me out and i said yes. But Im afraid if something happens that nothing will ever be the same. Please help!!
Experience dating your best guy friend?
I have, and to be honest - the relationship did end after a while. And our friendship did too. It took a few months for us to be on speaking terms. If any break ups or offense happens while you're dating you're best friend; it feels 10x stronger then from a regular boyfriend. You feel stronger betrayal, hurt deeper, and more depressed. This is because you were not only offended by you're boyfriend, but also by you're best friend, someone you've gotten to know so well and trust. But I think it was worth it. During the time I dated him I had the best experiences and memories from it all. Sure it was akward at first, but I know I couldn't have gotten the experiences with just a normal boyfriend. You know the phrase "the best type of couples are not only lovers, but best friends" or a long those lines? Its been in many movies....anyways, my point is, you and him are already comfortable around each other. You've skipped a few awkward weeks of first dating that couples go through. Now all you have left is each other, learning more (if there is more to learn) and how to live with one another.
My parents think im going out with my best friend?
so i have a best guy friend and im 15. we've been friends for four years but it feels like forever ahaha. he's very good looking, so yeah i've fancied him at some point or other and he's fancied me. we dont usually bring it up but we got off at a party once so yeah we've had SOME romanticish history. my parents of course still think (and hope) om in the 'boys are icky' stage. yaaaaahh. im really REALLY not. so i see my bestie a lot in the holidays (his name is dan) but my parents think we're going out?!? i mean in some sense it looks like that, we do a lot of alone stuff like movie nights and just having lunch at his place or going to town to the park. it's just annoying coz im seeing him today for coffee and my parents ask me soooo much about whats happening - this happens whenever we make plans. they're like 'so who else is coming? where will you go? times. exactly. just you two? how long is the film?' and i answer the same questions like 20 times before they stop. maybe because i dont open up to then about dan is why they feel we're dating. the only reason i dont talk about him is because when i used to talk about him lots my mum was like 'yoooouu have a cruuush'. so whatever i do, they still think we are going out. and my aunt was like 'i want to meet dan one day' and i was like HOW DO YOU KNOW HIM. and apparently he is my 'special friend'. and my parents are like 'we need to see more of dan first;)' and then i am really close to dan's mum so we chat a lot and my mum always mumbles later 'mothaaaa iinnn laaawww' -.- and his brother is the hottest guy ever so my parents always think dan looks like his brother = i love dan. i dont I DONT. how do i make them sop thinking we are going out?!?!?!?!?!??
I have a crush on my best guy friend, and he likes my best friend. He is going to ask her out. What do I do?
I am afraid there is really nothing you can do. Obviously he fancies someone else and you know who the object of his affection is.The only thing you can do is look at your best friend and try from an objective point of view and not in a jealous way but an admiring one... realize what is that she had that could have made him more prone to like her and not you. When I was young most of the crushes I had endep up liking my best friend... Objectively speaking she was taller than me and had longer legs. I used to think it was because she was prettier but no, what she had that I lacked it was self-esteem. She would say whatever crossed her mind and guys liked that.... again with self esteem you act and behave more confidently and attractive over all. I thought they used to like her because she was prettier had long hair and all that that... but perhaps the only thing that she had that I didn't that much was that self-esteem and confidence. Find out what she has that you don't... more psychological traits than physical traits and try to work on what you seem to lack in comparison to her or any other girls you see to be sucessful with guys. Start to fake it until you make it, and sooner than later it will be you being the target of all guys instead of your friend or at least the target of the ones you like. Going home and reading Jane Austin's novels also helped a lot to understand human behaviour and what makes guys like girls and that... and the other way around. So I learnt a lot and I tried to specialize on being the "interesting and original" one because I thought being "the pretty" one of the group was already taken. ;D
I got bad drunk and hit my best guy friend?
i got bad drunk to the point that i don't remember anything one night... but i ended up fighting (as in hitting and kicking) with my best guy friend (with benefits)... he told me he was never going to speak to me again... it's been two weeks...i love him to death and he loves me... but i don't know how to get him to talk to me again so we can try and work this out.